Sage11

As i mentioned above - my mother does not meet the requirements for I864, but the interviewer still asked for it from her anyway stating that we filed the wrong form (form I864A which my mother does meet the requirements for). 
 
I am "worrying" because i am trying to reunite my family, to take my husband out of a war zone where people of his type are being prosecuted and killed, and do not want to face rejection from the embassy, and came to this community for understanding and helpful advice. Thank you. 

There’s absolutely nothing strange or interesting about that. Contrary to the myth out there, many marriages happen for a reason other than love.
 
For example there are many people who wouldn’t marry their spouse if they are one eyed, had no legs, don’t have a college degree, have poor credit, are HIV+, etc. etc. Another reason many people get married, particularly in poorer economies is economic reasons. People all over the world from antiquity have married for economic reasons.
 
Many of my Indian classmates had arranged marriages to partners they didn’t know until a week or two before the marriage. Very obviously love was not the main factor and yet most of those marriages survived and thrived to the end.
 
Westerners may find that strange or claim to find it strange, however there’s nothing strange about it and to me it’s just hypocrisy or lack of understanding how things work in this world.
 
Economic opportunity happens to be one reason and it’s as legitimate as the next. It’s nobody’s business except the two people involved if the precipitating reason for the “love” is economic opportunity. 
 
My $0.02.
 
 

You seem to be in the business of finding excuses and explanations why things should be the way you want. Unfortunately immigration doesn’t work that way.
 
Your wife can provide proof of domicile, e.g getting on a plane and returning to the USA 🇺🇸 and providing documents, otherwise if as you say “getting on a plane is not possible, we will go together”, then go ahead and issue yourself since it appears you have that authority and go together.

your wife can find a joint sponsor but with only 1 month together ,  the petition can still be denied
SSi  so she can  not add u to health care policy 
i will say to u honestly your case is weak
 
not enough time together
Casa looks at your education and work history and area in US   to see if the job market would be good for u
they like to see the USC has started to commingle any of her finances with u like filing Married on tax returns  MFJ is best for Morocco
But if no tax returns ,  then other areas like a utility bill ,  wills u  both have written in favor of the other joint accounts like charge card,  deed or apartment lease
Casa reviews all the red flag issues like big age difference 
 
I will very harsh in the next paragraph but Moroc is a high fraud country with many coming here and then divorcing the USC and the following is the way the CO saw the case
 
U say her illness prevented her from staying longer
sorry,  but she was able to fly to Moroc, stay the month it takes to do the documents and get approval for marriage
she could travel thoughout Moroc to get docment from US embassy ,  get to the translators to show in person the US documents were hers,  travel to Rabat to office of foreign minister,  and back to your home to meet with police and judge  /  all that had to be done to marry kiinda shows illness is not the problem.   And hurts more than u can know
 
You 2 want to be together,  u need to spend quality time together and possibly refile the I 130
 
the chats In this case will be looked at carefully to see if u were quick to say I love u as that is a red flag sign according to Department of State 
 
Good luck and please understand Casa is tough but from what they have seen in the past,  they have to be
And if u really are meant to be  together ,,  work on your issues as hard as Adil and i  did (6 years to get the visa and married almost 13)

Recipe for heartache and despair.  If you/she insists, then start by becoming an A-Student of the I-130 instructions and the form itself.  Rely on us for the things you don't understand after doing the homework.  Relying on questions is not a good idea.  Without the study, you don't know what you don't know, so don't know what questions to ask.