Tony999

3 minutes ago, Pinkrlion said:

She can do better

So could you!

50 minutes ago, Boris Farage said:

The question may not be 'if' it can be done; it can be done with a joint sponsor (although I understand this may be more difficult for a K1 visa). The question is more likely to be 'should' it be done, given the day to day financial strains. I truly hope the best for the OP and wish him success. 

 

Yeah right don't change your tune now. What could I offer a woman living in a lawnmower shed with a very poor roof. Who has no medical insurance, in a third world country. Working for less than her monthly nut, lucky to get more than a bowl of rice a day.   Mods Please close this thread. 

1 minute ago, payxibka said:

Have you thought about relocating there?  Your SSI will go further 

I would more than love to, I can't. 

Just now, payxibka said:

Me too 

I'm on SSI supplemental security income

2 minutes ago, payxibka said:

How big is the age gap?

Not too bad she's 30 I'm 42 she's a little overweight not crazy cute. She works in a hospital many hours a week. A very simple woman working for her family way back home. 

Just now, payxibka said:

Oy vay.   Was the potential your idea or hers?

Mine 

Just now, Jorgedig said:

So you've never actually met?

That's correct.

None yet, going to Manila for two weeks as soon as I get my passport.  Thanks everyone, please go easy on me haha.

Just now, Jorgedig said:

If you can get by with only spending $3k, it will be a miracle.  Many here have spent ~$10k or more, all told.

Really? Oh my gosh. Could you give me some idea's on what made it cost so much. Wow Yea that's more than I can drop.

5 minutes ago, Cyberfx1024 said:

Where in Mindanao does your fiance live if you don't mind me asking, and has she ever worked abroad? I am asking this to see if you will need more than 1 trip to Manila to do everything. This is honestly the biggest issue with having a fiance in the provinces of Mindanao is the traveling back and forth to Manila for stuff. My wife is from Compostela Valley Province by the way. 

She Lives in Purok Rizal,Bacolod Ozamiz City,Misamis Occidental??? Great point, she did work in Dubai not sure if it was more than six months. 

First off Thank you to everyone for responding, and this wonderful forum. I will find a way to donate, once I complete this crazy trail.   I know the cost of life here in the US, I know she will not be able to work for many months. The cost of immigration is about 3K or more for us including everything. She's in the Philippines on Mindanao, flights to and from Manila, then the US.  It's the paperwork and that side of things. Who gets what fee, I'm scared of. Because I'm going to have to do my end and tell her how to do her stuff. I would have no chance without your help. Please and thank you for all of your help. I have a bad heart and this has already been very stressful. I guess if we need a sponsor either way. Maybe the CR1 Spousal visa is best, but I worry about getting advice, as less people know about that.  

I was going to petition my fiancée for a k1 visa. I've just started reading about it for the past few day. Just now on one website I read for the first time.