inlovebutlonely

u r in AP, my husband got the same. It seems Islamabad likes to put cases on AP. I hate it. I been apart from my hubby for a year and 5 months i miss him this thing of AP is like a black hole, there is no knowing when we will come out of it.It feels like the embassy is trying to destroy marriages. Im very sorry you are now going through this as well.

first of I am sorry that you are going through this. I want to tell you to be very careful with your decision because if you have no income to sponsor ur wife and her daughter how will you bring them? In regards to your wife she needs to be supportive and patient. Have you tired skype? I know this is a very hard process but she and you should be thankful you have been with each other. My husband and I have been apart since December 2012, we still have no visa for him to come to me and I as a woman suffer a lot very depressed and very lonely. But, I love my husband very much and I would never ever give up no matter what the embassy says. I will tell you they will not give her a tourist visa since there is a pending CR1 sposal visa pending. This process take time and it will either strengthen your relationship or destroy it. I think you need to have a serious talk with your your wife and come to a decision together and if the decision is to proceed with the visa application than she needs to do her part and support you emotionally, and not add to your stress.

Ok so I am very confused......My husband had his interview on 4/21/2014 he was told that our case was put on AP. Every day since then I check the web site ceac.state.gov to check the status of our application. There were no new updates to our case since 4/21/14 it said READY....today 4/28/14 I checked and it stated that it was updated today 4/28/14 but the status still is READY..when i read the rest it states that interview schedule anyways see the pic below......my question is this.....My status never went from ready to AP, when it updated today it still says ready....should i be concerned or should i be waiting for good news in the next few days?

Congratulation to you, if web site state READY than in couple of days you should be receiving call from carrier to pickup passport.

APKartoos, my husbands interview was 4/21/14 and they told him the case was put on AP. Since 4/21/14 it says ready........i check everyday no updates until today 4/28/14 and the status remained on ready..........that is why i am asking if I should be concerned? Please help this is all new to me, does the status on ceac.state.gov ever go into AP?

i think that his father introduce the woman to him for a reason and i am sure you know what i mean. In those cultures it is very common for arranged marriage. You fiance even though he is "depressed" needs to give you your rightful place and not disrespect you. You need to tell him how you feel and don't give in to him seeing this woman if it would be me I would NOT accept them talking spending time together or anything of the sort it is disrespectful to you. And if he is so "depressed" why cant he spend time with male friends? Spend more time with you? I just think you will get hurt here be careful.

Question........I checked ceac.state.gov today and it says updated today 4/28/2014 but it still says ready shoukd I b concerned?

@ sajidla.....i read your post about supposedly offering to help ppl, but let be honest once a case is in AP everything everyone is saying is that there is NOTHING no one can do......also I emailed you a few questions and you didnt really help, u didnt even want to disclose why your case was put on AP, we all have a case in Ap and we are all trying to figure out the reasons for it and all u said to me was there was nothing I could do.....so i ask again what help could you possibly offer?

@ Alis0817 my case with my hubby was put on AP a little while ago on the 21st. We are devastated, have not stopped crying since then. Looking for help every where I can and searching every forum I can unfortunately no one really offers any help, we were not missing any documents and nothing was asked of us to bring in to complete case. Just some mean angry rude interviewer decided to put us on AP, and with that they have destroyed our future. I will say this I will continue to pray and pray because NOTHING is impossible to God Almighty..........i will also continue to search to see if someone can offer me real help.

My husband got put on administrative review today, we are devastated confused, hopeless. We have been apart for a year and 4 1/2 months, I really thought they would give us the visa. The interviewer was nasty and rude and kept calling my hubby a liar, they didn't request any other documents they just told him 90 days but from what I am reading they tell that to everyone. What can I do from my end here in the US? Is there anything we can do as a couple? PLEASE HELP

He is from Pakistan

Our wedding video, pictures of when I was there, emails

My hubby is in pakistan and he was just put on administrative review, from reading what you posted are you telling me we may be apart for up to 5 more years not just 3 months like the letter stated. is there anything i can do?

they think our marriage is not real, because we have different religions, but after they denied it they called him back and interviewed him a second time and then put us on administrative review.

Hi! My husband had his interview today and our case did not go so well. They first denied us and then he was called back in for a second interview and then they put our case on administrative review and kept his passport. What are the possibilities of us getting approved? We are devastated, been crying both of us since he told me, we have been apart for so long. I just want to be with my husband. Any advice is greatly appreciated.

congratulations

congratulations!

Congratz!

call, call, call......it is best for you to know what is going on I suggest calling USCIS

I think you should call, ive never heard of that happening

It usually takes a month from the time they received the petition to assign the case #.