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Posts posted by mohamed N melinda
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congratulation for both of you
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We are so happy for you!
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I hope everyone has a wonderful sunday!
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happy birthday amir
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this our wedding cake yuuuuumy
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good morning every one . wish you all great day
it is my last day here in Egypt . it is very hard for me. inshaAllah i will be fine
pray for me to have safe trip
Mohamed
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you are in our prayer best wishes
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good morning every one
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Maybe thats what I need....some couscous.
I'm sure that would make my husband happy.
especially if he could watch
you naughty girl!
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congratulation tasha
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Does it smell like fish?
that just *ain't* right.... now you behave Mz Jax.
noooo, i think u use a chicken broth kinda thing over it...its got the greatest texture..so addictiveAmal, don't you see what she's getting at? *couscous*.... mmmmmmmmmm..... COUS!!!
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muslim manners and traditions
Why not just teach your children to be a good human being? It is wrong to kill, wrong to lie, wrong to hurt and abuse someone. As far as dating, a young woman should be able to take care of herself, know the facts of being sexual active. Why it is a better idea to study than to run around with boys. It starts young, and don’t make up things, always be honest. Take them to a homeless shelter; see what happens when you make bad decisions. When your daughter is young, take her to see a place where teen mothers are, let her talk to these young girls. Nothing is better at burning an image in a young person’s head is to see their own peers in a bad situation. If it gets totally out of control, which I am blessed never has, take them to the morgue, let them smell death from drugs and sex, and car accidents. Also make sure your children are well read, on all subjects, and if they still not listening take them to a max security prison and let the prisons have a personal talk with the young person, once again, sometimes it takes a shock to wake up. The biggest thing I told my daughter, I will always love you, I may not like some of your choices, but that will never change my love for you, and will always be there for you.
My daughter will be graduating from UF in two weeks with her bachelors, so I have done something right. Lol For the Muslims, yes she is still a virgin at 22, too busy trying to work on her education, she knows she can do whatever she wants she is an adult, the test is what they do when they no longer with you.
i agree with you and muslim manners and traditions say all what listed above
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Although parents can teach their children right from wrong, it does not mean their kids won't do something wrong. Everyone makes mistakes. It's normal and it's a part of life. My parents are awesome and were VERY STRICT with my brother and I growing up. What did that make me want to do???? Rebel, rebel, rebel which we both did. Did my parents still love us because we got a little crazy for a while? Did they ever think of killing us? Hell no.
i agree with you in that . killing isnot an option for anything . and how someone kill someone he love
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Alot of what I dont understand is why do some parents get so upset when their children adopt some western views. Isnt it nieve to expect your child to go to school with americans hang out with americans, but to still have the strict mena point of views???
it depend on what every person think and believe . to come to live in usa that not mean that we have to be thier belief. and through your manners and tradtions a way
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Although I do agree with many of the things you stated. I do not agree with you saying that it is the fathers falt for not being stricter, and teaching them when they were younger. There are woman that went to my masjid, that wear a hijab (some do, some don't), and have lost their virginity, and have went to get their privates repaired by surgery. Parents can only do so much even if he had his girls wear their hijab since they were nine, that doesnt promise anything!!
i agree with you that hijab wont prevent them to do wrong . as so many muslims women wear hijabs but still do wrong and hide it.
what i meant that he should have taught them all muslim manners and traditions and it was his fault that he didnot as it seem he was busy on them and wake too late when they are already older and hard to change. it depends totaly on the parents that they who taught thier kids whats the right from wrong.
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thats very sad . may Allah have his mercy on thier souls ameen
first of all islam never order nor advise of honor of killing.
so many poeple kill thier famillies from different religions and nationalities .
it is not mean that muslim Egyptian man killed his 2 daughter that all muslims like that nor Egyptians . Islam is perfect Muslims arenot. when very few members in any groups do wrong thats not mean all the group are wrong . each group has bad and good
yes dating isnot accepted in islam . but after i watched the vedeos i see that both young girls isnot wearing hijabs. and they wear shorts and tight short clothes . that mean thier father didnot teach them islamically or didnot taech them islamic tradation. so it was his fault from the first . if he is that stritic muslim man so he should have teach them that and raise them on that not after them became 17&18 years he come to tell them no dating. sure it will be so hard for them as they see thier friends do that. if this man raise them and teach them right they will never have done that.
Allah give us life and noone should has the right to take it away but him
may Allah has his mercy on thier soul
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How to make your husband happy...
do not post an internet board (for all to see) about his eccentricities (whether in the bathroom, the bedroom, or elsewhere).
Heck...the same is true for the wife too!
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Jumah Mubrakah
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congratulation and best wishes for you
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quraan or sunnah never order muslims to hit wives as they as they are soft creation
islam is perfect but muslims are not
as muslim i see hitting just for animals to obey who dont has mind to think by. and it will never be a way to make anything better . the husband who hit his wife show his weakness by that action as if he was wise strong man he would never have to hit his wife to listen to him . the moment husband hit his wife he would loss her respect for him as a man
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I find it interesting that this yahoo posts how to make a husband happy. How about making his "wife" happy? Why wouldn't he be posting that? Shouldn't that be his top priority?If you are talking about me no I would not accept to be hit at all. I know I dont have to worry about that any way.
So then do you just not accept that part of Islam?
Whether it is a part of Islam is debatable. Not everyone translates the word in the ayat that people say means a man can strike his wife the same way.
I've never heard this was debatable. So what are the alternative translations? I don't care one way or the other, but I always am somewhat curious about why people accept or reject certain things of faith based on the evidence. If it is translated in different ways that is definately a reason to disagree and would support any disagreement. What really sparked my curiosity, and of course she is totally free to not respond, is that her husband had posted this and so one would think he agreed with it and she stated a dissention. Hitting of any kind seems like it would be a more major kind of issue that two people should agree on.
Here is a link that gives a limited explanation. http://www.religionwriter.com/reviews/book...-lightly-verse/
There are a couple of authors that tackle it more deeply, and if you are interested, PM me and I will respond with titles. It breaks to basically what the article says though, that the word can also mean "strike out" as in a journey". One of the authors goes more into the actual form of the word in Arabic and why she believes hitting is not the correct interpretation, comparing other uses of the word in the Qu'ran.
Also, I don't know if not agreeing with hitting is rejecting part of faith. People have different opinions on whether the Qur'an is frozen or something meant to be interpreted for different times, or meant to evolve. For example, the prohibition on alcohol was given in increments. The Qur'an and Sunnah set the framework for abolishing slavery. Polygyny was limited by the Qur'an rather than a new permission. Striking a wife lightly, if interpreted that way, is clearly a restriction, not an endorsement or injunction for a man to hit his wife. One choosing not do so is not rejecting something we are commanded to do. Also, being that the Prophet never engaged in it and advised others not do to so, it can be understood that it was not desirable and should not be done. It can be argued this would be the natural evolution - first limiting a society that had no problem in abusing women and then eliminating it all together by the example of the Prophet. Rejecting part of one's faith IMO is rejecting something that is something that is not desired to begin with, but something that is an undebatable element, such as prayer.
I agree-- in that I don't see it as a major pillar of the Islamic faith at all... But I was aiming more at what you touched on with wether or not that would involve disagreement with the Qu'ran, and thus is it static or....? I'm glad you understood my question. I'm going to look at your link when I get home. I'll PM you if I have any questions.
quraan or sunnah never order muslims to hit wives as they as they are soft creation
islam is perfect but muslims are not
as muslim i see hitting just for animals to obey who dont has mind to think by. and it will never be a way to make anything better . the husband who hit his wife show his weakness by that action as if he was wise strong man he would never have to hit his wife to listen to him . the moment husband hit his wife he would loss her respect for him as a man
You know, making a husband happy really isn't that hard. Just show up naked with food!now i think u talking about dog not husband
You really don't make sense, don't bother trying.
are you talking to me?
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You know, making a husband happy really isn't that hard. Just show up naked with food!
now i think u talking about dog not husband
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If you are talking about me no I would not accept to be hit at all. I know I dont have to worry about that any way.
you say this, but your sheik you quoted in your first post on this thread says differently.... no naturally we assume you must be ok with it, seeing as you quoted what this shiek said as a good thing.
ignore
if you like what you read so dont read it.dont waste your expensive time shalome
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good morning morning morning morning lol sarra (esedia)
morning sereia try to back to rest
How do you know if something's halal?
in Middle East and North Africa
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muslims just can eat meat or chicken that islamically killed by cut throat by sharp knief and say bismillah . thats the halal meat
since i came to usa i just eat cheese and vegtable till i find middle eastern store to get halal meat to eat or find a live chicken