piglett

The next steps are getting married, have your husband pay for a new house for your parents in PI, pay for your nieces private schooling, business for sister, etc. I'm joking

Welcome to America! Enjoy your first Christmas here.

C-monkey you forgot about the new fishing boat & the nice new car

piglett

look guy the cold harsh truth is that she played you like a cheep flute.

your dam sure not the 1ST guy to get screw over & used by a woman & you sure will not be the last either.

Stop trying to be a nice guy & send the fruad home N O W ! ! !

if you don't you are going to get screw over even more than you already have.

once she is out of the country then you can take some time to lick your wounds

the good news is that there are about 20 million ladies in S.E. Asia that would just love to be your next wife & most of them are not frauds & they will treat you like you should be treated.

sorry to be so harsh but you need to snap out of it & start doing what's rite for YOU!!!

good luck guy

piglett

i hope they find the bonehead that left it there & put him in the deepest darkest hole in the local jail

piglett

i think i have it , thanks for your help

I'll post what i ended up with so others will know what is needed

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Dear USCIS examiner:

Enclosed please find my I-130 Application also my G325a and supporting documents.

please also find the moneyorder for $355 to cover the fees

Enclosed also please find the following documents:

. Form I-130: Petition for Alien Relative (my wife)

. Copy of the full Birth certificate (front and back) for the US Citizen (myself)

. A copy of my marriage certificate

. a G-325A filled out by myself

. One passport-type photo of myself attached to a sheet of paper

. a G-325A filled out by my wife Marily Rago Evans

. One passport-type photo of my wife

. Evidence of a bonafide marriage which includes the following

. 3 sworn affidavits from principal sponsers of our wedding

that took place on 06/05/2010

. a copy of our wedding invitation

. a wedding picture of myself & my wife on the day of our

church wedding

. I will be glad to provide any additional information including

any or all of the 500 pictures that i took while visiting the

Philippines for my wedding there

Our wedding sponsors included local government officials

(including the mayor & his wife)

Also prominent members of the local church & community

Please advise me if you have any further questions or concerns related to this application.

Sincerely,

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thanks, piglett

actually i love crispy pata. i just don't want to eat rice accompanied meals all the time.

Welcome to life with a pinay !!!

that's almost all my wife eats is that dam fish & rice.

have you thought of taking her to the local preist & asking for some help?

maybe he can help smooth over some of her rough spots.

i myself think she is really in love with you but just doesn't trust you for whatever reason.

have you EVER given her a reason to not trust you 100% ???

maybe it's time to lay out some ground rules for her

something like "woman i am going to work now & when i get back i want some kind of meal on the table & all those clothes washed".............. did you ever try that?

it may make some of the ladies here mad but that mite be how i would handle it myself.

be a strong mad & ask her to step up & be a strong woman to back you up.

there that's my 2 cents worth

piglett

One question for you all... What is the largest number of people you have seen on one motobike ?

i was on the back of 1 alng with my wife & her cousin the 1st day i was in the province.

all i could hang onto was the dam tail light

the next day i said screw it & borrowed 1 & started riding it

i didn't go 2 fast the 1st couple of days but after that i was ok.

I think the next time we go there i will price one of those little mini trucks

many run about a 1000cc engine & would be great way out in the sticks.

have you seen those "baby" truck in S.E. Asia?

I have even seen a couple up here in new hampshire but most are not run on the road.

piglett

Look, perhaps I came across as harsh, and I did not mean to come across as harsh

hey no permanent harm done

piglett

here is my table of contents

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table of contents

this packet includes the following

1. a cover sheet

2. this table of contents

3. Form I-130: Petition for Alien Relative (my wife)

4. Copy of the full Birth certificate (front and back) for the US Citizen (myself)

5. A copy of my marriage certificate

6. a G-325A filled out by myself

7. One passport-type photo of myself attached to a sheet of paper

8. a G-325A filled out by my wife Marily Rago Evans

9. One passport-type photo of my wife

10.Evidence of a bonafide marriage which includes the following

A. 3 sworn affidavits from principal sponsers of our wedding

that took place on 06/05/2010

B. a copy of our wedding invitation

C. a wedding picture of myself & my wife on the day of out church wedding

D. I will be glad to provide any additional information including any or all of the

500 pictures that i took while visiting the Philippines for my wedding there

Our wedding sponsors included local government officials (including the mayor & his wife)

Also prominent members of the local church & community

**********************************************************************************************************************

I see that i didn't put the moneyorder on the list , could that cause a problem?

thanks my brain is starting to turn to mush with all this dam paperwork

piglett

here is my cover sheet

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Cover sheet

I am petitioning for a I-130 for my wife Marily Rago Evans

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am i missing anything except for signing & dating the thing??

when i've told him i would divorce him rather than move there before certain things would happen he says he will move to ecuador or malaysia or wherever i want to go so we can be together but anytime i begin working toward anything he again moves the plans back to pakistan.

so for those of you who said "no way"... what would you do if you HAD to move to your SO's country or divorce?

for those who said you'd go anywhere just to be with your SO (and i know how you feel!), would you go as far as to entrust your SO to protect your life?

My wife is from the Philippines & in some of the southern areas there it would not be a safe place for me to live, SO I WILL JUST NOT MOVE TO THOSE AREAS!!! My wife loves me so i know for a fact that she would never ask me to move to those dangerous places. lucky for me she is from the centeral part of the Philippines & it's so safe on the island where she is from that many people don't even have doors on their houses.

now if my wife decided that after living here in the US that she just hated it & couldn't stand it one more day i guess i would move back with her to the remote province where she is from & do my best to be happy there.

I myself have never been to Pakistan but if it's just not safe for you there then you just can't go ....can you?

good luck

piglett

Im not sure dropped was the word you were looking for, But you can REMOVE someone from YOUR car insurance. I am on my Husbands car insurance and he can remove me from his insurance whenever. I removed my ex Off MY car insurance a few years back without any problems...I started the policy and then added him on a few months later and when we split I called them and asked them to remove him from my policy/coverage.

Yes there is always three sides to the story but we dont know his so I will take her word for it and advice as if the situation is as she says it is.

EXACTLY, he is not on here but she is & it looks like she could use some help so i figured i would throw a few things out that she should look into.

piglett

That is not how an insurance policy works. Please don't give out "advice" on topics where you are not fluent. If they are still married and the policy is in both of their names he cannot be "dropped" without permission. Furthermore, he has to live outside of the residence for at least 30 days before he can be "dropped".

sorry but that is not always the case

it can & has been done in the past i didn't do it but i was made aware or it by a family member.

just like most people insurance agents are for the most part trusting.

i would bet good money that if i called up my local agent & told them to drop a vehicle on my policy that they would do it without any real problem. now having said that maybe i should have been more clear & said drop the car he is driving & get a new policy in just your name when it's time to renew your policy.

piglett

Im not even sure where this is going to go or how I even retrieve it. My husband is a FRAUD. and I really need help in sending him back home, he really thought he had me fooled, what a fing idiot I am, any way...can anyone help me as where to begin the process of sending him home, as I dont have a lot of money for divorce right now ?

Please help

WOW i'm so sorry your husband turned out the way he did.

people like him make it much harder for everyone else to get there husbands/wifes here

If you have any bank accounts, credit cards/debit cards in both your names change that ASAP

also if you & he both have your car insurance with the same company drop his car TODAY!!!

i would cut ties with him & do all i could to build a strong case against him.

in time i am sure you will find another person to share your life with

i myself went to the other side of the planet to find the rite person but i found her

best of luck

piglett

ooooh! i misread! i thought you meant regular timeline

go to top/right, click on "settings", then on next page click on "profile" on left, then "change signature" also on left, and make sure to click "save changes" when done

Hey thanks Nab that did the trick

i'm just not sure why the VJ people make it so hard to make that happen.

thanks

piglett

It's a little confusing. The "timeline" that you enter data for isn't the stuff that shows at the bottom of a post. That's just their signature (edited under the profile settings). The actual timeline is a link by your screen name.

oh i found the timeline that is just below the flag

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i just can't figure out the rest

well due to the fact that this topic has turned into.............. well not exactly sure what it has turned into

here is my question, if i go to the airport & get felt up will i then know how to make my timeline show up under my posts?

i started one but i doesn't show up do the TSA storm troopers know the secret or are they only good for playing with your balls???

thanks

piglett

Have any of you guy's had the experience of boarding a ferry yet ?

here is a pictures of the old tub my wife & i took to her home province

i sure didn't like the 20 hour boat ride but i survived.

they assign you a bunk to sleep on but i only ended up getting about 4 hours sleep due to the heat & the rough seas

next time i think i will take a small plane to a near by island & then take a 3 hour boat ride to my wifes island that has no airport

piglett

Pffft. mawilson is a gecko. I say he is from South Africa.

yes yes yes he is on TV all the time trying to sell us car insurance

piglett

well my timeline has been started but it fails to show up when i post like many other here have

is there something that i have to click? check? so that it will start to show up????????

thanks

piglett

Sorry to hear about what has happened to you

keep your chin up & in time you will start to feel better

having said that change the locks at your house ASAP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

if she has your credit card or debit card cancel it RITE NOW!!!!!!!!!

do find out through a P.I. where she is & turn over all info to uscis/ice

people like her make it hard for the rest of us, so please don't cut her ANY slack

good luck

piglett

some people like to ask the same question over & over again until they get the answer they like

it doesn't look like it is working in this case though

maybe the old saying "either sh*t or get off the pot" is the proper advice here

come to the U.S. & stay. in time you will find a job & then you can get your dual pasport.

sounds ez to me

piglett

when i was in my wifes home province in the Philippines we went to a different aunt or uncle every day & borrowed a motor bike. they were all 125cc & all hondas. at 1ST i didn't like those dam things ( i was used to driving my truck at home) but in time i got a little better with them & lucky for me no one got killed

now granted where we were was a very remote island so there were very few other bikes on the mostly dirt roads.

I would NEVER ride one in Manila or any other Asian city

piglett

The paralegal did it correctly. Your own G325a should be checked and noted the same way. You are submitting the G325a in connection with an I-130. I generally recommend simply "I-130 CR1 visa."

A ha i was in the dark on that one myself

thank you Pushback

the copy that i have of my wifes passport has her maiden name

send it anyhow? i don't see this listed on the I-130 checklist

is more better or will sending thing that they have not asked for just p*ss them off or delay the process

thanks

usually cost of living is much cheaper in the foreign country, wait times for the visa and all is so long, have you ever considered just throwing in the towel, moving to the SO's country and building life there?

if you have done that, or are considering it, i'd like to hear your thoughts on it.

Well in my situation my wife is a nurse & the pay for her in her home country is very low so moving to the Philippines will probably not work for me till i retire then i we may decide to have a house there

piglett

No. This question indicates you failed to carefully study the I-130 instructions. This is a critical mistake. Study them now, so you'll avoid other issues you don't know you don't know about.

how was i to know that i just didn't know,

thanks

piglett