Good Evening! Ok got more info after talking to the lawyer...tell me what you think (and you're right...its I-212 and I-601A)
Shortened version
I-601 A Form:
1. wait until USCIS sends email of approval to the NVC to continue to #2
2. Based on the fact that you didn't leave when the judge ordered you too...we have to fill out I-601 A ($6k plus $930 fee for document)
3. we right letter about how I will suffer in extreme ways from her absences, etc, etc. to file this waiver (I-601A ) we need first immigration services to notify NVC that they have received approval to make a $325 and $120 immigrant visa application fees. We include these receipts with your I-601A "For this form we will need all of these for possible consideration":
A. Copies of husband taxes for 3 years filed single or married doesn't matter
B. Proof of retirement letter/payments from pension etc
C. Copies of all house expenses, car leases, insurance, all other main expenses for the month
D. health hardship considerations for husband
E. Medical Reports of Husband
F. Copies of Health Insurance
G. Psych Eval from a therapist stating emotional hardship for husband for wife to leave
H. Husband & Wife write out a letter of emotional hardship being apart
I. Police report for wife for all counties she's lived in while being here in the US.
J. Letter on why the wife did not leave the country when asked too
K. Wife Taxes for 19 or so years paying taxes in the country
L. Birth Certificates of Husband and Wife..certified
M. Birth Certificates of All Husbands Children's and all of Wife's Children's...certified
N. Birth Certificates of all spouses above children's. (example...husbands sons wife would be require to provide a Birth certificate) ...certified
O. Birth Certificates of the children's of those children's ( the grandkids) ...certified
P. If any children of the husband and Wife have any spouses that are perm residents with green cards, copies of those are also required (copy of the green card)
Q. Bank Statements for past 12 months
That's everything for I-601A - we do and submit this while she's here still in the country, after we submit she packs her things and goes back to her home country and wait until she hears from the embassy about an interview (just her alone)
I-212 Form
"Although this waiver can be filed at the same time as the I-601 A Waiver, it is most likely that the Immigration Service will not approve it until you leave the US and the Consul requests it. That is, after having an I-601 Waiver approval, and you present yourself at the Embassy, the Consul can ask you for this waiver. I mean, it is not known if USCIS would accept it since you are still in the US. You can still file, but there is the possibility of having to file again, and pay the $930 twice. Or if you prefer, you can start with the first waiver, and if you are approved, then file this second waiver so that you are outside of the US when they review it. As we speak, it is very difficult to know how long you would have to be away waiting for the decision of this second pardon." exactly to the T what lawyer said
The fee for this form is $6k + the $930
Now...my question and concern from the procedure on I-601A are...
1. G
2. K
3. N
4. O
5. You or someone mentioned Stokes interview...so i'm assuming now there will be 2 interviews? ( i honestly forgot to ask this question). The first one in her country is a regular/somewhat normal NVC interview like when you file a I-129f?? and then more grueling Stokes interview is after the I-212 gets approved and she can come back here to the US for the 2nd interview?