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GnBnL got a reaction from elmcitymaven in am i overreacting about this porn thing?
you have to keep in mind that it is porn we're talking about...its is entirely based on fantasy, and it is not real...hence why men think in real life they can spend 3 mintues with a girl and she'll be breaking glass with her vocal performance... Incest is wrong and in no way would I enjoy hearing about it, but a lot of porn out there is incest based and is a popular fantasy...step dad and daughter, or step son and step mom, that is all considered the incest category. Doesn't mean a person is sick, as fantasies are most often not to be taken literally. Just a reflection of a psychological desire. I do not know what the particular material is we're talking about, and there is def some more hard core versions out there, but all in all, its porn, its not real.
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GnBnL got a reaction from twellspeak in am i overreacting about this porn thing?
you have to keep in mind that it is porn we're talking about...its is entirely based on fantasy, and it is not real...hence why men think in real life they can spend 3 mintues with a girl and she'll be breaking glass with her vocal performance... Incest is wrong and in no way would I enjoy hearing about it, but a lot of porn out there is incest based and is a popular fantasy...step dad and daughter, or step son and step mom, that is all considered the incest category. Doesn't mean a person is sick, as fantasies are most often not to be taken literally. Just a reflection of a psychological desire. I do not know what the particular material is we're talking about, and there is def some more hard core versions out there, but all in all, its porn, its not real.
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GnBnL got a reaction from VanessaTony in am i overreacting about this porn thing?
I believe that was just an example.
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GnBnL got a reaction from TheFantastics09 in how many would do it again
I would say I would absolutely do it again...next time, I would know exactly what to expect, and it would make it so much easier!
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GnBnL got a reaction from Americangirl10 in Very very very tough life now... Plz HELP
Hi there, I know its so hard to adjust to a place where everything is new and you feel your skills are overlooked. I'm sorry for your hardship, but as I've said before, there are a lot of lazy people out there, and the right employer will see your ambition and hire you! It takes time, and you are not alone! Don't let it reflect your skills and your accomplishments! remember how far you've come and never lose sight of it!!! You have already made your dreams come true, your fault is that you are too strong willed which is not a fault at all! keep at it, and eventually you will end up in the right place. Do not fret, and have confidence in yourself! you are already half way there!
good luck to you!
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GnBnL got a reaction from beejay in 8 weeks pregnant, Can I divorce and go back home?
a reminder that we're not here to judge one another. She should do what she deems best for her and her child. It can be very hard to go through a pregnancy without the support of friends and family.
Good luck to you OP! I'm sorry it didn't work out for you.
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GnBnL got a reaction from Empress of Groovy in Like Crazy
Well, I'm from Canada, and I had the unfortunate situation of being denied entry and not being able to cross the border for a certain amount of time. So, yeah, I can relate. My fiance and I were apart for two years because of it. I was supposed to be gone for 2 months....so while I certainly feel for the other countries that are given a hard time, trust me, it certainly wasn't easy to be in interrogation for 3 hours while they yelled at me, left me alone for periods of time, and threatened to arrest me... To this day I am nervous to travel even domestically when I had been traveling freely across the US border my whole life. Just sayin'.....
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GnBnL got a reaction from stefan y karen in K1 Visa Stress Relief
Commit to doing yoga. It saved me. It became like religion for me! it allows you to release so much pain like you never imagined you even had. I used to be a "yoga is for hippies!" type, but I was desperate to do SOMETHING other than self destructive things. Really, it really is amazing! It even relieved my headaches when nothing else did! Buy a good mat! try and relax! there's nothing you can do right now. OTher things may include focusing on developing the relationships with the people around you because your life is about to change big time and it may not be as easy to do once that happens. Write letters, read a book, exercise, take a class..... good luck to you. Hope you find relief soon. I feel for you!
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GnBnL got a reaction from dukeandduchess in K1 Visa Stress Relief
Commit to doing yoga. It saved me. It became like religion for me! it allows you to release so much pain like you never imagined you even had. I used to be a "yoga is for hippies!" type, but I was desperate to do SOMETHING other than self destructive things. Really, it really is amazing! It even relieved my headaches when nothing else did! Buy a good mat! try and relax! there's nothing you can do right now. OTher things may include focusing on developing the relationships with the people around you because your life is about to change big time and it may not be as easy to do once that happens. Write letters, read a book, exercise, take a class..... good luck to you. Hope you find relief soon. I feel for you!
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GnBnL got a reaction from Sammy&Marq in New here
Sorry, you will have to be patient on this one, but ya know what? the time is gonna pass either way. go for it!
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GnBnL got a reaction from jpidgley in just got my NOA2 email. Just want to check i have the next step right
congrats! I have nothing to add for info haha! but I am just so happy for you and everyone that gets their NOA2! I can't wait to get ours.