VikaNDave

All I can tell you is for our K1 interview in Kiev, I had a copy of my divorce decree and they never said a thing about it.

You have the approval on the i-130 for your step-daughter? You will need two case numbers. Double check with the USCIS it waa sent to the nvc if necessary.

I did a little research and found that since you live in Washington it is a statelaw allowing banks to check your spouse for debt. You live in a state which has "Community" laws and this is what they cite when they check her debt to income ratio even if she will not be on the loan. Since she currently does not have an SSN to check they are unable to run this since Credit laws are different by country it is impossible to check.
I tried to find a waiver for this within your state but it does not look like there is a waiver for this. I am sorry that its not good news but I did try and see if there was a way around this at all but until she has an SSN that they can run to see that she has no credit history in the US I could not find a waiver form or way around this.
Edit: On the slightly bright side I did see that not all banks actually check the Spouse debt to income ratio if they will not be on the loan. The law only states they are ALLOWED to request the information. Maybe ask around and find a bank who won't check it?

He would have to file a new I-129F. He has to meet the requirements AT the time of filing, he can't file and THEN meet the two year requirement and show proof after filing. Proof of meeting in the last two years has to be included with the I-129F package that is sent.

from what I understand he would have to file by 11/20/15 to meet the requirement.

from what I understand he would have to file by 11/20/15 to meet the requirement.

I answered everything honestly and even added a sheet explaining things.