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    John and Camie got a reaction from B-2-Z in 25 year age difference....Older women marrying younger men   
    Damn, that's mean.
    She has RFEs listed. But, you didn't care enough about her feelings, why should I even expect you to care enough to look at her signature.
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    John and Camie got a reaction from aruadha in AOS Proof of Evidence   
    We sent proof in our packet. By the time our interview rolled around, the IO had already looked at it all and said she didn't need anything else from us.
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    John and Camie got a reaction from Stepy67 in He Says He Never Loved Me - Is It Fraud?   
    Hugs. I was cheated on by a long-term live-in bf years ago, and it hurt like hell. Your husband sounds like a classic jerk. If his GC is from AOS, divorce him and let him sort out his own ROC. I doubt he'll know how, or even stay on top of it. Then he'll go to Egypt to visit, return with an expired GC, and be denied re-entry. Karma cake. x
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    John and Camie got a reaction from besaangel in N-400 June 2013 Filers   
    Crashing the June '13 N400 filers to send Besangel HUGS!! Love from Camie xxx
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    John and Camie got a reaction from hikergirl in Divorce name change /becoming a dual citizen and traveling   
    I'm sorry to hear about your divorce, and I hope you experience a smooth journey to Naturalization. x
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    John and Camie got a reaction from user19000 in RFE: "Commingling of finances" - Not enough bank statements?   
    Honey, throw them the KITCHEN SINK from K-1 to ROC. As much of it as you can. Let them sort it out, haha.
    My husband and I got dinged for the same thing. Smooth sailing right up to ROC, then just when everyone else in our group was getting their approved letters in January, we went to the post and saw a blue paper in our USCIS envelope. I nearly died.
    So, we collected every bill, bank statement, doctor's appointment, trip itinerary (tickets, etc.), car insurance statement and receipts from joint purchases that we could find, got our landlord to write a letter and sign it with his phone number and business card (which we attached to a copy of the same lease we'd already sent), printed out my husband's Facebook page with a post pleading to all our friends and family in the US and England to leave testimonial comments (we got dozens of replies), went to Walgreens and reprinted our photo collages from our K-1, AOS and ROC filings, and sent in the whole lot. I got my employer to draft a letter naming my husband as my beneficiary on benefits and life insurance. John also made a DVD with links to all of our YouTube videos (we do a video blog together) from all the years we've been together.
    While you may not have the same things, you just might have enough stuff saved up to help you out. Go through it, pull out anything that you think will help your case, and stuff it into an envelope, girl. Then, write the most heartfelt cover letter you ever wrote in your entire life. I practically begged USCIS to come to our home, call our employers, our doctor, our landlord. LOL. It worked. We got our approval last week. Miraculously, we did all of this without a joint bank account or joint tax transcripts.
    Be strong. You will get through this, I swear! x
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    John and Camie got a reaction from Natsukiii in Denied!!!   
    His loss, honey. True love found me when I was nursing a broken heart, and it will find you, girl. x
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    John and Camie got a reaction from Vishnya in RFE: "Commingling of finances" - Not enough bank statements?   
    Honey, throw them the KITCHEN SINK from K-1 to ROC. As much of it as you can. Let them sort it out, haha.
    My husband and I got dinged for the same thing. Smooth sailing right up to ROC, then just when everyone else in our group was getting their approved letters in January, we went to the post and saw a blue paper in our USCIS envelope. I nearly died.
    So, we collected every bill, bank statement, doctor's appointment, trip itinerary (tickets, etc.), car insurance statement and receipts from joint purchases that we could find, got our landlord to write a letter and sign it with his phone number and business card (which we attached to a copy of the same lease we'd already sent), printed out my husband's Facebook page with a post pleading to all our friends and family in the US and England to leave testimonial comments (we got dozens of replies), went to Walgreens and reprinted our photo collages from our K-1, AOS and ROC filings, and sent in the whole lot. I got my employer to draft a letter naming my husband as my beneficiary on benefits and life insurance. John also made a DVD with links to all of our YouTube videos (we do a video blog together) from all the years we've been together.
    While you may not have the same things, you just might have enough stuff saved up to help you out. Go through it, pull out anything that you think will help your case, and stuff it into an envelope, girl. Then, write the most heartfelt cover letter you ever wrote in your entire life. I practically begged USCIS to come to our home, call our employers, our doctor, our landlord. LOL. It worked. We got our approval last week. Miraculously, we did all of this without a joint bank account or joint tax transcripts.
    Be strong. You will get through this, I swear! x
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    John and Camie got a reaction from Laura & Kyle in RFE: "Commingling of finances" - Not enough bank statements?   
    Honey, throw them the KITCHEN SINK from K-1 to ROC. As much of it as you can. Let them sort it out, haha.
    My husband and I got dinged for the same thing. Smooth sailing right up to ROC, then just when everyone else in our group was getting their approved letters in January, we went to the post and saw a blue paper in our USCIS envelope. I nearly died.
    So, we collected every bill, bank statement, doctor's appointment, trip itinerary (tickets, etc.), car insurance statement and receipts from joint purchases that we could find, got our landlord to write a letter and sign it with his phone number and business card (which we attached to a copy of the same lease we'd already sent), printed out my husband's Facebook page with a post pleading to all our friends and family in the US and England to leave testimonial comments (we got dozens of replies), went to Walgreens and reprinted our photo collages from our K-1, AOS and ROC filings, and sent in the whole lot. I got my employer to draft a letter naming my husband as my beneficiary on benefits and life insurance. John also made a DVD with links to all of our YouTube videos (we do a video blog together) from all the years we've been together.
    While you may not have the same things, you just might have enough stuff saved up to help you out. Go through it, pull out anything that you think will help your case, and stuff it into an envelope, girl. Then, write the most heartfelt cover letter you ever wrote in your entire life. I practically begged USCIS to come to our home, call our employers, our doctor, our landlord. LOL. It worked. We got our approval last week. Miraculously, we did all of this without a joint bank account or joint tax transcripts.
    Be strong. You will get through this, I swear! x
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    John and Camie got a reaction from canuckbos in RFE: "Commingling of finances" - Not enough bank statements?   
    Honey, throw them the KITCHEN SINK from K-1 to ROC. As much of it as you can. Let them sort it out, haha.
    My husband and I got dinged for the same thing. Smooth sailing right up to ROC, then just when everyone else in our group was getting their approved letters in January, we went to the post and saw a blue paper in our USCIS envelope. I nearly died.
    So, we collected every bill, bank statement, doctor's appointment, trip itinerary (tickets, etc.), car insurance statement and receipts from joint purchases that we could find, got our landlord to write a letter and sign it with his phone number and business card (which we attached to a copy of the same lease we'd already sent), printed out my husband's Facebook page with a post pleading to all our friends and family in the US and England to leave testimonial comments (we got dozens of replies), went to Walgreens and reprinted our photo collages from our K-1, AOS and ROC filings, and sent in the whole lot. I got my employer to draft a letter naming my husband as my beneficiary on benefits and life insurance. John also made a DVD with links to all of our YouTube videos (we do a video blog together) from all the years we've been together.
    While you may not have the same things, you just might have enough stuff saved up to help you out. Go through it, pull out anything that you think will help your case, and stuff it into an envelope, girl. Then, write the most heartfelt cover letter you ever wrote in your entire life. I practically begged USCIS to come to our home, call our employers, our doctor, our landlord. LOL. It worked. We got our approval last week. Miraculously, we did all of this without a joint bank account or joint tax transcripts.
    Be strong. You will get through this, I swear! x
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    John and Camie got a reaction from Calypso in RFE: "Commingling of finances" - Not enough bank statements?   
    Honey, throw them the KITCHEN SINK from K-1 to ROC. As much of it as you can. Let them sort it out, haha.
    My husband and I got dinged for the same thing. Smooth sailing right up to ROC, then just when everyone else in our group was getting their approved letters in January, we went to the post and saw a blue paper in our USCIS envelope. I nearly died.
    So, we collected every bill, bank statement, doctor's appointment, trip itinerary (tickets, etc.), car insurance statement and receipts from joint purchases that we could find, got our landlord to write a letter and sign it with his phone number and business card (which we attached to a copy of the same lease we'd already sent), printed out my husband's Facebook page with a post pleading to all our friends and family in the US and England to leave testimonial comments (we got dozens of replies), went to Walgreens and reprinted our photo collages from our K-1, AOS and ROC filings, and sent in the whole lot. I got my employer to draft a letter naming my husband as my beneficiary on benefits and life insurance. John also made a DVD with links to all of our YouTube videos (we do a video blog together) from all the years we've been together.
    While you may not have the same things, you just might have enough stuff saved up to help you out. Go through it, pull out anything that you think will help your case, and stuff it into an envelope, girl. Then, write the most heartfelt cover letter you ever wrote in your entire life. I practically begged USCIS to come to our home, call our employers, our doctor, our landlord. LOL. It worked. We got our approval last week. Miraculously, we did all of this without a joint bank account or joint tax transcripts.
    Be strong. You will get through this, I swear! x
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    John and Camie got a reaction from Michael-Moneth in Denied!!!   
    His loss, honey. True love found me when I was nursing a broken heart, and it will find you, girl. x
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    John and Camie got a reaction from Lost Soul in Denied!!!   
    His loss, honey. True love found me when I was nursing a broken heart, and it will find you, girl. x
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    John and Camie got a reaction from James&Edlie in Denied!!!   
    His loss, honey. True love found me when I was nursing a broken heart, and it will find you, girl. x
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    John and Camie got a reaction from elmcitymaven in Denied!!!   
    His loss, honey. True love found me when I was nursing a broken heart, and it will find you, girl. x
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    John and Camie got a reaction from spookyturtle in Self-appointed moderators   
    I've seen moderators on this site who have no business being one. We're supposed to help and support each other, and there have been times when I've seen a moderator shame someone right off of VJ.
    The best moderators are the ones who have been around forever, and they know who they are. They're patient, kind, firm when they need to be, and usually years beyond ROC or Naturalization. They're the ones I particularly defer to on VJ.
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    John and Camie got a reaction from PalestineMyHeart in Self-appointed moderators   
    I've seen moderators on this site who have no business being one. We're supposed to help and support each other, and there have been times when I've seen a moderator shame someone right off of VJ.
    The best moderators are the ones who have been around forever, and they know who they are. They're patient, kind, firm when they need to be, and usually years beyond ROC or Naturalization. They're the ones I particularly defer to on VJ.
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    John and Camie got a reaction from Andie in Self-appointed moderators   
    I've seen moderators on this site who have no business being one. We're supposed to help and support each other, and there have been times when I've seen a moderator shame someone right off of VJ.
    The best moderators are the ones who have been around forever, and they know who they are. They're patient, kind, firm when they need to be, and usually years beyond ROC or Naturalization. They're the ones I particularly defer to on VJ.
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    John and Camie got a reaction from --- in Engagement parties? Input please!   
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    John and Camie got a reaction from display n in Engagement parties? Input please!   
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    John and Camie got a reaction from Nagishkaw in Self-appointed moderators   
    I've seen moderators on this site who have no business being one. We're supposed to help and support each other, and there have been times when I've seen a moderator shame someone right off of VJ.
    The best moderators are the ones who have been around forever, and they know who they are. They're patient, kind, firm when they need to be, and usually years beyond ROC or Naturalization. They're the ones I particularly defer to on VJ.
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    John and Camie got a reaction from SunnySanDiego in Self-appointed moderators   
    I've seen moderators on this site who have no business being one. We're supposed to help and support each other, and there have been times when I've seen a moderator shame someone right off of VJ.
    The best moderators are the ones who have been around forever, and they know who they are. They're patient, kind, firm when they need to be, and usually years beyond ROC or Naturalization. They're the ones I particularly defer to on VJ.
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    John and Camie got a reaction from Rebecca Jo in Self-appointed moderators   
    I've seen moderators on this site who have no business being one. We're supposed to help and support each other, and there have been times when I've seen a moderator shame someone right off of VJ.
    The best moderators are the ones who have been around forever, and they know who they are. They're patient, kind, firm when they need to be, and usually years beyond ROC or Naturalization. They're the ones I particularly defer to on VJ.
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    John and Camie reacted to rlogan in Self-appointed moderators   
    I have certain posters on ignore because I don't enjoy maliciously manipulative posters, but one of the things I see happening that has forum-wide repercussions is those same individuals acting as self-appointed moderators and making pronouncements about what they deem acceptable or not. They've both directly and indirectly called the moderators in on discussions when the site policy is to use the "report post" function, and not to discuss moderation in the threads. One of these individuals has "warmly" invited all opinions to an OP and then used the report post function to conceal that they were lying about that, and just baiting people they don't like into responding so they can report them.
    So that tells me they are working on both sides of it: publicly and secretly, depending on which is the best manipulative approach. One of the reasons why moderation is not to be discussed within threads is to prevent narcissists from becoming defacto moderators and bullying others with it: dictating what other people mean with terms they are using for example - which is the green light for other posters to pile on. Not because the poster meant it, but because bullying is fun and all you need is other bullies and now you've got your pitchfork and torch mob the rules were designed to prevent.
    Bullies wear halos: they're not getting enjoyment out of getting a put-down on someone else, no sir. That's why they're doing it loudly in public, contrary to the forum policy of using the report post function and having the moderators do their job without a mob assembling to pressure them into bullying someone on their behalf.
    I'm handicapped in using the report-post function myself because the two people that are doing it the most are on ignore. But I see that because they have been given such wide latitude in acting as self-appointed moderators that others are starting to do it as well. We can't have moderation taken out of the hands of the people designated to do it, and we can't have them being pressured by mob rule. Moderators have to protect minority views or quirky people that others just like to pick on.
    If the call for moderation is legitimate it does not need to be made public. Please enforce the policy that people are to use the report post function and not make moderation susceptible to manipulation and mob rule. Thanks.
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