~happyndinlove~

I wonder why OP has been offline since starting this thread. Maybe he's embarassed about handing his wife over to a VJ mob? I find it strange the MODs have allowed many posters to refer to OP's wife with derogatory accusations and vulgar insults. I wonder if it's because she's a Filipina? I wonder why the MODs torelate the misogynistic posts.
Poor woman. She is being slaughtered by people who don't have any clue what is really going on inside the OP's house. Judging someone without hearing their side of the story, IMHO is ridiculous.

I wonder why OP has been offline since starting this thread. Maybe he's embarassed about handing his wife over to a VJ mob? I find it strange the MODs have allowed many posters to refer to OP's wife with derogatory accusations and vulgar insults. I wonder if it's because she's a Filipina? I wonder why the MODs torelate the misogynistic posts.
Poor woman. She is being slaughtered by people who don't have any clue what is really going on inside the OP's house. Judging someone without hearing their side of the story, IMHO is ridiculous.

just dnt judge to quick.we dnt know the whole story and im sure if the wifey post here too we will see a diffrent story....as a filipino we r family orriented and we love kids ..if we love the man we sure do accept the kids too...sometimes we say something hurtful esp when get hurt too.there is more to this story so i dnt think we need to judge the wife too quick and to the person who posted here about his family trouble man, it never work to post here cuz u will see a diffrent thoughts and opinion esp when the whole story that posted is just 10% of the real story....talk to her and im sure you will work things out.
and to other people who's giving him a SENDING advise I hope this thing wont happen to you guys :devil: ...u know KARMA is a B*TCH

OP- Look what you have done to your wife. She's being lynched by a VJ mob. IMO, this is a very personal matter that shouldn't be aired on here as some people tend to crucify the silent one without hearing his/her side of the story.
Only you and your wife can solve this problem regardless of the different advice you are getting from outsiders.

1) This is a public forum. When you post on it...your post becomes available for discussion.
2) I would rather make "smart" comments than give "ignorant" advice.

You should talk to her and figure out what causes her to say it instead of posting the problem here.

OP- Look what you have done to your wife. She's being lynched by a VJ mob. IMO, this is a very personal matter that shouldn't be aired on here as some people tend to crucify the silent one without hearing his/her side of the story.
Only you and your wife can solve this problem regardless of the different advice you are getting from outsiders.

OP- Look what you have done to your wife. She's being lynched by a VJ mob. IMO, this is a very personal matter that shouldn't be aired on here as some people tend to crucify the silent one without hearing his/her side of the story.
Only you and your wife can solve this problem regardless of the different advice you are getting from outsiders.

OP- Look what you have done to your wife. She's being lynched by a VJ mob. IMO, this is a very personal matter that shouldn't be aired on here as some people tend to crucify the silent one without hearing his/her side of the story.
Only you and your wife can solve this problem regardless of the different advice you are getting from outsiders.

OP- Look what you have done to your wife. She's being lynched by a VJ mob. IMO, this is a very personal matter that shouldn't be aired on here as some people tend to crucify the silent one without hearing his/her side of the story.
Only you and your wife can solve this problem regardless of the different advice you are getting from outsiders.

OP- Look what you have done to your wife. She's being lynched by a VJ mob. IMO, this is a very personal matter that shouldn't be aired on here as some people tend to crucify the silent one without hearing his/her side of the story.
Only you and your wife can solve this problem regardless of the different advice you are getting from outsiders.

maybe she should tell him, bye bye??
with out all the facts! none of us should jump to conclusions.

I wonder ...why do so many VJ's use the phrase..."send her back"...?
Why don't more VJ's use the phrase..."let her go"...?

Another close friend of OP's family?
Yeah...looking at their pics...it's very obvious...she's just a "selfish %$^&*^%$".
Do you ever consider motivation? Action is often a reaction. Cause and Effect. Her request probably "reflects" household behavior. Think about it.

A couple came to me seeking advice. They were considering divorce. The reason...'cause her (still living at home) son became a drug addict and was destroying their lives. They had exhausted all reasonable solutions (except imprisonment).
What would you do? Divorce or imprison the kid? I suggested prison as a possible way to save the marriage and the boys life.
I suppose he (at 47 years old) is not a "real" man. He is just a ...what? What is the male word for "chick"?

1) My wife and I lurked VJ 2008. We joined 2009. We reflected on your statement. We can't remember more than 2 VJ Kanos claiming GC scam. Jonny and Jason. Can you help us recall more than that?
2) IOO, Most of the "troubled marriage" stories posted (by Fil-Ams) are just that..a troubled marriage and nothing more. Recalling some of these TM posters...we think the numbers are pretty close but Pinays edge ahead of Kanos (for # of threads). Usually the Pinay begins a thread claiming mistreatment and asking for marriage advice. The Kano seems to be looking for a cheap 1 way ticket if she doesn't submit.
3) Perhaps a poll would reveal accurate statistics but...our vote for highest percentage GC scam (reported on VJ) by region / country....Rubbers followed by... Moroccans...(the rest in no particular order but ahead of PI)..Africans, Egyptians, Vietnam , Thailand.
Steve...I'm a little surprised by your behavior. I never thought you to be a bigot. (but) Considering your baseless POV driving proactive and defaming accusations..frankly...I'm changing my POV about you. Please tell me your stance is due to ignorant assumption and not bigotry.

or they might take offense by saying the income inequality was a prevailing factor in their decision to marry their husband.

Hola Buscador
I think by now you should have some stats or a link to back that statement. Do you? I think
Your reality? I thought your wife was overcome by your natural good looks and charm...?
Fixxored that for you. (I'm sure it was just an oversight )
Have you ever considered adding a disclaimer to your signature?
Something along the lines of... "blah blah yada yada this is all my POV and I don't have any statistical facts to back it"...

That is totally a bunch of BS on your part.
.... oh ya, or are you just a troll!

Never ever? The quote was misunderstood? Let's take another look at what you wrote.
Why do you blame other people for your post? Nobody misunderstood. It's very clear you used the "tuna" statement. It's written first person. Why won't you be accountable and apologize?
So you are a racist and a bigot? Finally, some truth comes out. Your words "do" match your behavior.

There you go. Wouldn't it be great if you would indeed try to be careful with your "choice" of words and phrases in the future?
Oh! (again) You play the victim..? BS! You are repeatedly beating US (filipinos) with your racial BS stereotypes.
This last part of your post disgusts and repulses me most. You, in so many different ways, have "attacked" Filipinos. Including your wife. Yet, here you are, trying to act "innocent" and play "victim". Your definition of "attack" is despicably unbelievable. Despicable because you try to "blame" others for your mistakes. Unbelievable because your racial stereotyping post history exposes your true POV. Your racial stereotyping degrading Filipinos sharing intimate knowledge about your wife play victim blah blah blah behavior is disturbing.
Trying to side step? BE ACCOUNTABLE!!

County Fair "losers" never get eaten?
BS stereotype.! None of my family has ever eaten our "pet"! Is this is an attempt to embarass your wife? Telling all VJ that your wife's family eats their pets?
I'm surprised you act like (as an American) you never bartered before. Think a little bit and I'm sure you can recall a recent trade.
USA bartering? I will give you an example. What do you call trading in an old car to purchase a new one?? Here is a USA Today article for your enlightenment. Yes, it's about bartering in America.
Here's an idea for you. Might sharpen your obvious research skills. Google "American bartering" or "USA bartering" or any version of the 2.
Everything you have posted may be the "typical" routine and "RITUAL" at your wife's area BUT, DO NOT include me (my family and ours) in ignorant BS stereotypes!

I know the definition of shy. I know shy people. I grew up with friends that were shy. I worked with shy people. I've seen shy children, I've seen shy adults.
Having seen her FB... Having seen the pictures that she has on public display, having seen you and your wife's adult conversation displayed on FB for everyone to read...
...Believe me, your wife is NOT shy.

I know the definition of shy. I know shy people. I grew up with friends that were shy. I worked with shy people. I've seen shy children, I've seen shy adults.
Having seen her FB... Having seen the pictures that she has on public display, having seen you and your wife's adult conversation displayed on FB for everyone to read...
...Believe me, your wife is NOT shy.

I know the definition of shy. I know shy people. I grew up with friends that were shy. I worked with shy people. I've seen shy children, I've seen shy adults.
Having seen her FB... Having seen the pictures that she has on public display, having seen you and your wife's adult conversation displayed on FB for everyone to read...
...Believe me, your wife is NOT shy.