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My spouse temporary visa is almost up, and I don't feel to be abused anymore, am I still responsible even if government gives my spouse the ability to stay and work here?

46 minutes ago, Misscloud said:

sorry it happened to you. 

depend on what you want, if you want to divorce, go divorce

if you think that she will change ( highly doubt it based on ur story) guess you need to have mature adult conversation with her.

 

make me ill when people try to threatened other spouse like that ( i mean ur wife). its like emotional blackmail

 

if i were you, i will refused to come to removal of condition interview with her

not to be mean here, but why do you have to?

Thanks for your advice, I'm just worried that if I don't agree to go she will reign hellfire on me 😔. I'm an introvert so I keep all these problems to myself until now here on this website.

1 hour ago, Boiler said:

It is not going to get any better it could get a lot worse.

 

You need a divorce lawyer

 

What rights do you have well none.

 

I assume you are talking about removal of conditions she can do that without you with a divorce waiver

 

My guess is you know what to do but have not faced the inevitable 

I'm just concerned that if I do go ahead and file a divorce she will then start the process of dragging my name in the mud and trying to get me in trouble so she can file that battered spouse waiver. And also, am I trapped to support her with the affidavit of support even after the divorce?

What rights do I have as a man? and what can I do?

Her two year visa is up in September. 

My wife is unhappy with our marriage. When she is happy she does many things to help out, cooking, cleaning, ironing and I do appreciate all that but even then we had too many fights about how controlling she is. Now she's getting advice from a Filipina friend to just go to the shelter so she can start her new life. Every time she gets mad she brings all her clothes downstairs from the room. She gets so jealous and makes make believe stories in her head. If she hears the neighbors that she is jealous about laughing together she thinks they are laughing at her. She gets explosively angry, tearing my shirt. I cant go in the front yard without a potential problem because she thinks I like the neighbors. I cant go into the bathroom with my phone because she thinks I will message a woman. She's very controlling about one of my sisters that I have its always monitored conversations and questions when I do call my sister without her. She's injured my ribs, drilled my hand, punched me slapped me, etc.

So recently she left and I went to find her and bring her back. But every time I don't agree with her she keeps threatening me that she will go in the battered woman's shelter. And she almost did it the last time. Before when we would argue she would threaten me buy saying she wanted to go home forever.  After about 100 times of hearing that I finally agreed. She changed her tone and now I feel suffocated into going to that interview in September. It took years to get her the annulment and now married almost 3 years so if I want a divorce she guilts me by saying I wasted 12 years of her life and she will fight for her rights. 

I don't know what to do anymore, all I know is I am not happy at all. 

Hello, 3 weeks ago my wife from Philippines received her employment authorization card but no social security number. I remember checking the box on the aos form asking for them to apply. I called the local social security office and they said they had no record of her. I called the uscis and they just gave me the number for the ssa office. I can't go there to apply because the offices are still closed due to corona. Is there anything else I can do? Thanks

9 hours ago, Naes said:

Where did you send your package?

UScis

Po box 805887

Chicago IL 60680

I see from all the comments I was suppose to send to the locker box, silly me. Thank you everyone. I will send again after I add 3 more paystub! 😊

Hello, so I sent my wifes application 6 weeks ago and yesterday I got a packet containing all the forms I sent. They sent me a letter with it saying they were unable to accept our application. Any ideas on what I could have done wrong, they did not specify. Thanks

I sent the AoS packet 5 weeks ago with no response. The check has never been cashed and not notice or anything of the sort. I know they received it because I sent it with a signature confirmation and it was signed for 5 weeks ago. I am wondering if this is normal and if not, what are the next steps that I can take?

Hello folks, I had a question. I am finishing the AOS paperwork and I am trying to fill out form I 765 Employment authorization. 

I got married in mid June, and 4 weeks ago my new wife applied for an ssn number. The clerk said it would take 4 weeks to verify her information. Today we went back to check the status and the same clerk said the info was not verified yet and she doesn't know when they will verify the info. It has already been almost two months since my wife arrived here and I want to send the AOS now but I don't know what to put for these questions.

"Has the social security administration (SSA) ever officially issued a social security card to you?" 

"Do you want the ssa to issue you a social security card?"

Do I just try to apply again here even though we applied at the ssa office? 

Thank you

Hello, My fiance interview is on 5/16/2019 in Manila and I just read that I need to send her a copy of the I 129f that I sent to the US government. The problem is that I made scans and sent the original to them. But when my computer crashed I lost the scans. I dont know what to do, Please help, thanks. 

My fiances appointment is scheduled for May 14th and I'm planning to get her a place to stay across the street from the embassy. Her appointment time is for 6:45am. If checkout time is 12pm would that be enough time to come back and check out or should I book her an extra day just in case? 

Hello, I had a question. My fiance worked in oman about 10 years ago but she no longer has her expired passport needed to get her police clearance for her k1 interview. I am not sure what is the next step we should take. Any ideas would be appreciated, thank you.

 Foreigners Staying Outside The Sultanate:

• A letter from the applicant, indicating their name and mail address.
• Two photographs (4 x 4)
• Copy of the passport including the pages containing the previous residence stamp during the applicant’s residence in Oman and current passport

Hello, we are in the process of completing the K-1 visa. The next step is the medical exam then the interview. My Fiancé has already got her police clearances from all the time living in the Philippines. But when she was working abroad for one year she overstayed her visa. Her employer kept her passport and would not let her go because she said she spent too much money for her visa and she did not finish her contract.  The Embassy gave her advice to go in jail then the labor office would then get involved.  While in jail for two months the labor office forced them to surrender her passport and she was allowed to go home. She is blacklisted from going back to Oman. 

Do we need a police clearance from Oman given the situation? If so how? Would that effect her chances of passing that interview to come to the US? or would it be better not to say anything about Oman? Thank you