~happyndinlove~

Edit to add:
That's my advice, giving you BOD that you are "innocent" and not somehow involved in the drama.
Frankly, I'm a little suspecious. Hard to believe that you are friends with Maria and yet, not involved.

Edit to add:
That's my advice, giving you BOD that you are "innocent" and not somehow involved in the drama.
Frankly, I'm a little suspecious. Hard to believe that you are friends with Maria and yet, not involved.

Edit to add:
That's my advice, giving you BOD that you are "innocent" and not somehow involved in the drama.
Frankly, I'm a little suspecious. Hard to believe that you are friends with Maria and yet, not involved.

Edit to add:
That's my advice, giving you BOD that you are "innocent" and not somehow involved in the drama.
Frankly, I'm a little suspecious. Hard to believe that you are friends with Maria and yet, not involved.

Says the same thing what?! Says the same thing what?! SAYS THE SAME THING WHAT?!
Eeeeeeeeeeeeeeew!!
You're not s'posed to share that! You're not s'posed to share that! YOU'RE NOT S'POSED TO SHARE THAT!
Well THANK GOD you didn't. Coz with almost a 100 million population...surely as the sun rises...that tsismis will find it's way back home. (and) All 100 million fingers pointing back at you for being a tsismosa.
(but) What if...the sex is really good? Still report?
(and) Good sex?
(and) very very very good...sex?
(1 last time)...annnnd..(say it with me)....good sex.


Naaaaaaw...I'll pass this one.
Coffee and Darren....good way to start the day....thanks.
OP: Follow the "Golden Rule". Imagine yourself the kano...what would you hope / prefer (if you are the kano) in this situation....?

I say drop a post card to the Kano, explaining all, including yer involvement.

ukrainianwives.com = lots and lots of time in the "effects" forum.

Kirkit - does not meet any of 2 requirement and yet is one of the mods.
On this site you got to know the admin to be mod.

OP did not state - finds "learning" "repugnant".
OP stated - finds humor in the "expert" image being posted (by American husbands) "sometimes".
Let's be careful with the word smithing. Can sometimes be viewed as deliberate twisting and manipulative.
(I too hope the OP will elaborate on the intent of this thread. Might be an opportunity to "learn".)

Well, is it because arrogance?.. or... is it because ignorance? or... for some, maybe both?
My husband spent almost 8 months in the Philippines while waiting for our visa. During that time, hubby was constantly exposed to many diffrent Filipinos and our culture and yet, hubby has never considered or presented himself as an "expert" on Filipino / culture. Even still, hubby considers himself a "student" learning about the Philippines, Filipinos and most importantly, ME!

Well, is it because arrogance?.. or... is it because ignorance? or... for some, maybe both?
My husband spent almost 8 months in the Philippines while waiting for our visa. During that time, hubby was constantly exposed to many diffrent Filipinos and our culture and yet, hubby has never considered or presented himself as an "expert" on Filipino / culture. Even still, hubby considers himself a "student" learning about the Philippines, Filipinos and most importantly, ME!

Hmmm... Really? That's all you can come up with? You label and defame a fellow Filipina with only the OP's side of the story to justify your verdict. Do ya need a noose and gallows to make yourself feel better?

Hmmm... Really? That's all you can come up with? You label and defame a fellow Filipina with only the OP's side of the story to justify your verdict. Do ya need a noose and gallows to make yourself feel better?

Oh dear, another member of a lynch mob?
Please tell me... what has the OP done that requires her "give back" payment?

How exactly should he "send her back"? Balikbayan Box? Are you able to be "sent back" at your spouse's discretion?

Hmmm...what does "married couple" mean?
Does it mean 1) HIS version of the "facts" is accurate? 2) Does it mean HE should have every one of HIS demands meet for her to be considered a good wife?
Does your "married couple" mean owner and owned?

Hmmm...what does "married couple" mean?
Does it mean 1) HIS version of the "facts" is accurate? 2) Does it mean HE should have every one of HIS demands meet for her to be considered a good wife?
Does your "married couple" mean owner and owned?

How exactly should he "send her back"? Balikbayan Box? Are you able to be "sent back" at your spouse's discretion?

Oh dear, another member of a lynch mob?
Please tell me... what has the OP done that requires her "give back" payment?

Hmmm... Really? That's all you can come up with? You label and defame a fellow Filipina with only the OP's side of the story to justify your verdict. Do ya need a noose and gallows to make yourself feel better?

Hmmm... Really? That's all you can come up with? You label and defame a fellow Filipina with only the OP's side of the story to justify your verdict. Do ya need a noose and gallows to make yourself feel better?

Oh dear, another member of a lynch mob?
Please tell me... what has the OP done that requires her "give back" payment?

How exactly should he "send her back"? Balikbayan Box? Are you able to be "sent back" at your spouse's discretion?

Hmmm...what does "married couple" mean?
Does it mean 1) HIS version of the "facts" is accurate? 2) Does it mean HE should have every one of HIS demands meet for her to be considered a good wife?
Does your "married couple" mean owner and owned?

one post stereotyping filipinos removed.