Well, lets see.. I've been a computer nerd since the early 90's, I met my very first boyfriend on a dial up chat BBS before the world wide web existed.. So, when I met Moulay Idriss on Facebook in 2008 on a fan page for a Moroccan rap group we both like, it was no big deal for me to feel a connection to him very early on.
I stalked him online for months, I thought he was gorgeous, and in Feb of 2009, I traveled to Morocco to meet him. Sparks flew, a child was conceived, and I returned to the States to incubate and prepare to file for a K1 visa.
I had to wait 16 months for my divorce to finalize (waiting 16 months to end a 4 month marriage can be a little frustrating, especially when carrying another man's kid), but in Feb 2010, I finally was able to file, and moved to Morocco to wait out the interview with our then 3 month old daughter.
Say what you will about our relationship and it's unconventional circumstances, I love my chubby wubby, long haired, nerdy Moroccan man.
I promise I am not an a-hole. I just can't stand fraud. I try to be so helpful to people. I don't know everything, but I know a little and hope it helps some people.
It bothers me to see people who do try to do all illegally. Making it hard on the rest of us. Stupid people even ask questions here and immigration reads this site. Anyone thinking they don't, is foolish.