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tnx for posting this cause here i am, frustrated as hell, thinking its my stupid connection. Well, i guess, we dont need any info ... good to see that all the money we pay during this whole thing are being nicely invested :-) or not ...
i still hold a grudge against how i was treated last time by them so im sorry for my sarcasm.
hopefully it will work soon enough

Thank you! You are a blessing :-) gave me some peace. I'm about to check it out. Thanks again for the help. Means a lot

Please dont feel depressed nor discouraged. We all have went through the same thing that you have and we all know how it feels when you walk into that gate and when you leave the one you love behind. We went though it three times and every time it hurt just the same, maybe even more because the bound is bigger and stronger as time goes by. But dont loose your hope now, you have put so much into this relationship and you have only a month or so to go, so cheer up, and lift up your head because sun does shine above those clouds. Focus on the things that will help you cheer up. The documents you need to get ready, or start thinking about your wedding ....anything but dont loose hope
Things will be ok :-) you will see

But as you can see for yourself, there is no appropriate time. Some people who filed in February already got their Noa 2, so should we be angry with them or someone else just because they were better luck then the rest of us?? No! We are all here for one purpose, to help each other through out this painful and hard process. So, we should wish them good luck on the rest of the journey and perhaps better luck for the rest who are still waiting. I, for example, am aware of how long it will probably take for me to be together with my fiance, but i wont be angry if someone who filed after us would complain. I would try to understand them. Maybe encourage them and let them know that this is not such a quick process. Many people when they apply for K1 visa, think "yeah, its a 5-6 months waiting time, but can it be really that much? Nah, its probably just the high time frame." I admit, that we were like that when it started. We were so pumped up with hope and we thought that even though its 6 month waiting, we may be lucky and get it in 3-4 months. As we spent more time among VJ members, people with more experience, we learned that things dont go so smooth, specially in Vermont.
We shouldnt be angry with each other .... we should help and try to understand. Those who have more experience, should help those who are new in this, and give hope. That is why we joined VJ, to seek help, and thank God, we came to the right place. People here were so wonderful and helped us with the K1 package.
Im grateful.
Lets not judge on who did what ... i think we should unite and help each other in any way we can. Maybe im idealistic in that thought, but we are all more or less in the same "mess" here, so .... lets be more supportive?
I really hope that you get your noa 2 as soon as possible. Cause right now, im learning patience, and its one hard lesson to learn, i admit that I cant imagine how you must feel, so i really hope and wish your noa 2 comes very soon.
Good luck to everyone here now how about that tweeting?

Well, im a December filer and i dont think its right to be pissed off by us. I have never read anyone offending another person here just by their complaint.. So we complain --- we are only humans, some of us are more patient, some of us arent. If you cant read people complaining, then dont open those posts. Its normal, and for someone who is already in this process you should know how much this process can affect both the mental and the emotional state of everyone here. People here try to find comfort and understanding, so lets give that one to another?!?
Should i be pissed off at January and February filers who are being inpatient and want their second noa next Monday? No, actually quite opposite, i wish them all the luck. And i say that with my heart and mind open. Just because i may get stuck in this process, wont make me be angry with others who may be luckier then us.
Good luck people, to all of us .... september, or october or november or december or january, february, march..... and those yet to come.