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Samoray reacted to Beauty for Ashes in Dead fiancées
Lets say MANY arabic men provide for their wives. But SOME freeload off the American women that sponsored them, SOME cheat on their American sponsor wives with other women and SOME married the American only for papers or financial game and have literally destroyed the life of the woman and her family.
You can never generalise about an entire group of people. Its not that arab guys do this more than Americans because they do not but SOME of the marriages that have been on the boards have involved physical and emotional abuse as well as game playing to get a visa , get over here and get gone.
You can never group and entire group of people by any classification
I am glad you love your wife to death.. thats great to hear
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Samoray reacted to N M in How to kick my wife out of this country?
If he dumps her back In Belize, he hopes to escape any financial obligations he might otherwise face (if they simply divorced and she stayed in the U.S.)?
Just my cynical take on his position.
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Samoray reacted to Aztec&Taino in How to kick my wife out of this country?
Your comment made me think of how some mean people abandon their unwanted pets by driving far away and leaving them to fend for themselves as they drive off. Listen, she is your wife and not an unwanted animal. You should be honest with her. If you do no longer want to be with her then say so and ask for a divorce rather than tricking her into going to Belize with you and leave her there.
As far as removing the conditions of her permanent residence, she might still be able to remove the conditions on her own if she can prove that the marriage was entered in good faith and things just did not work out. You cannot just ship her back to her country now that you have realized she is "very ignorant and stubborn," according to you.
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Samoray reacted to Brother Hesekiel in How to kick my wife out of this country?
I understand that you have given up on your marriage for reason you outlined, so a divorce maybe indeed the way for you to proceed. I'm not sure, however, why you would want to make this an immigration issue.
Common sense and experience tells us that the easiest way out is to pave the way for an easy divorce. Tell your wife that you do not wish to continue to stay in this marriage, find an apartment for her, and be nice enough a man and husband to make this transition into a single life for you and her as easy and smooth as possible.
If you start a fight over immigration, you may get caught up in a spousal abuse case, for really no good reason. Have an uncontested divorce, and move on with your life, while allowing your wife to go on with hers.
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Samoray reacted to Gemmie in How to kick my wife out of this country?
Why does it matter to you if she's "removed from the country"?
She's allowed to stay if she likes, since she married you in good faith. And quite frankly, why shouldn't she be allowed to; she gave up everything in her home country to be with you. You BOTH entered this marriage, so why should SHE be punished and leave your life the way it was? Take some responsibility.
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Samoray got a reaction from Darnell in Question about dating photos
Hello
You can include a note with the pictures stating that even though the marriage ceremony ( Party ) occurred in the 8th of august, the marriage
certificate was issued and dated the next day which is the 9th, that way you are safe if you labeled the pictures with the 8th of
August. and you fill in the i-130 application with the date on the marriage certificate.
Good luck
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Samoray reacted to DouglasFiel in Another pedantic I-130 question
I kept much of the continued relationship documentation for the interview itself.
Just need to prove that she is a valid candidate for a visa at this point.
This is what my cover letter looked like,, and no RFEs.
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DATE:04/07/2009
NATURE OF THE SUBMISSION: I-130 ORIGINAL SUBMISSION
TO WHOM IT MAY CONCERN:
Dear USCIS,
Enclosed please find form I-130, Petition for Alien Relative, and the supporting documents.
The petition is filed by a United States Citizen (USC) on behalf of my spouse a citizen of
the Philippines.
PETITIONER:
{My Info here}
BENEFICIARY:
{Her Info here}
□ Check
□ I-130 petition filed by USC, petitioner on behalf of ALIEN, beneficiary
□ I-130 addendum (additional information in support of I-130)
□ Copy of Birth Certificate of USC
□ Copy of Birth Certificate of ALIEN
□ Copy of Marriage Certificate (copy from church – much clearer)
□ Copy of Marriage Certificate (copy of the registered marriage license from the local register)
□ G-325a Completed by USC
□ G-325a Completed by USC - Addendum
□ Passport type picture of USC
□ G-325a Completed by ALIEN
□ G-325a Completed by ALIEN - Addendum
□ Passport type Picture of ALIEN
□ Proof of Bona Fide Marriage (Note: Married on 3/21/09)
o Selection of Pictures that document relationship, wedding and marriage
o Affidavit
Thank you,
{my name here}
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Regards,
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Samoray got a reaction from magdasal in Another pedantic I-130 question
Hello
First USCIS wants the ORIGINALS of the affidavits of course not copies
Second you can staple them no problem and keep the evidence organized and preferably make a notice on each stack of papers Reflecting whats in it,
For example ( Photos of our wedding ), etc, to make it easy for the officer to review your petition.
Good luck