My story can be found on the blog linked above. My blog includes both my personal story and visa-related events along with information on this whole CR-1 process. Please check it out, it might help you :)For my complete timeline as well as important links, just look above under 'About Me'!
If your green card is in your married name and your passport is in your maiden name, just bring your marriage certificate. Simple as that And it's only a 2 year condition on the green card. That's why you apply for ROC two years after POE (90 days within your expiration on your green card).