The individual that is being referenced is me, and yes we both submitted letters of intent. So instead of making assumptions, which seems to be the norm in this forum, maybe do a bit of probing so your comments or suggestions can help or edify. As I stated previously the RFE specifically asked for proof of an engagement ceremony as it is customary in Ethiopia. And do you mean misconstrued as a marriage ceremony? But regardless, I’ll provide what is asked. Even though the Consular makes the final decision, USCIS is the gatekeeper.