cappucino boy

I know her and I have to say that she has been through alot. I think that one of the things which not apparent to those who write is what do you do if you have no car, no money or anyway of getting any or a job, it's uncomfortable to live at the only place you can call home, your husband who brought you here hates you and won't help you complete your papers and much more has happened. What do you do and you still need to be responsible for a young child. No one is handing you money nor are the agencies that are non-profit that willing to help. What I do expect is that anyone from VJ who reads this thread try and understand how hard this is for a person who support system is no longer in place. She is asking for help and if you can't say anything that is of use or of value to her just don't comment. I for one would like to do as much as I can to help. She doesn't deserve any of this all she done is try and love her child love her husband and make life work in a county and a husband that isn't allowing her to stay. She'd probably left a long time ago but her son is a US citizen and she cannot leave without a passport or her husbands permission, she loves her son.

I know her and I have to say that she has been through alot. I think that one of the things which not apparent to those who write is what do you do if you have no car, no money or anyway of getting any or a job, it's uncomfortable to live at the only place you can call home, your husband who brought you here hates you and won't help you complete your papers and much more has happened. What do you do and you still need to be responsible for a young child. No one is handing you money nor are the agencies that are non-profit that willing to help. What I do expect is that anyone from VJ who reads this thread try and understand how hard this is for a person who support system is no longer in place. She is asking for help and if you can't say anything that is of use or of value to her just don't comment. I for one would like to do as much as I can to help. She doesn't deserve any of this all she done is try and love her child love her husband and make life work in a county and a husband that isn't allowing her to stay. She'd probably left a long time ago but her son is a US citizen and she cannot leave without a passport or her husbands permission, she loves her son.

I know her and I have to say that she has been through alot. I think that one of the things which not apparent to those who write is what do you do if you have no car, no money or anyway of getting any or a job, it's uncomfortable to live at the only place you can call home, your husband who brought you here hates you and won't help you complete your papers and much more has happened. What do you do and you still need to be responsible for a young child. No one is handing you money nor are the agencies that are non-profit that willing to help. What I do expect is that anyone from VJ who reads this thread try and understand how hard this is for a person who support system is no longer in place. She is asking for help and if you can't say anything that is of use or of value to her just don't comment. I for one would like to do as much as I can to help. She doesn't deserve any of this all she done is try and love her child love her husband and make life work in a county and a husband that isn't allowing her to stay. She'd probably left a long time ago but her son is a US citizen and she cannot leave without a passport or her husbands permission, she loves her son.

I know her and I have to say that she has been through alot. I think that one of the things which not apparent to those who write is what do you do if you have no car, no money or anyway of getting any or a job, it's uncomfortable to live at the only place you can call home, your husband who brought you here hates you and won't help you complete your papers and much more has happened. What do you do and you still need to be responsible for a young child. No one is handing you money nor are the agencies that are non-profit that willing to help. What I do expect is that anyone from VJ who reads this thread try and understand how hard this is for a person who support system is no longer in place. She is asking for help and if you can't say anything that is of use or of value to her just don't comment. I for one would like to do as much as I can to help. She doesn't deserve any of this all she done is try and love her child love her husband and make life work in a county and a husband that isn't allowing her to stay. She'd probably left a long time ago but her son is a US citizen and she cannot leave without a passport or her husbands permission, she loves her son.

Yeppoyo,
I'm going to weight in here and only because I'm a guy and well we guy's think alike. Girl first of all if a guy is looking at porn and you do look like the porn girls he's looking at then he only with you because of the sex. If he could get sex from some woman who looks as you described then he would be out in a heart beat. I hate to say this but you are a last resort to a problem that he has which is bigger than you. We guys look at porn with women we wish we could have sex with but can't. And if we masturbate...he's definitely not masturbating about YOU! He can have sex with you anytime but not there womemn of his dreams which sounds like isn't you. You are just a temporary diversion to find something better more like what he into. You have got to get out and get away, In my opinion your relationship can only end and it will not last. If you try and fool yourself and say it will be okay...it will NOT. It may be hard but you deserve better....tell yourself that and don't let go of it. One of things of a commited relationshiop with love is to give up stuff the other person may find offensive or that which will destroy the relationship. PORN will destroy your relationship and it will not last. I know that this may sound harsh and be harsh but I know if other guys are reading this and being truthfull with themselves, they know what I am saying is true. We don't want our VJ profiles to be connected to this type of venue "PORN" but if you want a truthful assessment I feel like I have given you one. Don't walk from this relationship, Girl you need to RUN, fast far and quick. If you do because of an easy ready woman for sex he will come crawling to get more until he finds someone..something else to fill this desire. Beleive me if sex with you could've filled it he would have dropped the porn like a hot rock but alas he's addicted....sadly addicted and you are only a toy to be thrown away!

Lostlove,
I know that you have had plenty responses but I just want to add one more in aggreement to everyone else please don't end that baby's life. The real key is for you to be healthy both mentally and physically. It's understanding from a man's perspective that we just can't sit around and let a woman support us especially if we have been self supporting. My response to him is get over it and move on, you have a baby coming and it's time to plan. You stated that you have a good job well I'm assuming that you can keep it in spite of being pregnant and later after the baby is born. It sounds like to me that perhaps him not having a job is a blessing so that there is someone at home to care for the baby. It might not be perfect but it is a plan and you definitely have a plan to make this work. I notice that you have submitted to the California service Center are you in CA and if so where? I'm here in L.A.
I hope that you are able to work this out, my wife wants a baby but right now I can't make one so I hope that you are able to work this out. Children are a blessing and I hope that he sees the light and works out this difficulty and supports you and the baby.
Just my 2 cents, please let us know what happens.
B. Franklin