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Ranim&Corey

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  1. 3 hours ago, Jenny17655 said:

    It really does suck trust me. It doesn't suck for YOU because you probably aren't in the situation.  I am not rich by any means but I am currently living at about 175% of the federal poverty level (that's including my beneficiary in my household size). That's over the limit for AOS. People in general do not know enough about immigration to understand the I134 vs I864 and are completely afraid as soon as you mention the word support.  No one really cares about my relationship with my fiance. I love him, they don't (heck they don't even know him) and they are just going to go on with their lives. 

    I don't think they're  doing that to protect us . They're making things much more difficult than easier ..

  2. On 9/2/2018 at 2:03 PM, Jenny17655 said:

    Well for me it sucks. The reason why it sucks is because I carefully looked at the guidelines before filing and exceeded for both last tax year and current. My fiancee was also given a 221g at his interview requesting a co sponsor.  I never planned on needing outside help through this process and it doesn't come easy. So yeah when you're in the situation it kinda sucks bad

    I agree.. we are going through a lot now  and when the parent doesn't want  to help, that made things more difficult too

  3. 13 minutes ago, geowrian said:

    As noted above...

    1. Get another job.
    2. Use assets to supplement income, if available.
    3. Find a co sponsor.

    There's no other options to get the visa approved.

     

    Keep in mind the potentially extensive costs coming up (wedding? AOS fees ($1225). Health insurance. Housing + food + living expenses. Not being able to work for ~4-6+ months.)

    if he got another job, how to prove that his income will meet the requirements? should he wait till the end of this year to file a tax return?

  4. 26 minutes ago, TNJ17 said:

    Just to clarify, did you get an actual denial or a request for more evidence? If it was a denial, your K1 journey is done. You can either file again for another K1 and go through the process all over, or get married and file for CR1. Now, if you weren’t denied and just asked to submit co-sponsor information, you just need a co-sponsor. Fill all forms and send with all evidence. A co-sponsor doesn’t have to be family, it can be any LPR or US citizen currently filling US taxes that is over the poverty line. The only way for you to be able to proceed with this process is to get a co-sponsor. There’s no way around it, there’s no use in trying anything else or fighting the embassy or USCIS for this. They don’t budge on this stuff. You either prove you have the money or not. You can’t appeal this. 

    They gave me a 221(a) to submit co-sponsor information. We could not find any one could help with this. My fiancé thinks that he is making a lot this year and his income could meet the requirement. He is still a college student and will graduate this semester. 

  5. My Fiancé visa got denied because of my fiance's income tax is low. It supposed to be $18,000 the minimum. The embassy is requiring a sponsor's 2017 federal tax return and corresponding W-2 now, but the big issue is that his father does not want to help  nor his mother. He doesn't know anyone could help to be a sponsor.

    Please help us with suggestions. What should we do ?

     

      

  6. 17 minutes ago, IndiaAnnie said:

    I am sick to my stomach waiting for the mail...seriously want to vomit (sorry for the graphics but surely some of you can relate)!!! No updates on app, website, scan or anything online BUT I see the envelope in my informed delivery scan. I am so scared that it's an RFE but hoping and praying that it's an approval. I can't tell anything from the image and going crazy. I'm thinking about tracking down the mail lady in our small town to find my envelope hahaha!! Send me tons of hopes, prayers or happy thoughts and I'll be sending the same to ALL OF YOU!!! :wub:

     

     

    Letter.jpg

    Im so happy for you :) 

     but what do you mean by informed delivery scan ? how did you get that scanned even? o.O

  7. My fiance is giving up on me 

     
    My fiance is 23 yrs old  and Im 26 years old . we have been together for 3 years and  we have been through a lot.  We have been fighting  to be together for three years and nor my parents and his parents think that we are making the right decision  to end it up getting married because of the different religions. I am a saudi Muslim girl and he is american Christian boy. We loved each other a lot and did not care about the sanctions that would come behind that. 
     
     His mom used to kick him out of her house  when he went and visited her and told her that he needed  to get a piece of paper from the mosque saying that he converted to Islam as a prove (only on the paper not for real) . It was just a piece of paper that he needed  in order to get married. He  ignored everyone who was against his decision. He fought for me a lot and I did the same.   I got beaten up by my parents after they knew about our relationship. I did not give up and no one and I stranded against my family to be with him.   
     
    We love each other so much but things getting changed now to the worse because of the longing and the difficulty of like.  We have been away from each other for 10 months now. He is feeling lonely and he thinks that he is fighting a lone to be with me.   He is giving up on me now after an argument for every 2 weeks. 
     
    He tried to brake up with me after he  met a girl who's working with him and he sees her everyday for 8 hours. He was honest with me and told that he likes her because she hears him when he talks and there are a lot of common things they share.  He said he felt connected to her because he has touched her (kissed her) and whenever they are together, he feels happy and not worried about his life. He started dating her for only 3 days ago but they have seen each other at work 2 weeks ago ( btw he just got this new job in two weeks ago)
     

     Every time I call him now , all he does is crying and sobbing , breaking stuff and keeps saying that he is so tired and not okay. He said that he feels miserable , sad and disappointed for a while ago . He has been like that for 2 days now. Im in pain and he has said a lot of things that hurt me and broke my heart. Im in a situation where I don't know how to make a decision whether I leave or stay? Whether I give him time to heal himself  or just leave him ? We have been arguing a lot this month before all this happened because we are missing each other a lot and not being able to manage time to talk . He is tired of the feelings he get when  we argue.

    He told me that I am the only person who could hurt him. I think he's making wrong decisions right now because of the way he feels.  Running a way  from the bad feeling that he feels by going out with this girl. He doesn't have a lot of friends , he doesn't go out and do things because he said I don't allow him to do things that he likes which is not true or that I didn't mean to make him feel this way, and that I let him fly under my own conditions :( 

     

     He always at home and spending his day on a political forum called "Conspiracy outpost " and all he does is  posting things there and talking to people online. I really I do feel him and I know why he is like that. It's been almost 10 months that we haven't been together physically. I had to leave back  home after I graduated from  school in May 2017 and we  decided to sent our petition in August 2017.

     

    He told me that he cant make it with me any more because he is no longer feel happy. He tried to brake up with me but  I said to him that Im not going to take him serious because its clear that he is confused and emotional. Making a quick decision and being mislead by his emotions, after arguing almost every 2 weeks. 

     

    We are still talking and texting each other but it hurts me every day when I know he is spending his time with another girl. Her being in his life now was a choice for him. And the only reason why Im still with him because I do believe that we are happy whenever we are together physically. I understand what made him  to this situation and that because of the longing and distance. 

     

    He does not want to cancel the visa either and said that lets see what god can do for us and he doesn't know what will happen after he tried to brake up with me 2 times when he was crying and upset. 

    I really Im confused don't know what to do. My heart is telling to be with him because I love him but  he told me that his heart is telling him to continue getting to know that girl. 

    he is very cold we talk now and I feel his distance. I wish I could do something and safe our relationship .

  8. 1 hour ago, Ranim said:

    Thank you for your kind words. Yes, he said that he doesn't want to cancel the visa and wants to get me there  when I asked him to cancel it , so that I can go and visit him because I think he needs me right now and his emotions are misleading him with that random girt.  That girl knows that he is engaged to someone but still didn't care.Shame on people like that. In the end he said that he wants us to continue talking and he can still be here for me as a  besfriend and who knows what will happen later. That's really confused me more because I think he is still confused. It's been 3 days now and he still feels the same thing 

    Sorry I signed in with different email but I still the same person lol

  9. On February 18, 2018 at 10:58 PM, Spoonernator said:

    I’m sorry to hear this. I’ve been living apart from my fiancé for three years due to him being in the military. It’s been tough but  Were now at a stage where I can join him. Which is exciting and we can finally be in the same place.

    At no stage have I or my fiancé decided to give up. We’ve pushed and carried on and supported each other through each other’s good and bad days. 

     

    Keep your head up and I hope he doesn’t give up ❤️❤️

     

    Also excited for all these approvals not long guys 

    Thank you for your support ! But I think he is giving up on me after he met a girl who's working with him and he sees her everyday for 8 hours. He was honest with me and told that he likes her because she hears him when he talks and there are a lot of common things they share.  He said he felt connected to her because he has touched her and whenever they are together, he feels happy and not worried about his life. He started dating her for only 3 days ago but they have seen each other at work 2 weeks ago ( btw he just got this new job in two weeks ago)

    Everytime I call him now , all he does is crying and sabbing , breaking things and keeps saying that he is so tired and not okay. He said that he feels miserable , sad and disappointed for a while ago . He has been like that for 2 days now. Im in pain and he has said a lot of things that hurt me and broke my heart. Im in a situation where I don't know how to make a decision whether I leave or stay? Whether I give him time to heal himself  or just leave him ? We have been arguing a lot this month before all this happened because we are missing each other a lot and not being able to manage time to talk . He is tired of the feelings he get whenever we argue. Told me that I am the only person who could hurt him. I think he's making wrong decisions right now because of the way he feels.  Running a way  from the bad feeling that he feels by going out with this girl. He doesn't have a lot of friends , he doesn't go out and do things because he said I don't allow him to do things that he likes which is not true or that I didn't mean to make him feel this way, and that I let him fly under my own conditions :( 

    He always at home and spending his day on a political forum called "Conspiracy outpost " and all he does is  posting things there and talking to people online. I really I do feel him and I know why he is like that. It's been almost 10 months that we haven't been together physically. I had to leave back after I finished my school in May 2017 and sent our petition in August.

    All I said to him that Im not going to take him serious because its clear that he is confused and emotional. Making a quick decision and being misled by his emotions. 

    We are still talking and texting each other but it hurts me every day when I know he is with her. Her being in his life now was a choice for him. And the only reason why Im still with him because I do believe that we are happy whenever we are together physically. I understand what made to this situation and that because of the longing and distance. 

    He does not want to cancel the visa and said that lets see what god can do for us and he doesn't know what will happen after he tried to brake up with me 2 times whenever he was crying and upset. 

    I really Im confused don't know what to do. My heart is telling to be with him because I love him but his heart is telling him to continue getting to know this girl. 

  10. 24 minutes ago, Naes said:

    Everyone here is doing it.

     

    however yes I do think he is acting immature. So the question is are you sure about him. Not him being sure about you.

    No, after what he said to me .. I don't think that I'm sure about him. But what about the love that I have for him? What about my feelings towards him? I really feel that he is confused and he has been very lonely lately because of my work and stuff. We haven't had lot of time to talk over the phone . And he is working 9 hours a day and I work for 9 hours as well. I think he's lost or I'm just giving him excuses right because I don't want to believe the truth ?

  11. 4 minutes ago, Sean&Lailane said:

    Dump this loser immediately. Marriage is not for the faint of heart. I'm very sorry for you, but I would cut this weakling lose.

    It is always easy to say things than doing it.  I'm a little depressed now and confused at the same time . We have been together for 2 years and half and its very hard for me to just walk away like that. He is 23 yrs old and I'm 26 years old and I think he's being immature and acting like a child now

  12. 14 minutes ago, Naes said:

    I'm a little speechless.

     

    but then I have to emphasize one thing and this is not to make you sad.

     

    are you sure you want someone, who's heart goes around with that ease like this?

     

    I also dont don't know why your fiancé thinks you will get denied? Based on what?

     

    on the technical side, I hope you can get it soon but no one can say more than they are approving august 7 cases and your turn will come.

     

    He thinks I will get denied because of where I come from. I'm from Saudi Arabia abd he is American 

  13. My fience just told me that he is not happy with our situation and that we will never get the approval.. He also said that he met a girl 2 days a go at work who actually made him feel connected to her and more happier .. He was complaining about the us being a part for so long. I think he's just confused now and can't be patient anymore :( 

    so I think if I got the approval soon, he might feel better about our relationship. 

    Please pray for us 

  14. We have applied for the K1 visa in August 7, 2017 and still haven't gotten the NOA2 yet.. We have been waiting on that for 5 months now.. 

    Unsure if you understand the process or not . You can not apply for the K1 Visa from Saudi Arabia! Your Amirecan citizen is the one who need to apply for that visa inside the U.S :blink:

    ALL you can do is to wait on the US Empasy in Riyadh to cantact you regarding to the interview! 

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