MoroccanInTexas

Internet Kafe,

Chill out. If you do not have positive things to say, please be quite. The topic is about an issue that an immigrant is facing, and not a linguistics class where you are trying to prove a point...

Good news , congratulations

Congrats on the 10 years GC

Congrats on the new baby

I guess we'll try the seperation thing. I think he should go back to his home and take time to figure out who he is. He seems very lost inside and needing to be alone to get a better grip on real life and who he is.

I hate to think that this was such a waste, but I realize that he was not fighting for this and i cannot fight alone.

Sorry for all the things you are going through. Just remember that things happen for a reason. As long as you tried your best, you do not have to feel bad about your self. I agree that you guys need some separation time.

My prayers are with you to make the right thing

Good luck

If my S/O would talk to me like your husband does, I would immediately stop being nice to him not to even mention having sex with that man.

He is abusing you, he is cruel to you and no one deserves to be treated this way. Love not only depends on sex but what you share with each other, which is more than sex I hope. Love, among so many other things, is also about having respect for each other which I don't think he has. If you don't like oral sex then whatever (just as an example). He probably knew that before your marriage and it is not fair to blame this now for a bad marriage. Love means respecting your feelings and values incl. dislikes for particular sexual practices. If my S/O wouldn't like certain things, I would just try ten thousand other things. Hey, there is such a variety that I am sure you can find things that both of you like.

It sounds to me that he is a mena man who expects everything from you but is not ready to give anything in return. I think you deserve respect for what you are doing; helping you two stay alive by working, keeping up with the chores and trying to make him happy etc. The least he could do is to be appreciative- which he is not.

I would make a clear statement to this man that he needs to grow up and also needs to work on this relationship and is definition of 'love'.

I suggest you run as fast as you can and get some help. Even if he would change, I doubt that I would ever be able to have a sexual relationship with this man again who calls himself a 'husband' when all he does is treating you bad. Throw him out of your house! This man is abusive and self-centered and doesn't deserve any woman at all.

She already stated he is not a MENA man. Besides, this is irrelevant. What ever this guy is doing is plain Wrong, she should cut her losses and run as fast as possible.

Congrats, and happy holidays

Congrats what a nice holiday gift

Congrats. Happy Holidays

Congrats

so my interview went really ####### and the officer did not believe we were married yet we provided every proof possible.. he also questioned my faith and country of origin and i felt he really did not like us. so he asked for extra evidence. job letters, statements showing my husband as beneficiary and vice-versa... so we mailed those on nov 9. being that i was going to go back home on december 16, i scheduled an info pass to ask about worst case scenarios if my application were to be denied...

while there, me and the lady officer sparked a conversation about my motorcycle and all. well guess what, she approved me one the spot and stamped my passport with the I-551.

Can i ask for better? no. my husband and i are so happy and lucky to have been in this situation. I personally believe that the infopass is useful if you are nice, calm, and presentable.

good luck everyone.. and thanks for the people who supported me!

Congrats I think they were just trying to push your buttons in your interview. Just remember things happen for a reason.

hava nice trip

Congratulations

Congrats good luck on the citizenship journey

So Sorry for your loss

I think if you do not have his GC number you can join his death certificate explaining the circumstances.

God bless

Most people do not get called for an interview. There is no rule tough, people get picked randomly.

Bon Chance

I sent 39 pages plus the application (and the check):

TAX RETURNS 2006 AND 2007

Copy of Health ins cards

Copy of life policy application

Copy of house deed

Copy of mortgage

4 bills (1 per 6 month)

4 bank account statements (1 per 6 month)

a copy of the IRS stimulus letter in joint name (sort of proof we DID actually file jointly)

and that was about it apart from the copy of the green card.

No photos (I still do not see this as relevant, they have a picture of only one of you on file!)

No affidavits (too much hassle)

I totally agree, I think sending photos is not necessary

Affidavits are to avoid if you have other evidence, since it is inconvenient.

Thank you Andersen. I just wanted to make sure that I have enough, since I heard people here sending hundreds of pages of evidence :o . Which by the way reminds me of the nightmare of the AOS.

Good luck as well

congrats time for the citizenship process now

Hello,

I am ready to file the I751, and I wanted to make sure that this is enough evidence:

Joint checking account evidence Bank statements 1 from each quarter for the last 2 years

• Joint tax filing status evidence, Official IRS tax transcripts for 2005, 2006 and 2007

• Birth Certificate for our daughter

- Death Certificate for our son

• Joint residence evidence

Lease agreements, copy of our state driver’s licenses. Copy of Credit cards, Copy of AAA cards, Copy of our Sams club card

• Bills mostly in my name(Electricity both names, Cell, health)

- Car insurance policy both names

- Rental insurance policy

- Trip that we made to Florida after we lost our first baby

• Family photos

Do I need to add anything else?

If I decide to send Priority flat rate USPS mail, do I have to add any extra service? like signature required or such

Thanks a bunch