Domineke

short girls get all the tall guys! lol such a waste! i'm 5'7 and FINALLY I found someone I can wear heels with and not be taller than him.
But anywho ur not the first person who's suggested that I bring up me living in JA with him. I mean I can bring it up just to see what he thinks about it but its not something i'm interested in. Aside from the terrible economy, extreme heat (that we both loathe) and all the damn mosquitos and sandflys I don't like the way I can feeeeeeel how much the Jamaican women hate me. I would be fighting somebody everyday and thats not even in my character lol Of all the times i've gone I can think of 3 women who were pleasant to me. the rest were just being phony because it was there job and the others didnt bother trying to hide their feelings, just plain rude and nasty for no reason. And I'm sometimes always nice to ppl! lol
But I digress, I'm going to continue to tread carefully and enjoy getting to know one another. Aside from the distance I'm completely happy with him.

Its def making me a lil paranoid and I havent voiced my concerns about it to him because I know he's gonna tell me exactly what I want to hear to ease my mind. I actually treat him better than any other guy I've dated because even with the distance he's the best damn bf I've had! Craziness! Def upgraded my phone plan after 2 months tho, no more overages for meeeeee. Thanks for your input

You raise a great point, it's possible for anyone to cheat. He could be living up the street from me and cheating. It's just worrysome to hear SO many negative experiences from women who have been in my shoes.

geeeez dont get too happy? you want me to have another sleepless nite? now i gots to worry bout how many phones he has?! its ok, i need to play devils advocate

We've talked about possible job prospects for him here; He's also expressed a desire to finish high school which I strongly support. I'm not expecting him to support me financially once were married but I do expect him to contribute. When I visit him I'll tell him I wanna move to JA while he finishes school so that way I can seeeeee his reaction rather than being on the phone.