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ice-qube

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  1. Thanks, me too! Lol. Seriously though, this is unfair and i would say unjust as well. I wish the best for us all, and pray that none of you recent additions face the time horizon I have faced in this. I might sound a bit whiny, but I am just tired of it already. It is a long time to have your life in limbo.
  2. No, it has been 1 year and 2 months in AP since my interview, and 3.5 years since i filed to start this process. Anyway one looks at it, this is a tremendous amount of time to waste in one's finite life. It is ridiculous.
  3. I can’t afford the expense either…but i did it and it is battering my finances because I saw no other option, in my case. believe me, I resisted it and resisted it. I can’t wait literally forever; it has been already 3.5 years waiting for this whole immigration thing to be settled—-and still not settled.
  4. Yes, I got DS-5535 (221g is just the reference to the section of law under which you are being refused; indeed, this includes people like myself who are given 5535). As for the “reason”, well my friend, i would love to know that myself. Needless to say, I find it a travesty and extremely unjust. I am not shady in the least and have nothing to hide. I have been married to my wife over 9 years (10 in Feb!). I was born in Canada and so were my parents. I have no criminal record or arrests. I resent very much what I have been put through, the strain on my marriage, my life and my mental health. I filed a WOM suit in November in hopes that this would be rectified at long last. I have seen no movement to this date yet. Really, there should be ZERO need for me to file a WOM and bear this extra expense. I am now the sole surviving “O.G.” left this thread, and it is not an honour I want. But here I am.
  5. In the last 1 year and 2 months of being in AP I have emailed these guys many times. The responses are more or less cut and paste, change a couple of words if necessary, and that is it. If you get a response in a week, you are very lucky--I have found 2-3 weeks is the norm. Sometimes, they didn't respond at all.
  6. I donno. I am mad. I think people find it off-putting and I understand. "Negative", they will say. Well, yes. I am angry. I have waited 3.5 years. I have been in AP for over 1 year. I have spent a lot of money. Yes I am negative right now. The contempt I have for this bureaucracy forcing me to live in this way, in eternal limbo, is fairly sizeable. And really, worst of all: they are doing it for absolutely no good reason.
  7. Just look how I have already filed a WOM but there is still no movement either way... lol. I mean, this is so absurd already. I have nothing but scorn for this process already. It's disgraceful. It's equivalent to torture by bureaucracy, in a sense.
  8. This is more evidence of what I have been saying, I am not the only one thinking it. As far as I am concerned, at this point, it is the only hypothesis with any plausibility. However: being able to say "I told y'all so" is not exactly satisfying in this case, lol.
  9. Really sorry to hear this for you. Hopefully it won't have any bearing on immigration, but it is a terribly difficult situation for you even without that. If misery loves company, I have taken many hits with finances in this process and it seems it will keep going. Let's all try to keep standing as long as we can, right?
  10. I have seen at least a couple of people, ahead of me as far as doing WOM, who are approaching or have passed their second deadline, and court grants another day. Only time will tell what happens to me, but observing the trend I do not like the odds.
  11. Even doing what i didn't want to do, filing WOM, this has not produced anything for me yet, and the way some cases are going, I think they are becoming more adept at the tricks to delay even after filing the suit, asking for-- and being granted--multiple 60-day extensions. They are pulling out whatever they can to mitigate the increased number of WOM suits they are facing.
  12. The idea that they legit need 3-4 years to vet me, or anyone else on this thread, is beyond a joke. It is theatre of the absurd now. I am disgusted. I see even the people who filed WOM suits facing second extensions even, as the government now figured out how to delay people that way, too. I am very, very disenchanted, and am just looking for something to restore my faith in this process. I see none.
  13. I feel cheated at this point, I am like the longest-serving member of this thread, and no sign yet that anything is changing for me, even after the expense of filing the suit. Best case scenario, it looks like I will spend *at least* several more months in limbo, after 3.5 years of process already. Ladies and gentlemen and whoever else, I am tired and getting low on money at this point.. I hope none of you will have such an embittering, absurd situation with this process as I have had, I would be reluctant to wish this on my worst enemy.
  14. Well, I had to reach out to them subsequent to my filing to correct an odd status problem, and they eventually replied and corrected. I am still here in WOM limbo, and I have begun to wonder about whether my money was even well spent. But that's another subject.
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