TearsOfBabylon

I would so volunteer to be the odd one for 03/22 hahaha

Thank you for scanning! Only the fact we're worth to be scanned is showing how close we are!

Oh coool!
Can't wait for the first of us Whiners to yell and jump!

Maybe the visa universe could leave out March from RFE hehe

I would so volunteer to be the odd one for 03/22 hahaha

Thank you for scanning! Only the fact we're worth to be scanned is showing how close we are!

I would so volunteer to be the odd one for 03/22 hahaha

Thank you for scanning! Only the fact we're worth to be scanned is showing how close we are!

I would so volunteer to be the odd one for 03/22 hahaha

Thank you for scanning! Only the fact we're worth to be scanned is showing how close we are!

Since the last scan:
 
Approved: 3 - All approved today w/ received dates of 03/01 & 03/20 (that's an odd one lol)
RFE: 5
Other: 40 (Updated name/DOB, withdrawals, doc was mailed/received - since 05/15)
 
 
https://drive.google.com/file/d/0Bwg6icixF-2MNEJTcXFIeVRiUXc/view?usp=sharing

A message from the future (or the past, technically) as a Jan filer...your time is right around the corner! I remember feeling like the days were just...crawling, a couple months back, and it seemed that no progress was being made. Some short time later, and there are approvals left, right, and center, including our own. Keep the faith, appreciate the beauty of each and every day, and know that you are almost there! Happy thoughts and wishes to all for the weekend

Yep, I got an update on the app showing an approval for March 6th, and it was someone from Brazil, so it seems the same case. Exciting to see a real case from March approved that it wasn't an expedited one, but things really moving on for you
 
Also hoping 6 is a magical number on USCIS, since that was the date they first touched from February and my received date is April 6th Dreaming is free...
 

Since we're seeing some approvals for Mar, I'm going to go ahead and run a scan to see if maybe anything comes up with an approval in recent days.
 
I'll let y'all know what I find once it's complete. & please keep in mind the date may still be skewed.

according to igor list a march 6 got their noa2

Hey everyone was checking out the February filers and someone from 2/27 got noa2 today so we will be next. Happy Friday guys. 

Oh coool!
Can't wait for the first of us Whiners to yell and jump!

Maybe the visa universe could leave out March from RFE hehe

Oh coool!
Can't wait for the first of us Whiners to yell and jump!

Maybe the visa universe could leave out March from RFE hehe

Old yeah... 2 guy friends and I just deassembled my 2 closets and carried them down (I live on 3rd floor with no elevator). Although they did most of the work - I am DEAD lol 

No problem - any time!  
Since I walked through that too I can feel it. 

Dang, I have no closets anymore.... sitting in chaos here. Where's NOA2 when you need it?

Oh coool!
Can't wait for the first of us Whiners to yell and jump!

Maybe the visa universe could leave out March from RFE hehe

Oh coool!
Can't wait for the first of us Whiners to yell and jump!

Maybe the visa universe could leave out March from RFE hehe

Oh coool!
Can't wait for the first of us Whiners to yell and jump!

Maybe the visa universe could leave out March from RFE hehe

Oh coool!
Can't wait for the first of us Whiners to yell and jump!

Maybe the visa universe could leave out March from RFE hehe

There is already an approval . I was reading February filer who sent their's on February 27th and the receiving date was on March 2nd and they got appoved!!! Omg this is awesome and can't wait for my approval!!😅😅😅😅

Oh man, don't remind me! I say I'm old like 2983018203 times a day LOL! I bend down and my knee starts popping, I try doing mountain climbers and my hip starts popping, my back is on the fritz and I've actually found a grey hair in my eyebrow of all places!! I'm like oh great! I've officially started breaking down
 
But thank you for your words. I definitely take them as you being a good friend

Your mom is a wise woman!

I mean it's not like you're waiting for him to decide what to wear tonight. It's a life changing decision for both of you, it takes a massive amount of time and even more money... and if one isn't ready, or only half hearted it's better to withdraw, or at least skip the desicion.
But since you said you're not talking to move on... if you'd be one of my girlfriends here I'd say "Stop stalking behind him, move on, let yourself be found by someone who appreciates and loves you with full heart and be happy! Don't waste time, since we're old already..."

I know that's said easily, but I think you're on the right way. If things are supposed to be changing, they will by themselves.

Oh, glad you're stuck with us!  

Your mom is a wise woman!

I mean it's not like you're waiting for him to decide what to wear tonight. It's a life changing decision for both of you, it takes a massive amount of time and even more money... and if one isn't ready, or only half hearted it's better to withdraw, or at least skip the desicion.
But since you said you're not talking to move on... if you'd be one of my girlfriends here I'd say "Stop stalking behind him, move on, let yourself be found by someone who appreciates and loves you with full heart and be happy! Don't waste time, since we're old already..."

I know that's said easily, but I think you're on the right way. If things are supposed to be changing, they will by themselves.

Oh, glad you're stuck with us!  

Thanks love!
 
I can't lie.. My mom gave me a come to Jesus talk. She was straight up with me and told me to give it time and stop reaching out to see what he'll do. She also told me that I can't wait forever so I need to decide when enough is enough because if not, then I'll be an old maid waiting while he moves on with his life. All things true. & like you said, I can't chase behind a phantom. If he doesn't want to work things out I can't put a gun to his head to make him. I have to be happy in life and if it's not with him I know that God has something better and a lesson was definitely learned from my relationship.
 
There are times where I'm like "I'll be single forever! Me and my millions of dogs, instead of a cat lady I'll be a dog lady!!" LOL! But I think we all want love in some form and even though we're closed off there's always that hope that someone comes along to love us like we're supposed to be loved, understand us without judgement and not hold our shortcomings against us.
 
& I'll still be here for all of y'all.. Y'all are stuck with me now!!! MUAHAHAHA

Hey hey girl! 
Walk on fighting with your chin up high!
I do respect a lot that you're straight out and realistic and not running behind a phantom.
Like someone else said differently earlier: This guy must be blind to not see the great person he's pushing away. 

I can totally understand your feelings, and how you are torn between hoping and walking away. I've spent much, or better wasted much lifetime on a wrong person, who hurt me in the worst ways. I was fighting alone as well, and it took an eternity until I had the strength to just give up and let go. After that I was in my nutshell, decided to stay single forever. Well, you can see: Someone opened the nutshell and lurked in.
Never loose faith!

I think, what you are doing is right. See what happens if you back off, and if nothing happens til NOA2, you know what you have to do. 
Whomever with it will be: I wish you the best of luck and tons of happiness. 
Your heart will tell you the right to do, and if it can't fully decide, let the mind and brain help it.

Glad you're still with us and will remain!
Big hug from potatoland! :*

Don't worry!
So many people aren't using Facebook.
I'm friends there with Scott, and I tag him along every once in a while, but he never reacts. Not even on MY stuff haha.
He's refusing. He'd have signed off FB forever if he wouldn't use the messenger for me. 

He's a hermit and actually a carcass of inactivity on social media haha

I'm not worried about that at all!
Some are overpresent, some are opposite...