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  1. It's ticking over here as well but I told Den let's just enjoy at least a year of being married and adjusting...if it happens then it happens but I love children. Aww all this baby talk got me smiling... :D

    That's what I'm talking about! AT LEAST a year! Plus, I can't foresee when we'll actually be able to afford a child. All this baby talk got me ready to run screaming! :lol:

    ok ok ok

    ill come out with it!

    i am 2 months pregnant!

    i havent told barely anyone, so please don't say anything on facebook!!!!

    to my other pregnant ladies----

    how far along are you?

    this is my first

    CONGRATS to ACROW and ALWAYS BLESSED!!!!

    (and me) *giggle*

    Congrats Just!! Now I really need to get the heck outta here! VJ wata/baby dust is flying like mad! :yes::yes:

    In 12 minutes, I have my annual performance review meeting with my manager. I better go use the restroom first.

    You make me laugh Nat! :lol:

    girl, im proud of you for taking the time and effort to try to work this out

    they say nothing easy is worthwhile

    i hope he gets his act together and starts honoring the truth

    keep the faith

    Thanks Just! Yeah, I'm thinking it's too soon to give up & we both have things to work on but the trust needs to be established if we're ever going to make it.

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    In other useless news: I put two pics up today in my 'Random Stuff' album on FB. They're of a car I took a picture of this morning parked in our neighborhood...we were on our way to the bus stop & I've been in awe of this vehicle since I first noticed it. The owner has a SERIOUS hoarding problem & slowly there has been more & more stuff accumulating in this car. These days there is only a small space in the driver seat where the owner can drive. I don't know HOW they don't get stopped by police & ticketed!

  2. big-feet.gif Hey I have big feet :angry:

    I want another one but all in God's time. Girl yes I have 2 boys yall know I love to post their pics 8431_205844371216_615741216_4475261_4532557_n.jpg

    they are going to be 13 and 11 this year and Im turning 30 :crying:

    I dont talk about them much but they are a mess.

    Girl do you know my 11 year old talked to me for 10 minutes yesterday about being a Paleontologist when he grows up. We were out side and I told him to hold on I have to go use the restroom. I jumped on m03114.gif trying to look something up about it so we could keep the convo. Girl I came out like I was all smart and he talked me to death for about 10 more minutes :help:

    My hubby finally saved me and asked when I was starting dinner. :dance: :dance: :dance::rofl:

    LOL @ all this! You so crazy girl! :rofl:

    Congrats! I'm pregnant, too. Will be our second child together. Ours was a little bit of an accident this time around, though. We are still happy anyway!

    Congrats Acrow! Okay, that makes two of you now....keep that baby dust away from me! I may have to leave the board for a while cause ya'll are terrifying me. :lol:

    You should've come, Dillon. Fun fun fun! I feel trying to jump through a metal construction sign, right in front of the ER. I though they were going to pee their pants laughing.

    OMG, did anyone video that on their Ipod?? I'm trying to imagine it! Glad you didn't end up having to go into the ER though!

  3. It was defintely a shock and disappointment to hear that I'm NOT pregnant, I really thought I was, haven't had my cycle since feb 21st. So don't know what the heck is going on. Made an appt to see her again 2mrw so lets see what happens. The assistant wasn't did me a favor to tell me over the phone and now I'm thinking if she read it correct because I'm in total disbelief. :crying::crying::crying::crying:

    I'm sorry KJ! I know you really want this. I agree though, I bet once life settles down a little after the wedding & your body calms down, that baby will come! (L)

    :lol: mi hubby same ting..yuh affi love a domesticated man :star:

    :yes::yes:

    Morning ladies, hope everyone had a great weekend. I'm sad this morning cause I went and did the knowledge test for my D/L and failed :crying: :crying: :crying: only got 15 out of 20 questions and I needed 17 to pass. Well, guess I just have to be a big girl and go ace it@ the resit. :angry:

    Aww, TAMH, you were so close! It's not easy to get DLs here but I know you'll have it this next time. Do they have any practice tests on the DMV web site for your state? They have them on ours & I go through them with hubby so he can kind of prepare for what might be on his test when the time comes. I also use them to refresh my own memory every so often.

  4. Afternoon Yardies!

    Ells, I wonder what you're doing up this late? :devil:

    LOL! It was actually only about 11:00 p.m. west coast time so I wasn't up too late. So, nothing special. :no:

    Thanks Ells! How are thing with you mi sista? :unsure:

    I'm doing okay Dens, thanks for asking. We spoke to his teacher friend this weekend for about 2 hours & she helped us sort some things out. Of course, resolving our issues is going to take time & work on both our parts but we're going to see what happens & go from there. He's promised to make a big effort to be truthful all the time & I'm to try & NOT check up on him (my disclaimer: unless his stories become inconsistent again). It was good to air things out to someone else & for me it was nice to have someone he trusts & respect tell him he was wrong for that but since it was her, not take it in a defensive way. Boy, this marriage ting nah easy! :no:

    Some friends are on their way over. We're going to the International Fest. The theme this year is "The Caribbean." Plus, we'll run into my babe hard @ work.

    :yes::thumbs:

    I have medium size chubby feet!

    My feet are the only part of my body that is skinny! But let's not talk about from the ankles up.... :rofl:

    Good Morning Everyone,

    Well I had an excellent Birthday, My Husband suprised me with a a candle light dinner and a bubble bath with floating candles it was beautiful then we went to the beach. I also found out yesterday that I am pregnant since it is so early I am not posting anything on Facebook so if you are on my Facebook please please dont say anything (I just had to tell all my VJ sisters)

    Glad you had a nice birthday Always! And CONGRATS on the pregnancy!

    Still no word on my cousin. We are now thinking the worst. Please keep my family in ur prayers!!

    :( So sorry 1luv, I'm hoping & praying that you hear something soon. (F)

    Thank you...we're so excited and just loving the house. Den is really being active...he is putting things together and even his input on where things should go. He is really into it. :D

    That's wonderful Dens! And awwww @ Den so into it. :luv:

  5. Good night Yardies!

    About to go to bed but just wanted to pop in before I do.

    Wha going on yardies?? I heading down soon my count down has begun mi caan wait.. My day was pretty quiet I left work early as I just about has enough. First time joining this topic.

    Welcome Sugarapple!

    Afternoon yardies. So, I went and did my 3hr drug and alcohol training test and "I passed" , so watch out MVA here I come. Hope everyone have a great weekend.

    Congrats!

    I knew YOU would have a comment on that, FREAK :rofl:

    No Tee I didn't get nothing at the mall for myself but I did get my wedding shoes for $10!!! :dancing:

    SCORE on the wedding shoes! :thumbs:

    Alright, likkle more!

  6. LOL girl you took the words out of my mouth I am a online shoppernista :rofl:

    Speaking of shopping online, I'm loving a bunch of the blouses on this site right now. I could seriously go crazy getting a whole bunch of them but at around $30 a pop, I'd put myself right back into credit card debt! http://www.onestopplus.com/Plus-Size-Tunics.aspx?DeptId=15857

    BOY BOOM

    This is a good friend of mine bestfriend. Went to school together and in 9th grade was wearing nails and weave

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    :rofl: @ BOY BOOM! Him too mawga!

    Dang he Mawga?

    Dats what mi say tuh! :lol:

  7. I think we are renewing ours in 2011 if we make it (sike) I want to wear the gown I didn't get to be married in (maybe) I wanted to see JA at Christmas and since are anniversay is the 26th, I'd figure it would be a great time to renew and my children will be with us too and his family!

    Sounds like a great plan!

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    This is the closest thing to rum cream I can find....but it taste like drinking a cinnibon....yummy (yes I am drinking it for breakfast) lol :dance:

    :blink:

    :rofl:

    whooooo hooooo I am so excited I figured out how to post pictures!!!!! Watch out JQ....

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    oh this is tooo fun...maybe because of my morning drink ehhhhh???

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    A monster has been created! :rofl:

    i'm gonna go broke staying home....buying shyt online i dont even need

    isnt it funny how when you order tings online, when it gets delivered you feel all excited like someone sent you a gift...even tho you are the one who ordered and paid for it :lol:

    :yes::yes::yes:

  8. Yesterday, Steven got not one but TWO parking tickets. :blink: Both from the same officer for the same thing. He's working today, tomorrow, & Sunday, too. I suggested that instead of fooling with the parking meters, find a lot & pay one flat price all day.

    He thought I'd be SO MAD at the fact that I'm going through so much effort to save money & he racked up 2 parking tickets his first time downtown. I surprised him by being calm & matter-of-fact about it. "We'll just have to find it in the budget" is all I said.

    Dang! Two tickets...sucky! Obviously all municipalities are having budget crises & they're trying to make up for it with citation revenues.

    Good job & keeping your cool with him. I'm not sure I'd have been so cool either. But hey, with everything you've been saving on groceries lately, you'll have a little extra in the budget to help pay those off! :lol:

    Nat: You don't have any coupons for money off those tickets? lol A joke mi ah mek....

    :rofl: Cracks me up when I think of something similar & I read it later going down the posts.

    HELLO ALL TODAY WE FINALLY SENT OUT AOS ... IT FEELS SO GOOD TO HAVE IT OUT THE DOOR...

    Congrats My3! :thumbs:

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    :rofl:

    Good Morning Yardies....What a Gwannnnn? Congrats to everyone that has good News (New Home, New Baby etc) Well G got his EAD in the mail yesterdy. :dance:

    Congrats! :thumbs:

    Thats because you are not thinking the way you need to be.. You need to strut your stuff in front of his "so-called" friends so that whatever negative things they think about you, like when you saying they were thinking you were old and blah blah you could show them otherwise and give Lehi something to think about.....Like what he is going to be missing if he dont get it together!!

    :yes::devil: Dat's right!

    Any plans fo r the weekend? It is my Bday tomorrow, I am not sure what hubby has planned But I know all weekend I will be on the go.

    Take care

    Happy early Birthday Always! Hope you have a great one! I always love when my b-day falls on a Friday or weekend....more fun that way.

  10. Afternoon Yardies!

    Hey Ladies!!!!!!

    It has been a very very long time since I have been on VJ!!

    I think about you and get to catch up on Facebook :)

    How is everyone??????????????

    I can't believe we are on part 25!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    NUTS!!

    Things with us are well, we are about to close on a house the end of this month!!!

    Hope all is well!!!

    SHREWDIE!!! Wow, lang time! Come & see us more often. Congrats on the new house!

    Okay, when G finish praying he usually says "let the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be acceptable in they sight, oh lord my strength and my redeemer amen" and I've never heard it before so everytime he says it I laugh.

    The 1st session of counseling we went to, the pastor prayed and G prayed and I busted out laughing. I felt so horrible :(

    That was the highlight of that session.

    When we went to church lastwk the pastor was praying and he said so I was like oh ok, I guess it is normal.

    Sooo today's highlight, the pastor was talking about the fact that we need someone who we can talk to and it can't be someone in my house because they're not and were never married or their marriage failed. So then the pastor said "krystle when G not actimg right, you come to me; when G not giving you enough sex you come to me" At the sound of this my eyes widened and G bust out laughing and said "pasta dat nuh sound right, mind weh yah tell mi ooman fi do" :o

    It was SOOO enbarrassing, :help: it's a good thing the pastor pretended not to hear. When we were done and walked out G said he didn't recognize the comment he made until after he made it

    Those are almost the exact same words hubby says when he prays. It's funny to me also. I told him he might make a good pastor!

    :blink: @ your pastor talking about sex!

  11. Somehow I'd missed it, but I went through your posts & saw it. Thanks for thinking of me. :blush: The one that sounds the best to me is: McCormick's and Schmicks has $10.40 dinner and drink specials on April 15.

    Unfortunately, I don't think we will get to take advantage: Today was Steven's first day working for the restaurant. :dance: They'll be serving at the International Fest this & next weekend and he's helping them prep today. Sounds good right? :no: Unfortunately, 1) he doesn't know if he's getting paid for today's work and 2) he got a parking ticket for parking in a tow-away zone. :bonk::crying: "Tickets" is not a category in our new cash budget, so the $$ will have to come from other categories (like restaurants).

    Ummm....it's illegal not to pay someone for working! How does that work out?

    Oops...tickets suck. Hopefully he won't do that again any time soon. I get a parking ticket (usually because of some mishap on a street cleaning day) every 3-5 years & that's enough for me to not get any more!

    Yay Steven for starting the job though! :dance:

  12. JG, I cracked up laughing at the mental image of me doing a big jump into my man's arms. God help us both if I ever attempt it. :rofl:

    LOL! Yeah, I don't think that would be too safe for me to do either! He has picked me up before & held me for a few seconds before I freak out & tell him to put me down. He's so proud of himself talking about how he can do like Elephant Man on stage picking up the fatties! :lol:

    If you do let me know (ahead of time) so Rashida can fly in and show em how we do it East Coast style.. one of us gotta represent! East Siddddddddddddddddddddddddddddeeeeeeeeeeeeeee lol

    :lol: Okay!

    That's really a sweet thing, Jamerican. Never say that so matter of factly. You are awesome for doing that. rose.gif

    Jamerican IS really sweet & from what I've learned, generous like that! (L)

    I'm with you JG this time 2morrow I'll be on my way to the airport!!!

    :dance::dance:

    Dada have fun! Wind it up! Grind it up.. Get jiggy wid it.. do the dayaam thing and when you report it, you bedda not take forever telling us.. type it all on a word document and cut and paste.. It is your best friend! laughing.gif

    Exactly! Cut & paste Dada! And don't wait hours in between to do it....you torture us with that. :bonk: ((chups))

    Well Den and I are now homeowners!!!!! Whew...feels like I can breathe a little bit...but not for long. We got letter in the mail today...biometrics appt. 4/30 at 2:00 p.m. :dance:

    Congrats Dens! How exciting!

    Congrats also on the next step of AOS! Things are going well for you two. :thumbs:

  13. Finessseeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!! Congrats mi dear!! When yuh bringing them to MD fi mi tek some pics???

    How are you all??

    I've been busy with a new job and new apartment.....also been stepping up my photo sessions (yay!)

    Me and hubby are hoping to go to JA in July, will see how that works!!!

    Also have to send in mi LOC forms ASAP, waiting for evidence of a joint car loan....MY GC expires 13th May so cutting it a bit close!

    Good to see you stop in JaEnglish! Congrats with all the good new things in your life & good luck with the LOC!

    Ells - Like Beyonce says.. Its time to pull out the "Freakum Dress" ; And as RuPaul says... "you betta work it"... Girl work it and freakum... you can't go wrong! no0pb.gif

    I guess so. It's hard to want to pull out all the stops when you're irritated though.

    biometrics for hubby gc renewal 4/30 :dance::dance:

    :dance:

    Hubby called Kingston and they said they sent it(BC) to Mobay for him to pick up last friday, so he is gonna go in tomorrow (send prayers that it IS there).... I gotta beleive that all things happen for a reason..and it will be there when it is supposed to be...(just damn frustrating)

    I have been thinking about going back to work in a spa since my class load seems to be more manageable...so been looking on craigslist and just keeping an eye out...WELL, I got a call from a previous employer asking if I wanted to come back as she is in need of someone :thumbs: WHOOOO HOOOOO...Thank you LORD....

    Hope that GC is really there this time!

    Congrats on getting the old job back...what a relief!

    This summer FO SHO!!! :dance: I am feelin your joy today too....

    (we may need to hook up just to go beat some Lehi's azz :rofl: )

    Yeah, what she says...this summer!

    Lehi could use a beating right now....hurry & come to SF! I left his rass at home last night & found a quiet place in the city to contemplate things & talk to my Mom on the phone. I came home about 3 hours later & he'd had plenty of time to think about things. Today we are doing a bit better but there are still improvements needed. Saturday I think we'll go see his teacher/counselor friend at her church. Anyway...

  14. BF is on his way back from being gone 4 days. I'm bouncing around this office waiting!

    And, whether you care or not, I am telling you...........I gained 10 points yesterday and flew into 2nd place in Fantasy Baseball. Been smack talking all morning! I AM THE QUEEN!!!!!

    Well we know there's gonna be a sexy party tonight! LOL

    :lol: @ 'whether you care or not'!

    for anyone looking for baby names...

    my persanal favorite..splifferella

    :lol:

    :lol:

    I'm sitting @ the gyn in my bday suit and she BETTER show today!

    On another, the family is finally coming around and helping with the wedding so that's great and thank God!

    Honey made the cutest bouqet ever but it won't upload to show it to you guys...

    You know you're a VJ addict when.... you're sitting at the gyn in your bday suit still posting on the board! :rofl:

    Here is a good topic for discussion, which is better hugging or kissing?

    Im definitely a HUGGER.. KISSING YUCKY

    More of a hugger, but kissing is fun sometimes. I like non-slobbery kisses though.

  15. Afternoon Yardies!

    CVS sent me a $3 off $15 purchase coupon when they sent new Extra Buck cards.

    I went to their website & was able to print a $4 off coupon.

    At the store, they have these kiosks where you can scan your card & get coupons. I'd NEVER scanned it before this week, not really knowing what it was. Well, I got a $4 off coupon there, plus I got $1 off CVS paper product and $1 off CVS beauty product. I found paper & beauty products that were only $1 (2 rolls toilet paper & bag of cotton balls) and got them for free!

    Nat, you make me laugh with how enthusiastically you've taken up saving money! I now follow 'Nat's Coupon Saving Adventures'! LOL :thumbs:

    :cry::idea: But ya know what, Im just gonna do my part and email it to the teacher with a very detailed explanation with the behavior of them :secret: (second group since class started since first group died out, so had to re-do all of the work I already did on a different company).

    :clock: Meeting time was 10 am... will see what happens. DONE VENTING :ot2:

    That is so frustrating Besa! I've had projects with classmates like that. But you know what, someone said something to me that helped me kick it in to overdrive & I did the bulk of the work anyway. They told me that I was the one who was going for the good grade so do it with that in mind. That said, I did 98% of the project but I also got an 'A' on that final exam & of course an 'A' in the class. My partner in the project got an 'A' on the final too but I'm sure he was lucky to get a 'B' or 'C' in the class if the work he put in on that project was any indication of the effort he put in for the rest of the class. Good luck with everything! Don't let the slackers effect your grade.

  16. Ok Guys, will officially send off AOS today... Despite all the obstacles and donwfalls, we have gotten it together lol.... Please pray for us. :dancing:

    Congrats Besa!

    Yay!

    Yeah... the 10 yr part is concerning.

    7 Habits:

    1) Be proactive (instead of reactive. Have purpose)

    2) Begin with the end in mind

    3) Put first things first (instead of putting 2nd or unimportant things first)

    4) Think Win-Win

    5) Seek first to understand, then to be understood (it makes the other person more receptive to your point of view if he sees you're trying to understand his pov)

    6) Synergize (When 2+2>4. This should happen automatically if you've done the other steps.)

    7) Sharpen the saw (important to keep your mind/body/soul refreshed & renewed to do your best with the other habits)

    I need to go into a B&N or Borders & sit down & read some of this so I can decide whether or not to buy it.

    He cheated finesse.

    That sucks Dillon! Of course, you have obviously recovered marvelously! :yes:

    probably not a good sign that you are.. :blush:

    True. :unsure:

    ok, that would be it for me too..

    Me too! No exceptions, do not pass go, do not collect $200!

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    My goodness JQ! This is smiley porn! :lol::bonk:

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