Well, lets see.. I've been a computer nerd since the early 90's, I met my very first boyfriend on a dial up chat BBS before the world wide web existed.. So, when I met Moulay Idriss on Facebook in 2008 on a fan page for a Moroccan rap group we both like, it was no big deal for me to feel a connection to him very early on.
I stalked him online for months, I thought he was gorgeous, and in Feb of 2009, I traveled to Morocco to meet him. Sparks flew, a child was conceived, and I returned to the States to incubate and prepare to file for a K1 visa.
I had to wait 16 months for my divorce to finalize (waiting 16 months to end a 4 month marriage can be a little frustrating, especially when carrying another man's kid), but in Feb 2010, I finally was able to file, and moved to Morocco to wait out the interview with our then 3 month old daughter.
Say what you will about our relationship and it's unconventional circumstances, I love my chubby wubby, long haired, nerdy Moroccan man.
I promise I am not an a-hole. I just can't stand fraud. I try to be so helpful to people. I don't know everything, but I know a little and hope it helps some people.
I think most people who are confident in their relationships who read your posts probably gets this. I think when you say things that hit home and make people wonder about their red flags, that's when people get upset and act like you are an a-hole. It seems clear to me, at least!
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