Also I had an attorney and he said he wanted proof of me sending money so I had bank wire transfers where I had sent my husband money. Please don't listen to people putting your age gap down. Live is love and age is a number. My husband is 28 years younger than me and we are happy! He is 38 almost 39 and I am 67! By the way we have a great sex life. Let people talk! Do what you need to do to be with your wife.