chrismyke

Hey, I can understand where you are right now and my heart bleeds for you. There are a few things i would like to bring to your attention. Firstly, you mentioned you and your wife got married in 2014 and filled for a K1 visa which you got denied. If you were married, your shouldnt have applied for a K1 visa then as a K1 visa is not meant for married couples. I went through this whole process and i totally know how it feels and how frustrating this could all be. One thing you need to realise tho, is that, when you go in for an interview with a CO at the embassy, they are not just going to grant everyone an immigrant visa. The honors lie on you as the applicant to do all your due dilligence in not only compiling documentary evidence, but also, preparing thoroughly for the whole interview process, because its upto you the applicant to convince the Co as to the validity and or legitimacy of your marriage and also your genuine intentions. There are people from Ghana who have met their spouses online and got their immigrant visas and there are others who havent. Its all about how you convince the CO beyond all reasonable doubt that you deserve or merit the immigrant visa. Whilst its a right for your US citizen spouse to file for a foreign spouse, its certainly not a right for an immigrant spouse to be granted an immigrant visa to the United States, its a privillage extented to the foreign spouse by virtue of marriage to a United states citizen. Your whole interview questions and answers as well as all your documentary evidence when sent back would be reviewed. my thoughts to you is to not give up, persist and apply again and do all your due dilligence, gather more proof of marriage, prepare for every likely question scenario for your next interview, stay calm and convince the CO, to curse the CO is derogattory for your records and also going on Tv and Fm stations would make no difference at all and would be a total waste of your time. Its not a group thing. Every case is judge uniquely on its own circumstances and merits and ofcourse sometimes the CO's get it wrong, but within the confines of their work and by their discretion.Try again and do everything better this time around,you would eventually get it if you do all the right things. Channel all the negative energy and focus on leaving no doubts on your next application.

Some of you sound a bit harsh in the things you are saying to him....he may have spent alot of time and put in alot of effort into this relationship thinking everything is ok. There is no shame in him being worried of events just before hes meant to receive his greencard. Some of you are soo quick to judge others even before you consider everything. Its not a crime for certain people from certain parts of the world to want to be with their loved ones and also have a chance at a better life in this country legally. The fact that someone wants to know his options at a certain stage in the visa process and not just packing up their bags and going to their country doesnt mean he was in it just for the green card. Like all men, everyone tries to make the best out of the current situation, if things would be better off here for him and can be done legally than just going back to a bad situation why cant he or mustnt he exploit it? Not all countries are the same, not everyones circumstances are the same,people have got to realise and respect this before they make comments to people. The world is far bigger than some of you seem to realise, we need alot of perspective instead of being judgemental.

Some of you sound a bit harsh in the things you are saying to him....he may have spent alot of time and put in alot of effort into this relationship thinking everything is ok. There is no shame in him being worried of events just before hes meant to receive his greencard. Some of you are soo quick to judge others even before you consider everything. Its not a crime for certain people from certain parts of the world to want to be with their loved ones and also have a chance at a better life in this country legally. The fact that someone wants to know his options at a certain stage in the visa process and not just packing up their bags and going to their country doesnt mean he was in it just for the green card. Like all men, everyone tries to make the best out of the current situation, if things would be better off here for him and can be done legally than just going back to a bad situation why cant he or mustnt he exploit it? Not all countries are the same, not everyones circumstances are the same,people have got to realise and respect this before they make comments to people. The world is far bigger than some of you seem to realise, we need alot of perspective instead of being judgemental.

Some of you sound a bit harsh in the things you are saying to him....he may have spent alot of time and put in alot of effort into this relationship thinking everything is ok. There is no shame in him being worried of events just before hes meant to receive his greencard. Some of you are soo quick to judge others even before you consider everything. Its not a crime for certain people from certain parts of the world to want to be with their loved ones and also have a chance at a better life in this country legally. The fact that someone wants to know his options at a certain stage in the visa process and not just packing up their bags and going to their country doesnt mean he was in it just for the green card. Like all men, everyone tries to make the best out of the current situation, if things would be better off here for him and can be done legally than just going back to a bad situation why cant he or mustnt he exploit it? Not all countries are the same, not everyones circumstances are the same,people have got to realise and respect this before they make comments to people. The world is far bigger than some of you seem to realise, we need alot of perspective instead of being judgemental.

Some of you sound a bit harsh in the things you are saying to him....he may have spent alot of time and put in alot of effort into this relationship thinking everything is ok. There is no shame in him being worried of events just before hes meant to receive his greencard. Some of you are soo quick to judge others even before you consider everything. Its not a crime for certain people from certain parts of the world to want to be with their loved ones and also have a chance at a better life in this country legally. The fact that someone wants to know his options at a certain stage in the visa process and not just packing up their bags and going to their country doesnt mean he was in it just for the green card. Like all men, everyone tries to make the best out of the current situation, if things would be better off here for him and can be done legally than just going back to a bad situation why cant he or mustnt he exploit it? Not all countries are the same, not everyones circumstances are the same,people have got to realise and respect this before they make comments to people. The world is far bigger than some of you seem to realise, we need alot of perspective instead of being judgemental.

Thats exactly why he asked, to see what his options were, and what at all if anything he could do. Its one thing telling someone the facts, and its one thing being sensitive to someones situation....i didnt mean for you or anyone for that matter to give him any false solutions if there are none...it could happen to anybody so lets not be judgmental. some people clutch at straws their whole life, so might not be something new to him. As i mentioned earlier, its all about perspective

Some of you sound a bit harsh in the things you are saying to him....he may have spent alot of time and put in alot of effort into this relationship thinking everything is ok. There is no shame in him being worried of events just before hes meant to receive his greencard. Some of you are soo quick to judge others even before you consider everything. Its not a crime for certain people from certain parts of the world to want to be with their loved ones and also have a chance at a better life in this country legally. The fact that someone wants to know his options at a certain stage in the visa process and not just packing up their bags and going to their country doesnt mean he was in it just for the green card. Like all men, everyone tries to make the best out of the current situation, if things would be better off here for him and can be done legally than just going back to a bad situation why cant he or mustnt he exploit it? Not all countries are the same, not everyones circumstances are the same,people have got to realise and respect this before they make comments to people. The world is far bigger than some of you seem to realise, we need alot of perspective instead of being judgemental.