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DutchmansLady

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    DutchmansLady got a reaction from Soloenta in Jan 2015 Support and Rant Thread   
    I could just cry..I called NVC waited 45 minutes to get Arthur ...got the dang 60 day spiel. He says the documents havent been reviewed and that I HAVE to give it the 60 days ! I also asked him how long is it between review and CC showing up in his computer and he stated 2 -3 days.
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    DutchmansLady got a reaction from Soloenta in Jan 2015 Support and Rant Thread   
    Thank you guys....oh geeze....I have panic attacks and anxiety daily because of Complex PTSD ...just remember to breath and refocus...harder said than done I know.
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    DutchmansLady got a reaction from Soloenta in Jan 2015 Support and Rant Thread   
    I called on Monday and will be calling today again ...please pray for CC ...THANK YOU
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    DutchmansLady got a reaction from Soloenta in Jan 2015 Support and Rant Thread   
    Is it pointless to call if you don't have the 3 NAs ? I would call every day if I had the 3 NAs but I don't as of yet .It is such a loooong stressful wait on the phone with NVC just to be disappointed. I am a big baby ..I end up depressed and crying from frustration .I am so scared of another checklist and this is not good.We are all desperate for our CC but I feel like such a wienie sometimes.It is so much easier for me to be supportive of others but when it comes to myself I fall short.

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    DutchmansLady got a reaction from Soloenta in Jan 2015 Support and Rant Thread   
    OMGGGGGGGGGGG I just saw this...I am sooooooooooooooo happy for you !!!

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    DutchmansLady got a reaction from Soloenta in Jan 2015 Support and Rant Thread   
    I sure hope so or the weekend will be so looooong!
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    DutchmansLady reacted to tm81663 in Just a General Thank You and some advice   
    This isn't a question or concern I'm sending out there, there are plenty of those I've already posted.
    This is just a thank you to all the contributing members of this site and the administrators that have helped so many people, including my wife and me, these past years. My wife just got her CR-1 approved last month and I KNOW we couldn't have done it without this site's help.
    Our case was pretty clear cut and simple, but it still took 450+ days from NAO2 to interview. But this site helped us understand the process, relieved tension/worry, and explained things without judging.
    I feel sorry for the people who don't know about this site and go in blind to the details of the process. Sure the government websites do lay out the basic key info/steps pretty well, but the detail is not there of what to expect.
    There was a guy outside the consulate office waiting with me while our wives were in the interview at Juarez. He looked upset/concerned, and could only complain about what a waste of money the lawyer he hired was. That talk made me realize how lucky I was to find this site. I think 99% of his worry/concern was that he probably didn't know the full process/expectation cause he relied on paying a lawyer to "take care of it". But when you do that, you have to trust someone you don't know, and NOT know exactly what is happening, hoping for the best outcome. During the interview, I was cool as a cucumber because Visa Journey and the people on the forums explained every detail of what we were about to go through, and that gave me the confidence to know things would work out eventually, without the added cost of a lawyer. (not saying people shouldn't get a lawyer if they need one for certain cases, but regardless, they should be reading and re-reading this site to know what the lawyer should be doing for them)
    Thanks again, and keep up the good work. Even though the hard part of our process is over, I will continue to be on this site and try to help anyone that has questions that I can answer.
    tom
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    DutchmansLady reacted to Robisons in Jan 2015 Support and Rant Thread   
    Ps. I just saw a Nov. 12 checklist get CC on Facebook. We might both hear before the weekend!
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    DutchmansLady reacted to wbeem in Can everyone relax a bit?   
    Last time I checked, I was an adult. That said, please don't tell me that I can't post just because you don't want to read what I have to say. You're equally welcome to block my account and not read my posts.
    -William
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    DutchmansLady reacted to Laeia in NVC Filers - January 2015   
    When you get a case complete, can you please advise of your scan date?
    Thanks! also Congrats to everyone who had thei cases completed. Gives me a bit of hope!
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    DutchmansLady got a reaction from Soloenta in Jan 2015 Support and Rant Thread   
    A little something for anyone that needs it today....a big stress relieving hug,wish's and prayers for Case Complete,quick interview dates and no AP !

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    DutchmansLady got a reaction from Soloenta in Jan 2015 Support and Rant Thread   
    Oh nooooooo...so sorry that you got a checklist...I know how it feels. We checked our form about 10 times each or more before we mailed them and still received a checklist. My husband is IT and is very precise about details and we stiiiillll got a checklist. It seems like it doesn't matter how hard you try to avoid errors...they can still be overlooked. I think it is like this.....you can not see the forest for the trees...the forest being the error.The harder we look for errors or missed boxs etc the easier it is to miss one. The forms really need to be overhauled and written in a way that is not confusing. The date thing can happen to any of us....and it does.
    Dont beat yourself up about it....you cant change that it happened .

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    DutchmansLady got a reaction from Soloenta in Jan 2015 Support and Rant Thread   
    " I so agree thank God you come from a little to zero fraud country and I would start calling on Monday your very close to your CC I'm praying hard all goes well and you can get your Feb interview and if not you can e-mail then and request an earlier date. " Soloenta....do you think it is too early to call being we had Christmas and New Years Holidays in the end of our 60 days for checklist ? I am so tired of the disappointment . We are on day 53....what do you think ?
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    DutchmansLady got a reaction from zodiac in Jan 2015 Support and Rant Thread   
    UGGGGGGGHHHHHHH why does every day feel like a month ??? It takes nearly 9 1/2 months to have a baby and a year plus to get a Visa to reunite family...somethings wrong here
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    DutchmansLady got a reaction from Soloenta in February 2015 Interviews   
    We have a Nov 14 AOS scan date which means our 60 days for the checklist is up on Jan 12 2014 . I am diving in here prematurely to save a spot for my soon to be CC and miraculously a February interview. Good luck with your interviews everyone !!!
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    DutchmansLady reacted to Soloenta in Jan 2015 Support and Rant Thread   
    Yes finally don't have to work to fix something its a relief after so much BS. Ty
    How are you doing doll, how was your New Year's Eve.
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    DutchmansLady got a reaction from Soloenta in Jan 2015 Support and Rant Thread   
    Great News for you!!!
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    DutchmansLady got a reaction from Soloenta in Jan 2015 Support and Rant Thread   
    Im the first to rant ! Stupid checklist...I want my CC ...there that feels better already
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    DutchmansLady got a reaction from BRosa in Jan 2015 Support and Rant Thread   
    Im the first to rant ! Stupid checklist...I want my CC ...there that feels better already
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    DutchmansLady got a reaction from Soloenta in Welcome to the December Support and Rant Thread 2014   
    I am too lazy to write my own Happy New Years post and you do it so well Soloenta so I am stealing yours ... Happy CC to everyone still waiting too !!!
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    DutchmansLady reacted to BatmanFlow in Welcome to the December Support and Rant Thread 2014   
    Checklist for documents Nvc had lost. Then when I got the checklist email I saw that Nvc reps gave me the wrong info about what was needed in the checklist. I spoke to a supervisor and gave him the entire ordeal. Also wrote to our senator (but I don't think this did anything). Very blessed the supervisor found our papers and gave us a CC
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    DutchmansLady reacted to nanana in NVC Filers - December 2014   
    Hello everyone,
    I was looking for some miracle today and magic "n/a" and I have found it!
    I called nvc already and we have Case Complete as of yesterday (12/30)!!
    no interview date yet.
    no checklists. scan date - 11/12/2014
    I am crossing my fingers for all of you !!
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    DutchmansLady reacted to Husakovic in NVC Filers - December 2014   
    Congrats to everyone who has a CC. I don't wanna be a total but I think it's messed up that NVC is doing Dec. * when there is still hundreds of people waiting from November....thanks NVC.
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    DutchmansLady reacted to BatmanFlow in Welcome to the December Support and Rant Thread 2014   
    OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG
    I just checked my status and its 3 NAs. I almost thought something was wrong. omg, im shocked. I am speechless. #######. holy did it actually happen?!?!?!
    I am shocked.
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    DutchmansLady got a reaction from Soloenta in Welcome to the December Support and Rant Thread 2014   
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