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    Anyone here that already got married and wanna share the story?? pls only if you met online

    in Moving to the US and Your New Life In America

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    I met my husband on facebook we were in a group for a game we played together. Him and I had a bad experience in that particular group (but we didnt know cause we didnt really talk) and he created his own group for the game and added me since I was one of his neighbors for the game. When I saw I was in another group I emailed him to find out if some particular ppl where going to be in his group and he asked me why I was asking, I told him about my experience and its funny he told me same thing happen the him and no they were not going to be in his group, Since then we talked everyday for hours getting to know each other. I started to look forward to our talks and well I started to develop feelings for him and I felt he had feelings for me but when I asked him he said he didnt want a relationship he just wanted a friend. I was crushed but we kept talking and I still felt there was something btwn us. One day we were talking on the phone and he finally told me how he felt. I was so HAPPY!. We talked about our future and we even talked marriage, since it was not possible for him to get tourist visa to USA cause we had talked marriage and we didnt want to lie, we decided it would be best if I went to his country, i was scared to go to an unknown country by myself as a woman and everyone I knew was telling me terrible things. When I came out of the airport there were so many ppl waiting for their loved ones so i was confused who was who but I saw him he had my favorite flowers in hand and he was waving them in the air at me he knew instantly that was me, he said the sweetest words I have ever heard to me. When we saw each other face to face I knew that I wanted to spend the rest of my life with this man. My visa was only for 30 days so we made the decision to marry while I was there in his country. I love this man so much, I came back to the states and I have not been with him since then. This processes of immigration is so hard and trying on a relationship. Make sure that you know each other and that you both are ready for a difficult road ahead. I never thought I would ever fall for someone online but here I am married and we met through a facebook game!

    Please help me figure out my best course of plans

    in IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & Procedures

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    well, I feel for you, you do have a lot of thinking to do but I will tell you this if you have so many questions and are so unsure of your future with your partner than maybe it is best to not marry. The future is unknown to us all but when two ppl are ready to marry they don't think so much of the relationship failing. What I do think you should do is speak with your partner and try to figure this out together. I hope you can make the best decision for YOU!

    Something I'm curious about…do "friends & family" understand this process?

    in General Immigration-Related Discussion

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    I completely understand. Everyone in my life turned against me when I decided to go to my hubbys country. When I was dropped off at the airport I was told I was going to get killed, raped, captured. That he couldnt possibly love me that I was being used. Anything and everything you can think of I was told. I had no one supporting me. I ignored everything and everyone and went, I was scared I will not lie. But he was there waiting for me with my favorite flowers in hand, and said the most beautiful words I have ever hear from a man. I am glad I went and I am glad I married him. My visit visa to his country was only for 30 days and we were trying to extend the visa but it didnt look possible so we married about 14 days after i arrived in his country. I adore this man, but I will tell you prepare yourself for judgement from everyone even from the interviewer at the embassy, they judged us and our relationship and called my husband a liar, said this relationship was just for the gc. People will judge a lot and no they dont understand unless they have been through the same situation, they wonder why we married someone from another country. My husband and I did NOT want a relationship we were NOT looking for one. We were friends talked for hours every day, I fell for him first but I could feel that he felt the same way but he kept telling me no we were just going to be friends.......one day he couldnt deny it any longer and he told me he loved me, we talked about our future about marriage, when we met face to face we knew that we wanted to spend the rest of our lives together. NO ONE understand that feeling, unless you have been through it as well. This immigration process is very hard and I wouldnt wish it on anyone, being away from the person you love more than yourself because of laws. It is heart breaking and when we got so close to finally being together the man you interviewed my husband was mean and rude and put our case on AP. My husband and me have been apart since December 2012. It is very expensive to travel to his country and we have put all of our time, effort and money on this immigration process. I pray everyday him and I will be together soon, I cry everyday day and im very depressed. I wish you the best in your journey and the best advice I can give you is IGNORE those comments ppl make they dont know your love.

    New Islamabad AP-Tracker, Part II

    in Waivers (I-601 and I-212) and Administrative Processes (221g)

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    I heard few time before on VJ here that US Embassy in Paki has more than 2000 pending cases to be finalized...anyone would share about this if this can be the reason for longer APs for all of us...bcoz 99 % IV cases have no solid reason to be stuck in AP bcoz every one is genuinely having bonafide relation to apply for US IV.

    Your info share would be appreciated.

    I don't know if this is true or not but I have noticed that most of the cases in Islamabad go into AP. I hate it! There should be a time limit and guidelines for them to follow at the embassy. The interviewer has complete control of our lives depending on how they feel that day, if they are in a good mood or not. It is all up to their perception. :ranting::protest:

    DS-260 Form Submission

    in National Visa Center (Dept of State)

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    1. yes they do give you back the originals at the interview, but YOU HAVE TO ASK FOR THEM at the interview. the only reason they may not give them back is if your case is put on AP. like mines was.

    2. it took me 2 months to get case complete because of the original birth certificate for my husband, they taught it wasn't original and i had to get a supervisor to re-look at it. After we got case complete it took two weeks to get an email with the interview date for my husband. Yes, my husband had his interview already and NO we did not get approved we got put on AP. The questions were about wedding, sex, religion, my trip to Pakistan, how we met.....they man whom interviewed my husband was in my opinion judging from setting eyes on my husband, he was giving him looks, was very rude and mean to my husband.It was a terrible experience for my husband, and when he was told that the case would be on AP he was devastated, when he told me we both cried on the phone and to be honest are still in shock. I came back to the states in December 2012 and since then I have not been with my husband, we miss each other terribly and were not expecting our case to be put on AP to be honest we knew nothing about AP didn't even know it existed. I want to make a trip back to Pak but it is very expensive the plane tickets so I do not know if it will be possible, all I know is how much I miss hi and need him. The embassy has complete control over our lives and they don't care how much they may destroy peoples lives. If you need any other info let me know, I will try to help any way I can.

    Pakistani Male AP Period At Islamabad Embassy

    in Waivers (I-601 and I-212) and Administrative Processes (221g)

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    My answers hope this helps in some way.....but i think it has to do with whatever the Co wants to do and is in the mood to do with your case.



    1.if you r referring to the beneficiary yes he did to Dubai for job. Not the reason for AP


    2.CR1. Not the reason for AP


    3.if you are referring to beneficiary no he has never changed his name. Not the reason for AP


    4.if you are referring to beneficiary his field is accounting but he is currently not working. Not the reason for AP


    5.No we only have a six year age difference, I am older (im the petitioner). Not the reason for AP


    6.the beneficiary has never applied for a visa to travel to the usa. Not the reason for AP


    7.never received anything but approvals from USCIS and NVC. Not the reason for AP


    8.neither one of us have been arrested for a crime. Not the reason for AP.


    New Islamabad AP-Tracker, Part II

    in Waivers (I-601 and I-212) and Administrative Processes (221g)

    Posted · Edited by inlovebutlonely

    Hello Friends :

    I was thing about AP at Islamabad embassy on different scenario. about 90 % people get AP result after interview but 10 % get approved why ..

    Their circumstances make impact on visa interview or they are lucky .. Please answer some question according to your situation here so that we can understand & differentiate between them.

    * Have you been travelled outside Pakistan & result AP ?

    * Are you on K1,K3 OR CRI visa status & result AP ?

    * Have you changed your name or spelling & result AP ?

    * In which field you are doing job in Pakistan & result AP ?

    * You and wife ( USC ) have big age difference ( 15 year ) & result AP ?

    * Have you applied Non-Immigrant visa and got refused & result AP ?

    * Did you receive REF at USCIS stage & result AP ?

    * Have you arrested for any crime & result AP ?

    You can add more question as you like & answer

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    My answers hope this helps in some way.....but i think it has to do with whatever the Co wants to do and is in the mood to do with your case.

    1.if you r referring to the beneficiary yes he did to Dubai for job. Not the reason for AP

    2.CR1. Not the reason for AP

    3.if you are referring to beneficiary no he has never changed his name. Not the reason for AP

    4.if you are referring to beneficiary his field is accounting but he is currently not working. Not the reason for AP

    5.No we only have a six year age difference, I am older (im the petitioner). Not the reason for AP

    6.the beneficiary has never applied for a visa to travel to the usa. Not the reason for AP

    7.never received anything but approvals from USCIS and NVC. Not the reason for AP

    8.neither one of us have been arrested for a crime. Not the reason for AP.

    New Islamabad AP-Tracker, Part II

    in Waivers (I-601 and I-212) and Administrative Processes (221g)

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    hey guys . we need your help .. my wife made 2500$ in 2011 and the same she did in 2012 but in 2013 she made 29000 $ .than she started a new job since june 2013 to till now she has made 34000$ .. so is it be enough for 4 family member ? and what year we should mention in affidavit 2013 or 2014 ? please any help will be highly appreciated .. thanks alot all fo you ..

    http://www.uscis.gov/sites/default/files/files/form/i-864p.pdf

    as u can see for a family of 4 income needs to be at least 29,812. She needs to put her current income for the question of how much she makes, but when she submits her tax form it has to be the latest which is 2013...........but there is a section that she needs to list the last 3 years income. I hope you can understand and hope this helps

    i want to understand my husband

    in IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports

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    http://www.uscis.gov/sites/default/files/files/form/i-864p.pdf

    your husband should not waste his time sending the paper work if he is currently not making the 24,737 he needs to make to support all 3 of you. He WILL need a cosponsor, and yes it is true here ppl are very cautious with their ss #'s and their tax paperwork but if he has family i dont understand why they wouldn't help. I needed a cosponsor for my husband and my family helped me. You should ask him the real reason why he doesnt want to ask for help.

    If my income is well over 125% of the poverty line, can I just use I-864EZ?

    in Bringing Family Members of US Citizens to America

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    if you make enough to support your family and the ones you want to sponsor, i dont think there is a need to list assets

    http://www.uscis.gov/green-card/green-card-processes-and-procedures/affidavit-support

    http://www.uscis.gov/sites/default/files/files/form/i-864p.pdf

    make sure you are including all your dependents and the ones you want to sponsor when you look at the guidelines

    fiance down

    in Moving to the US and Your New Life In America

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    Well, I must ask are you also Spanish? the reason i ask is about the cooking. I am sure there are Spanish restaurants in Chicago, i wonder will he complain about the food then? In regards to everything else I think he wouldnt b bored if he contributed to the house work you are the one earning he should help with everything else cleaning, laundry, and of course taking care of the kids. I find it disheartening reading the things you post cuz he knew he would b coming to another country and he was ok with it. and i dont know why he talks so much bad about the us when dr is not the greatest countries. I know for a fact. I would tell him if he hates it so much and he only cares about his other child in dr then he should leave. I cant believe you had to hire a babysitter when he is at home doing nothing. I am disgusted at this man and his behavior. I am ashamed that he is Hispanic and is behaving like this. tell him to man up and actually try to be open this change and allow God to bring him and your family happiness. If he so much believes in God he should know that he needs to do his part.

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