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~~~water~~~

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  1. Hi all,

    First time poster here into the March AOS Filers group. We sent the package to USCIS Chicago lockbox for honey ko and 3 kids on March 14th, USPS Priority mail, return receipt requested. We tracked it via USPS and it was delivered to Chicago on March 16th. Since then, nothing.....

    No NOA1(s)

    No return receipt

    No checks cashed

    I can feel the tension starting all over again. At least reading through the last few pages of this thread tells me we're not alone.

    same with us :( We sent it in on the 12th no word yet

    except we just received the return receipt last friday :whistle:

  2. If she is to the point that she is coming to the boards to talk about things,something is terribly wrong.I personally think based on what shes said that she needs to tell him that she wants counseling and start scheduling it.We here at vj as well meaning as we want to be are not licenced family therapists.....if hes using her,he sure as hell wont want to work on their marriage...She'll get her answers right there.

    I really try my best to not get embroiled in these "back and forth" comments....but I read your previous post telling the OP that telling everyone about it wasn't helping and then your comment above. Have you not yourself made VOLUMES of posts talking about the specifics of your past, present and future relationships. You are absolutely entitled to your opinion, but what concerns me is your push to alienate these SOs in a malicious manner, when you may not have personal knowledge of the situation. I know that I wouldn't want on my shoulders or karma, the demise of a relationship based on something I advised someone to do.

    It's very easy to feed into the doubts and fears that some posters say about SOs using a person for the GC. But that is NOT EVERY RELATIONSHIP. A marriage is hard work and a bi-cultural relationship/marriage is even harder. But people coming to this site everyday and reading some of these posts....if you are looking for negativity...your going to find it.

    If a woman/man is honest with themselves...alot of signs are going to be there prior to an SO ever getting to the U.S. My husband lived several years in the States before he got stuck in Morocco for 4 years and now that he is back, we are both having adjustments. It's not all him either...some of it's me. My best advice is to be honest with each other about what you are feeling but be open to what the other person is saying and try not to jump to conclusions.

    I agree so much its a lot of work making a marriage work and the bi-cultural aspect really adds to this. We don't know others true intentions

  3. As of mid feb. there was a new head visa guy in Cairo. From my understanding there has been a lot of "temp" head officers. Perhaps they have gotten a handle on things under the new direction. As far as AP people are still being held there after the interview. If you look at a lot of the people who are approved fast you will see. The either have kids together, exstensive visits, time spent abroad together or they meet in the states, a unique story or are arab themselves.

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    It seems the new head consular in Cario is really making some progress!!!! I'm so happy for all of you and my heart goes out to those still waiting sunflower, aji, sue, cairobound, deb and ali to name a few.... be strong your day will be here soon ....

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