pumpkin spice

Thank you so much for replaying and I feel a lot better now .. I wanna point out that i never * mention * this whole : I gave everything up Statement bc this is just what you do for love .

Like mentioned by another user , I’ve gained so much from this move bc I can finally be with him . 

I was very concerned when I posted this bc I didn’t wanted to be judged or misunderstood , my husband Is and always will be my fav person !!!! I think that’s why I was so hurt and heartbroken by this statement bc i felt like i am a pain for /to him . Thank you for being so supportive in this forum , big big thx to every single one of you ❤️❤️❤️

hey guys .. so i don't know who to talk to about it and i really need some advice .

This isn't a Judgemental text or anything like that ..Im just trying to get better and don't wanna cause problems in my marriage 

bc i really sincerely love my husband , BUT lol and here is the BIG BUT ...he said something yesterday that really struck me and I'm so very hurt about 

this statement.

I have a friend visiting and we were all talking ,joking and around making silly jokes bla bla..

it started with an email i asked him about the adress of where he wants me to drive to , in order to ship our vehicle.

He turned around and said to my friend (also a immigrant ) that this is annoying bc since Im here i have all these questions 

and i need to do more stuff on my own bc its annoying to him .

My friend looked at me and agreed in his fav .

This statement struck me to the core and i was very very upset ,not only bC he said this infront of her also bc she agreed with him and 

his statement .I got here five month ago,

all he had to do was setting up my Tricare, bc HEALTH insurance is the most important to me and i couldn't do it by myslef bc he had so signed for it and i needed his SSN and DOD number ( so i had to ask ).

I gave him 5000$ so he can buy a jeep rubicon as a wedding gift and i know that he loves jeeps .

Im still waiting for my work permit and travel permit so( i can't work still.)

Maybe i am making rash judgments but my ego is so hurt .

I hate so say it but yes i gave everything up like so many of you bc of LOVE !!!

i think in a marriage there is no such thing as : i can't stand to help my significant other !!!!

when he is at work i cook , i clean ,i cut his hair ( im a barber ) .

soon we will be separated again bc he is PCS'ing and i can't go with him since Im still not green card holder (bc its also processing)

i want him to be as successful as possible in his career and i suck it up bc i know what i signed up for .

i don't complain but Im hurt ,bc he doesn't see of how much i down sized and how much i gave up.

 I was and i am aware of this 

but i don't trow it in is face or make him feel bad bc i love being his wife .

Since this Statement yesterday i kinda see him with different eyes and also my friend .

She is here for 7 years and i got here in jan 2019 , i don't wanna keep going on of WHAT i had in my home country 

but i always had a job , my own apartment, car ,my family, free health insurance and and and .

His mother told me that w.e it is i am always welcome and the door is always open ,well since he is leaving soon 

and i am not aloud to follow ( bc of the processing GC ) wich im sure many of you know

also means that i am not aloud to leave the US 

bc i came here with a one time visa entry .

He asked her if there would be a possibility for me to 

 stay with her and his step dad until i get my work permit or until we can be together again,

her answer was flat NO ,but she hopes the best for me and good luck im a strong woman i figure that out .

All these things are so energy absorbing and i am very sad about such behavior from all sides .

He is great he treats me good but i saw how he really feels about yesterday and she my one friend agrees with him ??!!!

After 5 month i filed for y work permit and i drive on my own ( wow) lol 

i am very limited currently bc i have only so many options but i really try my best ..

that said i wanna apologize for some spelling mistakes i try my best with english 

pls don't think that i am writing this bc i wanna bash some ppl on here ,its just that i am very hurt bc he only sees what he has to do and not what 

i sacrifice ,while on the other hand i am very supportive and always have his back .

thank you for listing everyone i hope my feelings will chance and maybe i really shouldn't ask him at all .

maybe i should do everything myself and just do me without involving him at all ( but this isn't a marriage in my opinion ) .

God bless you guys thank you !!!! 

31 minutes ago, geowrian said:

Yes.

General interview waivers for K-1 visa holders stopped being available a year or 2 ago.

See https://www.uscis.gov/policymanual/HTML/PolicyManual-Volume7-PartA-Chapter5.html

thank you for the link .,,,,

Just now, Ben&Zian said:

 

Most people these days I believe are going through interviews. We didn't and a lot of others didn't, just as you said, received the GC in the mail. 

But about a year ago I think there was a push to get more into interviews to verify things.

ok so it is different from case to case, 😫 i wish i could have all the answers right away lol 

thank you ben&zian ..

3 minutes ago, Roxane_S. said:

 

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hey everyone 😊 

 I created this profile to get some answers and to follow ppl that go through the same journey like we do, so i have been on a K1 visa with my

 now husband and we got married on jan 2019.

We applied for the adjustment of status right after and it is currently processing ,so my question is; Will there be another interview ??

i already had a interview at the FfM embassy in Germany bc of my F-129 ,that was approved 🤗 

some ppl tell me that i will get the GC in the mail ,others tell me i have to have another interview.

thanks in advance for the help i might receive ....