adam1

Its raining crazy tonight, I'm staying home waching a movie with my guy friends.

So now...what does that make you?

A H

CONGRATULATIONS!!!

you fell better now. what does this make u?

So now...what does that make you?

A H

I went to the beach with 4 girls and I slept in the midle, and I didn't do anything wrong. they are just friends no attraction.

Well, my fiance did NOT sleep in the middle

No wonder your girl is testing you

you will find out what he did in Brazil 20 years from now. men are azz H they lie all the time.

what happens in Vigas Stays in Vigas. I trust her but she doesn't trust me.

I think that both parties in a relationship need to trust the other person before you even THINK about marriage. There is no way that a marriage can survive for long if you don't trust the other person! Right before I moved to Brazil in January my fiance went to the beach for 4 days with a friend and that friend was a girl. They were staying in a cabin with about 10 other people that that girl worked with, but he was her "guest" since everyone was allowed to bring 1 guest. Was I worried? Not in the slightest! I know who he loves and I know that he wont do anything because I TRUST him and that could have gone either way. If I had been the one going on a trip with a guy friend he wouldn't have worried either!

And if you are talking about getting married, you'll be spending the rest of your life with this girl and in my experience at that point what happens in VEgas, DOES NOT stay in VEgas.

what happens in Vigas Stays in Vigas. I trust her but she doesn't trust me.

I think that both parties in a relationship need to trust the other person before you even THINK about marriage. There is no way that a marriage can survive for long if you don't trust the other person! Right before I moved to Brazil in January my fiance went to the beach for 4 days with a friend and that friend was a girl. They were staying in a cabin with about 10 other people that that girl worked with, but he was her "guest" since everyone was allowed to bring 1 guest. Was I worried? Not in the slightest! I know who he loves and I know that he wont do anything because I TRUST him and that could have gone either way. If I had been the one going on a trip with a guy friend he wouldn't have worried either!

And if you are talking about getting married, you'll be spending the rest of your life with this girl and in my experience at that point what happens in VEgas, DOES NOT stay in VEgas.

I went to the beach with 4 girls and I slept in the midle, and I didn't do anything wrong. they are just friends no attraction.

what happens in Vigas Stays in Vigas. I trust her but she doesn't trust me.

he will be fine, he will just lie to everyone.lol

I will kill her Its only ok for the king to do it

you are lame. as in, really, really lame. I hope she goes out and has Cool whip fun.

I think I should add, that I hope when you go out tonight that you don't get ANY Cool Whip fun.

Although, it's a test anyway, so if you do go out tonight regardless of where Cool Whip gets placed, you fail.

I bet you he will . He will try doing Patrick Swayze's Dirty Dancing routines. Girls will laugh at him, and throw the Cool Whip cans.

i'm staying home tonight ok if that will make u happy Patrick

Just curious. What if she says ok as long as she can do the same thing(s) you do tonight? is that ok with you?

I will kill her Its only ok for the king to do it

you are lame. as in, really, really lame. I hope she goes out and has Cool whip fun.

why you don't like me??? don't wish me something like that

Just curious. What if she says ok as long as she can do the same thing(s) you do tonight? is that ok with you?

I will kill her Its only ok for the king to do it

Adam, for the sake of everybody-especially your new wife-cut off all relations with Sandra! it seems like she was taking advantage of you...move forward and forget about the past. Look now to go in the way of Allah SWT and take care of your new wife!

Quick Q: fin fi Maghreb inta sekin? Ana min Rabat

when I came back to the US, the next day she came to my house and pick up some staff from the garage and left, we didn't talk, she was crying the whole time, after she got home she send tons of mean messages... since that day we didn't talk or met. I told my wife everything, and she told me that Sandra was in love with me and ask me why you I didn't marry her. I told her if I did I wouldn't be with you!!!

what were the circumstances of you coming to the united states? how did you come to live here, family?

I came here through the Diversity Lottery program http://travel.state.gov/visa/immigrants/types/types_1322.html . I don't have any family member here, never being married before... I dated on and off while I was in college and non of those girls were what I was looking for, they were just wild and I didn't think they will be good mothers of my children (I'm not here to judge), I may be wrong because.. after I finish school got a job bought a house got my Citizenship decided its time for me to do the right thing and get married. guess what last Christmas I went to Morocco and got married with a girl that I never met before, it was arranged by my family.. My coworkers were lol at me when I got back married they told how can you make a life decision so fast they told me I'm crazy..what ever I told them love will come after.. that's my life story. let me know if you want to know more about me? what was the reason behind your question if you don't mind?

WOW people really do obtain visas through the lottery program.. I was curious to know how you went about that process and why they chose you.

It sounds like you were a perfect candidate...you are very ambitious and have succeeded. PROPS TO YOU!

So your marriage was arranged. It is not all that unfamiliar. I know they still do that but I always wondered how people "really" feel marrying someoone they dont know or even love at that time of the arrangement. I mean I am sure it is something that your family has encouraged but can they really know what is best for you and after having spent so much time in America, is America and American women all that bad? Couldnt you have just of well met a respectable Arabic wife here? I guess with the differences in cultures and lifestyles it just is safer and more compatiable to marry someone who shares all the same ways and upbringing as you. Being very young, inexperienced and sheltered does have its setbacks but I guess you are reassured that she is chaste and from a good family.

Good Luck

Just rambling.

To answer your question about the lottery, every year millions of people apply from all over the world exept some countries like India UK Canada, because they already have too many people from those contries in the US. the purpose behind the lottery is to create deversity in the US so no minority will dominate(Mixicans are growing fast thats why they are not part of that program). some of the requirment are high school or up and clean criminal record.

In 2002 almost 15 million people applyed and they chose 55000, Morocco share was about 4000 if I'm not mistaking. for more Information check NVC web.

I dated a white girl her name his Sandra for three years, and we love each other, we almost got married. we had some problems and we both were stuborn (my way or the highway), she dcouldn't graduate from school, she was always brook because che couldn't keep a job, she wants to live a high life that she can't afford. In the other hand i was totaly the opposite, I to helped her may times( I bought her a honda CRV for $7000),I let her live with me for free for almost a year, when I finaly got tired of all that. we brook up then she came back then we brook up again and it was the last one. a month lather she send me a letter asking me to forgive and be her best friend since we couldn't make it, i told her that's fine because that was going to make it easy on us since we were in love. during that year we were friend we got alone very good, we travel we cook for each other...during that period she always tell me when are you going to Morocco to buy a wife, I keep telling her very soon or next year or as soon as find one, and though she was ok with it the whole time. last cristmas she took me to the airport to fligh to Morocco, when I got there my dad ask me when i;m getting married? I told any time. he asked me if i have a girl in mind? I told him No, he was well I got something for you. what and he told me about my wife, i was like that's fine, i asked my sisters about her they told me she is a good girl very modest, beautiful... i was like dad let me talk to her first, my dad talk to her dad and arrange a date at her house for us, after I saw her and talk to her for the first munite I said in my mind this is the wife that I dreamed about. I was scared before I met her I couldn't sleep the night before, but after met her i felt so much better, talking to her i felt peace and simplisity, she was just very innocent. I called Sandra the next day to tell her what happened since she was my best friend, Oh my got she got mad at me and call me all kind of thing me and sandra didn't talk after that and she didn't pick me up from the Airport like she suppose to, she borowed $1700 from she told me you are not going to get it back.

I was like explain to me why you are mad at me you are my best friend not my girl friend, and she said you were planing to get married and you didn't tell me.

I thought it was for Sluggo.

its for me too

she doesn't even know she was aproved for her I-130, she ley me know when I'm having my Interview. and you expect her to know about VJ

She's well informed. Good.

She doesn't undestand the difference between USCIS and NVC and it doesn't mutter anyways. let me stress with that by my self and let her focus on school.

If she told you "do what you think is right" that means NO.

She doesn't want you to go and if you do, she'll most likely wonder what went down.......

Good point thats what I understood from her convirsation

dod she doesn't have internet and she doesn't like it either. I called her and asked her. she you are a grown men do what you think is right.

That is what you think. How can you be so sure she is not already reading this?

she doesn't even know she was aproved for her I-130, she ley me know when I'm having my Interview. and you expect her to know about VJ

i think shes the one that is going to be interviewed? or you?

this year is her last year at the college, and she doesn't like to wait or think about it, she told me just let me know one month before the interview. so she can focus on school.

dod she doesn't have internet and she doesn't like it either. I called her and asked her. she you are a grown men do what you think is right.

That is what you think. How can you be so sure she is not already reading this?

she doesn't even know she was aproved for her I-130, she said let me know when I'm having my Interview. and you expect her to know about VJ

Ask for permission?? Get conformation??

you can take it any way you want (permission?? Get conformation??) but i will make sure she is happy, because she always make me happy

Let me guess, she found out about this thread. Smart man.

dod she doesn't have internet and she doesn't like it either. I called her and asked her. she said, you are a grown men do what you think is right.

He should just cut his balls off and Fedex them to her.

I will send them to you

Ask for permission?? Get conformation??

you can take it any way you want (permission?? Get conformation??) but i will make sure she is happy, because she always make me happy

Hell no. You posted for advise, people told you what the ythought, and now you won't share? That's fvcked up, dude.

I have to talk to her and I will let you know. i need confirmation.

Oh, so you WILL ask for permission, eh?

I will play pool the girls instead of dancing at the same place.lol

Hell no. You posted for advise, people told you what the ythought, and now you won't share? That's fvcked up, dude.

I have to talk to her and I will let you know. i need confirmation.

Can I keep it for my self, so everybody will be happy.