Piano Man

I can believe the shower one! 
The burning money part i heard of. Her being a buddhist has been a learning experience. I went to take a photo in the temple of the buddha and she punched my arm and said no pictures! and i about dropped my phone hahaha
Was hilarious. 
 

It's tough for you since you aren't here.  I moved here January 2019 and married April 2019 so I have had a lot of time to show her how a lot of their superstitions are just that.  I have been told:
 
She can't hand me a toothpick becuase if she does we will argue all day.
If I take a shower before bed and go to sleep with my hair wet I will die. (reallly!)
They burn fake money at TET to give money to the deceased.
I can't stroke her belly becuase it will give her "belly pain".
 
And so on.  I have since convinced her of the silly nature of some of these superstitions.

When i see these threads they bring back fears Stein lol. Me and my wife are still in USCIS stage. 
1 and 2 could be a problem for us. We married in Oct 2018 on my second trip 7 months after the first trip. 
I can't change the past now but she was very adamant on an elder that her mother chose to choose our date. 
Everything went well. Big wedding too. 
What sucks is the Covid has blocked my ability to visit. At this stage I'm not sure i will be able to go to interview. 
 
She is currently in English classes and is getting better but she is 50/50 on language. If i speak to fast i have to repeat some things. She has a degree and works so i hope that helps. I actually think communicating is not hard especially with modern tools such as text and video. 
She is a wonderful girl though and i hope it isn't to bumpy for us. Being able to visit soon would be great. 
 
These reality check threads are good to keep us focused.