I didnt realize I could file the I-485 with the I-130. So I did that first. My mistake for sure. We have the I-485 filled out, waiting for the Civic Doctor paperwork returned (we went to the Doctor last week once I realized we could file that concurrently). I just didn't want to file the I-485 without asking about the I-765 first. I will definately file the I-131 just in case. We really would love to go visit his family and I am so excited to meet them face to face. I truly appreciate all the information you have given me. Thank you so very much and I will read that attachment.