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    MsZ got a reaction from Adriene H in Passport revoked!   
    A love child? How about a can't keep it in his pants child? Or make that children. Or how about a doesn't have responsible sex child?
    And no, if my husband cheated and had a child outside of the marriage, I would divorce him so fast he wouldnt' know what hit him. But you married him after the fact. This guy wouldn't even be on my radar because he is not a suitable partner. But enjoy living in denial believing that love is all that matters. You'll soon find out that is far from the truth.
    As for people who think that exercising judgement is a bad thing, again I challenge you to tell whether you'd recommend this guy to your daughter.
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    MsZ got a reaction from anka in House quit claim deed question   
    Shoot. Had a whole reply and lost it.
    My H moved into my house with everything in my name, too. So I explained it in the cover letter -- they've seen this situation probably more than just a couple of times. ANYTHING you have joint during that period is good. The more the merrier. My H bought things for the house that were either mailed to us or were put on quotes and invoices. Stuff like parts for the toilet and a sink. Doesn't matter what. A person not living with you is not going to get a quote for a deck on the house and pay for it out of pocket himself. Same for getting the back deck redone.
    We had only 1 common bill at that time. We included several, but not all months -- just showing that it continued over time. His paycheck with our address. NY license. My insurance with his name on it. My 401K showing he is my beneficiary (which is kind of stupid because there or not, he is.)
    Didn't even include taxes.
    My MIL kept a list of every time my H crossed the border. Don't know exactly why. But it showed that he spent his time mainly in the US. Has sons in Canada so regular trips back home. Explained those things in the letter.
    Two affidavits -- one from my ex-husband who met my now H when we were dating when he came to pick up the kids. So he is aware how long we've been together. Probably pulled some weight.
    We finally moved into a home we bought together. So the last 7 months we had a lot of joint things. We also bought a timeshare. I figured that anyone stupid enough to buy a timeshare together is probably married. I may have even said that in the letter. I figure humor never hurts.
    Try not to worry about the house. If you think hard, you'll find plenty of other things to use. And, I found the same thing as the other poster -- would have had to refinance to get his name on the house. Not worth it. If I croaked, he would own an underwater house. Lucky him.
    Good luck.
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    MsZ got a reaction from sschen in Question about the timeline   
    When they gave you the NOA1, you were granted an additional year on your conditional green card status. Just travel with that piece of paper.
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    MsZ got a reaction from k84 in Yahoooo..Production of card 4-9-11   
    LOL! I read the title and thought, "Didn't know Yahoo produces greencards..."
    (Air-head!!)
    Congratulations!
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    MsZ got a reaction from B_J in What can be done to put pressure on VSC?   
    Sergi, what's your timeline? Why not fill it in and contribute some actual information instead of speculation? Remember, some of us have been through the process before and are trying to suggest that after an unreasonable amount of time, contacting a Congressman is a good idea. My Congressman made 2 inquiries and followed up with me with phone calls. Well, his assistant did. I still remember her name because she was so thorough and dedicated to serving the Congressman's constituents.
    You're free to believe what you want to believe. But don't speak like you are the voice of authority, telling people what to do about their weddings and how they should feel. That's just not cool.
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    MsZ got a reaction from Blob18 in What can be done to put pressure on VSC?   
    Sergi, what's your timeline? Why not fill it in and contribute some actual information instead of speculation? Remember, some of us have been through the process before and are trying to suggest that after an unreasonable amount of time, contacting a Congressman is a good idea. My Congressman made 2 inquiries and followed up with me with phone calls. Well, his assistant did. I still remember her name because she was so thorough and dedicated to serving the Congressman's constituents.
    You're free to believe what you want to believe. But don't speak like you are the voice of authority, telling people what to do about their weddings and how they should feel. That's just not cool.
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