LuckyCloud

To answer the question: what does your son do in the US. Could they say: he is an engineer or a vet? Rather than saying: he is in the US being married.
 
Anyway, is it possible to contact the consulate in China? The US consulate in my country reply people's inquiries in email with great detail.

I don't know about China, but when my mom had interview in Ukraine, the officer was asking: when did I meet my husband, what visa I used, how long we knew each other, etc.
Obviously, he asked first if she have any relative in country and one more time obviously  he already knew her daughter is married  in USA (because of DS-160) , he just checked her answers

Sorry to hear your dilemma, OP. A bit off the topic but I would like to give my two cents. I'm from China, too and totally understand your worries. I don't know if you are their only child, nonetheless I think they deserve a chance to try to understand you for being who you are and accept your partner into their son's life. If you never try you will never know. With the globalization going on in the recent decade and everything, perhaps your parents would actually be more mentally prepared than you think. Perhaps they are already aware of something. Eventually I think your parents will come around and understand instead of losing one son, they can actually have two!

Thanks for the information. I came to study in the U.S. and ended up getting a job here. Few years after I met my current partner and we got married. I do feel really sorry to my parents and I would please ask for no judgments(i know you weren't). Being a gay is not something I choose to be and therefore I'm trying my best, as a son, to make them happy on other things in life.

Thanks for the information. I came to study in the U.S. and ended up getting a job here. Few years after I met my current partner and we got married. I do feel really sorry to my parents and I would please ask for no judgments(i know you weren't). Being a gay is not something I choose to be and therefore I'm trying my best, as a son, to make them happy on other things in life.

Thanks for the information. I came to study in the U.S. and ended up getting a job here. Few years after I met my current partner and we got married. I do feel really sorry to my parents and I would please ask for no judgments(i know you weren't). Being a gay is not something I choose to be and therefore I'm trying my best, as a son, to make them happy on other things in life.