sara.....

I am sooo Very Happy for you it has been a long and painful road for you and your family congratulations there really are not words to express how happy I am for you and your family

sara

You used the C-word (the one that ends with p not t...), that's why it did it When you get email updates you get the uncensored version so I could see what word got censored.

and thats a swear word? strange well at least i know lol

The list of words that are on the VJ filter is extensive to say the least, and I do mean the very least.

ok thanks lol that just the first time i ever been xxxx was a shock

hey whats with the pound signs? I dont swear or use bad langue ever on these boards of off of them thats just strange...................

I haven't read all of the post....but if he is older as you stated and he has shown he is insecure then really maybe he is jealous and finds you so beautiful that he is afraid he will loose you to some hot guy that you have never met before that has offered you a ride........and thats why he reacted like he did..........im not going to say he is right but i see it as loss of communication........you should always keep your husband in the loop of your plans could be he would say oh hey i will go with you or at least acknowledge that he understands your need to make friends with people that are going thru the same thing you are......sorry guys dont mean to knock you and i mean no insult but men have a mine mine mine mentality and dont like to share what is theirs.....not even socially unless they are there seeing whats going on they dont trust other men and sometimes for good reason. as far as your sister in law be courteous to her when in public if she comes to you home do the same thing but if she gets out of hand tell her your home is the one place you dont have to take ####### so if she can not be courteous to you in your own home is better she leaves might want to clue hubby into that before doing it he might decide to make her behave so there is no heated words between you.

good luck and just try your best to sooth the ruffled feathers ....im sure your marriage means more to you than a hook up meeting with others going thru immigration

sara

I dont know why every story has to gather the Muslim blah blah but here are some facts.

If your with your parents and its a safe place you need to report the abuse so that its on record........if he has nothing to loose there is nothing stopping him from harming himself and calling police to make a case against you so that he can stay as domestic violence victim........

If he is that cruel divorce wont stop him but you do need the divorce...never go any place in public a lone if you can , a restraining order is a good idea but once again its like a divorce paper only.....report him and never be alone with him also once he is reported as abuser dont even take his phone calls make sure that the restraining order includes not being able to contacting you by phone or multi media each time he breaks the restraining order make sure you document it and turn it over to the police sooner or later he will find out what the inside of a cell looks and feels like

i dont know but men that physically hit women scare the snot out of me.......so im just giving you ideas that i would do for myself if i was in your shoes

sara

Chase in Oregon seems to be easy a friend of the family had a three month visa and wanted to put their cash into the bank they allowed it

sara

If i were you i would save any legal documents pertaining to the charges being dropped just because the court didnt give him what he was looking for does not mean he wont try to get immigration to rule VAWA... i would send a letter including copy of what ever the court gave you so that he cant pull VAWA........it could seriously mess up your future......

then change all the locks on your door and refuse to talk to him on the phone or in person alone......start divorce proceedings..you could try to prove mental abuse because of what he is trying to pull but might be faster to just get a divorce and start your future over......from what information you have given it sounds like visa fraud .........its easier to get over a broken heart than to try to fix a mess that is he is attempting

my prayers are with you

sara

who here is against concealed carry? show of hands pls..

mmm I do but wait im Muslim so maybe i dont count

sara

it does not matter what religion the people that were murdered were.............these terrorist need to be stopped

sara

Well, you know it was going to happen. The Islamophobes are already trashing one of the victims. Like George Zimmerman, this guy will soon be called a hero. I can almost hear some of these folks chanting, "It was justifiable homicide under the Castle Doctrine."

http://www.barenakedislam.com/2015/02/12/well-well-looks-like-one-of-the-so-called-innocent-muslim-students-who-was-gunned-down-had-some-very-pro-islamic-terrorism-leanings-himself/

there is no cure for stupid

sara

Im thinking the reason the question about the gun is asked because the dr wants to know if a mental patient or if his patient turns out to be mental has a gun...........

sara

hmmmmm non-dark pigmented shooter=needs mental stability checked

what does color of skin have to do with mental problems?.......no matter what color he is its really hard for me to accept that this was done over a parking space

sara

They need to check his mental stability .............really shooting people in the head over parking dispute?

People fight or yell or threaten but to go into a families apartment at five in the morning and manage to shoot all three of them in the head over something like that absolutely makes no sense at all.......I want to know if he caught them all sleeping or they were in morning prayer.......

sara

CHAPEL HILL, N.C. (AP) — An ongoing parking dispute between neighbors sparked the shooting deaths of three family members at a quiet condominium complex near the University of North Carolina campus, police said Wednesday.

wow

sara

"The solution is to bring in female foreign chauffeurs to drive our wives," he said, to which his host put her head in her hands and asked: "Seriously

Maybe he is off of his meds?

sara

he seems a couple of sandwiches short of a full picnic basket

sara

Me thinks it was done on purpose to illicit...well, illicit something I suppose.

Heck, one could be a follower of multiple religions so which one takes precedent?

Maybe I'm a Jewish-Christian-Muslim American...or how about simply referring to the victims as students. Referencing them being Muslim doesn't seem germane to me.

But what the hell, I'm a newbie in the welcoming CEHST board so what would I know.

Same reason terrorist are not simply called terrorist but instead are called Muslim terrorist

I dont know if this was an act of terror or someone that was just unstable and would have shot any person they came across .........if it was an act of terror because of the students being Muslim then ever single service person, Muslim, Christian or what ever religion they practice died for nothing....they died to protect our freedom part of that freedom is to practice what ever religion we are.... free from harm......free from harassment..... free from persecution.

Most of us are not terrorist we live daily trying to just live our life same as anyone else......

Is this truly what the instigators of hate for all Muslims wanted? Does this make them happy killing three students that had no way to protect themselves? Will it be children in day care that happen to be Muslim that is next?

Every media program has people that incite violence against Muslims face book...........twitter its all out there

My prayer today is to remove the hate from peoples hearts that hate people with out justification simply because they practice Islam

sara

I dont know what state she lives in but for Oregon you can send the divorce petition visa fedx and when he signs for it the fedx shows on the web site the person signed for the letter then print it out and it shows evidence the person was served ...(thats the only way I could serve my xhusband).......if the person is not willing to sign for it sometimes you can get them served by the court in their country or you can have someone serve the papers and write a statement that they in fact did serve the person at such and such a date and such and such address.......

as long as she is able to get the divorce in the USA she does not have to divorce the person again in their country at least that is how it was explained to me

sara

went there and they are giving answers that most of us know do not make since one person from husband from africa was told your husband can put in for visitor visa just because there is a petition for marriage visa does not mean he will not be able to visit...........text book answers that mean nothing

sara

I think it does under sharia

Your right it does but thats not the law that will try them.

sara

Too bad this crime does not qualify for the death penalty

sara