moroccanwife

I couldn't agree more with so many comments on here. I especially like the comment about relationships here based on lust. And so many of you said it...why on earth would you commit to be engaged to someone without going there and meeting them first. I also agree that the length of time a couple is required to be together should be much longer. There are so many fraud cases out there. In my case, I talked with my husband online for almost a year before I went to visit him. There were no talks of marriage or a visa. When I was there with him for almost a month, that's when talks of marriage began. But we both knew it would be a while longer before we were sure of that. I went again that following year and met his family...spending that time with him...what made me decide to do the K1 visa was not "could I live with this man for all my life?"...it was "could i live without him all my life?" I couldn't have made a better decision. The entire process took a long time...but it was time we both needed to realize what it means to be in love and appreciate our time together.

I couldn't agree more with so many comments on here. I especially like the comment about relationships here based on lust. And so many of you said it...why on earth would you commit to be engaged to someone without going there and meeting them first. I also agree that the length of time a couple is required to be together should be much longer. There are so many fraud cases out there. In my case, I talked with my husband online for almost a year before I went to visit him. There were no talks of marriage or a visa. When I was there with him for almost a month, that's when talks of marriage began. But we both knew it would be a while longer before we were sure of that. I went again that following year and met his family...spending that time with him...what made me decide to do the K1 visa was not "could I live with this man for all my life?"...it was "could i live without him all my life?" I couldn't have made a better decision. The entire process took a long time...but it was time we both needed to realize what it means to be in love and appreciate our time together.

If I were you...I would go to that interview and give them an ear full of information.

If I were you...I would go to that interview and give them an ear full of information.

ha ha put on ur big girl panties here and try to act like an adult. First of all I never called you crazy. You simply gave your opinion. However, I think I'm a pretty intelligent individual and if I thought my husband and son needed a shrink, that's what I would have done. However, I dont think this situation warrants that sort of attention yet. I was simply looking for advise from mature individuals. And if someone wants to share there experience of what he/she knows...so be it...what is it to you? If you don't like this sort of forum...why are you reading it? Sure there is a lot of drama here, but there is also a lot of helpful suggestions. If you have nothing nice to say...don't say anything. I know initiating a question usually leads to negative responses and a lot of drama...seems to me you are the one causing it. No need to post anything else here as I'm not interested in anything you have to say. When you have something useful or helpful to say...then feel free.

ha ha put on ur big girl panties here and try to act like an adult. First of all I never called you crazy. You simply gave your opinion. However, I think I'm a pretty intelligent individual and if I thought my husband and son needed a shrink, that's what I would have done. However, I dont think this situation warrants that sort of attention yet. I was simply looking for advise from mature individuals. And if someone wants to share there experience of what he/she knows...so be it...what is it to you? If you don't like this sort of forum...why are you reading it? Sure there is a lot of drama here, but there is also a lot of helpful suggestions. If you have nothing nice to say...don't say anything. I know initiating a question usually leads to negative responses and a lot of drama...seems to me you are the one causing it. No need to post anything else here as I'm not interested in anything you have to say. When you have something useful or helpful to say...then feel free.

ha ha put on ur big girl panties here and try to act like an adult. First of all I never called you crazy. You simply gave your opinion. However, I think I'm a pretty intelligent individual and if I thought my husband and son needed a shrink, that's what I would have done. However, I dont think this situation warrants that sort of attention yet. I was simply looking for advise from mature individuals. And if someone wants to share there experience of what he/she knows...so be it...what is it to you? If you don't like this sort of forum...why are you reading it? Sure there is a lot of drama here, but there is also a lot of helpful suggestions. If you have nothing nice to say...don't say anything. I know initiating a question usually leads to negative responses and a lot of drama...seems to me you are the one causing it. No need to post anything else here as I'm not interested in anything you have to say. When you have something useful or helpful to say...then feel free.

ha ha put on ur big girl panties here and try to act like an adult. First of all I never called you crazy. You simply gave your opinion. However, I think I'm a pretty intelligent individual and if I thought my husband and son needed a shrink, that's what I would have done. However, I dont think this situation warrants that sort of attention yet. I was simply looking for advise from mature individuals. And if someone wants to share there experience of what he/she knows...so be it...what is it to you? If you don't like this sort of forum...why are you reading it? Sure there is a lot of drama here, but there is also a lot of helpful suggestions. If you have nothing nice to say...don't say anything. I know initiating a question usually leads to negative responses and a lot of drama...seems to me you are the one causing it. No need to post anything else here as I'm not interested in anything you have to say. When you have something useful or helpful to say...then feel free.

ha ha put on ur big girl panties here and try to act like an adult. First of all I never called you crazy. You simply gave your opinion. However, I think I'm a pretty intelligent individual and if I thought my husband and son needed a shrink, that's what I would have done. However, I dont think this situation warrants that sort of attention yet. I was simply looking for advise from mature individuals. And if someone wants to share there experience of what he/she knows...so be it...what is it to you? If you don't like this sort of forum...why are you reading it? Sure there is a lot of drama here, but there is also a lot of helpful suggestions. If you have nothing nice to say...don't say anything. I know initiating a question usually leads to negative responses and a lot of drama...seems to me you are the one causing it. No need to post anything else here as I'm not interested in anything you have to say. When you have something useful or helpful to say...then feel free.

I'm confused...since when is it ok for your child to dictate who you marry? her husband sounds like a very nice man. I dont recall her saying she wasn't there for her children. And as a matter of fact...I recall her saying that her daughter decided to like him again at one point...which tells me her husband welcomed her back into his life...only for her daughter to dislike him again. Her husband sounds very patient. Look, there are bad people in all religions, cultures and ages. I don't think you are being fair.

hee hee no kiddin!!