Hi!
I am a US citizen and met my fiance in Sweden. I complete my bachelor's here and he has been in Sweden for 5 years seeking asylum. We met over 2 years ago and have plenty of evidence of our relationship. He even met my parents and friends from the US in person when they came for my graduation. We knew we wanted to be together long term and at one point had hopes we could perhaps settle in Sweden long-term. Things changed recently, I had started looking at graduate programs in the US and then he received negative on his case. Due to all this, we decided we would try to go to the US together but I have some concerns about how this all looks.
1. Will applying after his negative decision look bad/cause problems? He will try to stay in Sweden on asylum appeals until he can go to the US because he feels his home country (Iraq) is not safe for him.
2. Because this has all been a discussion between us we don't have any official looking proposal
3. For complicated reasons he can't get an updated passport at the moment
4. I just graduated this past spring and am working in Sweden. I don't think I can really prove financial support at the moment but I have a parent that is willing to take that responsibility.
5. We are also a bit young, I am 23 and he is 25.
Thanks in advance for any advice you may have!