1st - Thank you all so much for your concerns and advice, I really appreciate it 🙏. Since we started talking online, he’s been very honest with me about his past, and I truly believe he’s a changed man. He’s responsible, especially when it comes to his kids (a boy and a girl). He was never married to his ex-girlfriend, and both of us have been single for quite a while now.
2nd - He’s not very familiar with computers and does mostly physical work, so I’ll be handling the documentation for him. I’ll prepare everything and he’ll just need to sign the papers.
3rd - If we don’t file for the K-1, what other options do we have? I’m working overseas and only have limited time when I’m in Manila. Even for a civil wedding, they require about 10 days of waiting time (I forgot what it’s called). My fiancé also needs to go to the US Embassy for his affidavit. Neither of us can stay in Manila for 30 days or more, and he’s busy with work too. We just want to get the paperwork done as smoothly and quickly as possible so we can finally be together.
4th - Do you think his past might cause any issues or get us denied?
He told me his major offenses include assault, domestic violence, related assault, harassment/threats, resisting arrest, obstructing law enforcement, robbery, residential burglary, DUI, negligent driving, and weapons related charges.
He also has some minor ones like overspeeding, failure to wear a seatbelt, DWLS 3rd degree, and a few others.
By the way, we’re planning to finally meet in person for the first time in Manila in March 2026, just for a week, also so he can meet my family. We really can’t stay longer because of our work commitments. Honestly, we just want to meet once, get the papers done, and be together. That’s our goal.
Because of his past arrests and convictions, I’ve asked him to gather all the certified records and dispositions for each case. If he’s missing anything, I told him to contact the county court or municipality to request it. It’s
pretty frustrating, to be honest.
Thank you for all your efforts in reading and answering my questions. A lot of things bother me and your inputs are truly appreciated.