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htrdholly

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    htrdholly reacted to Anitafeliz in Married to permanent green card holder 9yrs 2mo's found out he Fathered a child who is now 7 yrs old during our marriage with another woman.   
    This happens a lot but in your case he stayed many years he knew exactly what to do to get the benefits he wanted.
    You are divorced all you can do is sit by and watch Karma take care of him.
    DONT let this man make you a bitter person let it go. He already took many years of your happiness.
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    htrdholly reacted to gregcrs2 in Married to permanent green card holder 9yrs 2mo's found out he Fathered a child who is now 7 yrs old during our marriage with another woman.   
    Your life will be better once you stop looking for revenge and realize you have to get on with your life.
    Revenge will not heal you.
    Emotions and money are gone so move on to the next chapter of your life.
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    htrdholly reacted to JFH in Married to permanent green card holder 9yrs 2mo's found out he Fathered a child who is now 7 yrs old during our marriage with another woman.   
    I'm sorry to hear this. Marriage break-up always hurts, even when it's the best solution for all concerned and the marriage is beyond repair.
    Just because he has been through an extensive visa process and we immigrants have to submit documents, police records, sign papers, have medicals and interviews doesn't mean he's a saint or will never do anything wrong. What he did was morally wrong. Very wrong. But some people cheat. It's just how they are. This could have happened if you married a man from the same city as you. There are good men all over the world and bad men. Having a green card doesn't mean he has won a prize for honesty or faithfulness. It says nothing about the kind of husband he is or will be. A green card doesn't come with a guarantee that you have the perfect spouse.
    You did the right thing in divorcing him. Meanwhile there is a child in the picture who has done no wrong. It's possible the child's mother also knew nothing of this double life - if he fooled you, he could have fooled anyone. Why would you want him to be deported and for the young child to lose her father? You can move on and find a new husband. But the child will only ever have one father. Please don't hurt the child to score points against this man. He's not worth it. Let him stay with this other woman if she wants to keep him. Put it down to experience and thank your lucky stars you are rid of him.
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    htrdholly reacted to aaron2020 in Married to permanent green card holder 9yrs 2mo's found out he Fathered a child who is now 7 yrs old during our marriage with another woman.   
    Hi,
    You have been divorced for many years, it's time to move on. He has moved on. You have chosen not to move on.
    You vouch for him to get a green card. You were in the best position to protect yourself.
    Cheating and having an out-of-wedlock child has NOTHING TO DO WITH IMMIGRATION. Get over it since neither has anything to do with violating the terms of his green card.
    It's extremely cruel that you want REVENGE and have him deported for years and keep him separated from his child.
    You can file a lawsuit against him. Then watch it get tossed out of court. Money issues should have been settled in the divorce. You don't get to keep coming back to the court to keep suing him.
    GET OVER IT. Your marriage has been over for a very long time. Leave him alone. Go on with your life. As long as you keep pursuing him, then it's your choice to keep the wounds open.
    Best of luck.
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