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I'm glad you posted this. I just sent you an IM about it. Who did you send the info to and what did you have to send? I also need to withdraw AOS.

I agree and I started this thread because I thought it would be helpful. I didn't expect people to argue about opinions etc.

Thanks

he has only been here for two months and he cannot find a job well it takes time .. yes honey move on sorry it didt work out is he here on a k1

He is here on CR1

Your local court house has a DIY.

Got it. Please....let's keep this as positive ad we can. I appreciate all input and think everyone has been very helpful .

Sincere thanks. Any suggestions on whrreto get s divorce for a couple hundred $??

Thanks jamaicancricket

You definitely need to file for a divorce. It costs only a couple of hundred dollars . I would not take him off the insurance for now. If I am wrong, someone correct me, but I believe if he gets medical bills while you are married and he doesn't pay them , his spouse becomes responsible for the bills. The cheapes way to get out of this mess is to file for the divorce asap. He will also lose his greencard since he just got the confditional one.

Sorry to hear this happened to you. You are not responsible for what he did to you but you are responsible for how you handle it . Do this for yourself and for your child !

Thank you very much. I am trying to get strong and act quickly.

This is so surreal at times to think it's been over a year and a half if waiting and paperwork money ...hopefulness and excitement....all for nothing.

Thanks to all for the suggestions and resources. I really appreciate the help.

This is a living nightmare.

From what I've read though I'm still held to my affidavit of support even after divorce? Is this correct even if he has criminal harassment charges and a restraining order against him because of his domestic violence against me?

I should also add he went to a different state....one way to NYC but I was not told by him....he told my friend that and asked them not to tell me where he went which also makes little sense as I am the one who filed a restraining order against him.

What is ROC? Also he has been here only two months and has conditional residence. Getting a divorce costs money and that is one of my problems.

I have made a harrasment complaint and I was granted a tempo rary restraining order based on facts and photos. He has no basis to file claim against me. Hasn't he broken one of the conditions of his cr1 by commItIng dv

?

Temporary restraining order and the train station. Sorry...still shaking.

Is a situation in place whereby your Daughter can go stay with her Dad in the interim?

No...she just returned today from last week. He has been out since Friday. Her dad lives far and school starts again Tue

Also ... I go back to court Thurs to seek permanent RO as I'm not sure where he is or what he is capable of with his irrational behavior and anger.Add Reply 

I just found out that he asked a friend if she thinks I will take him back! This is insane...if he is thinking he is the victim here, this makes no sense. Right now my main concerns are my safety and that I don't want to have financial responsibility for him. He ran up over 1000 dollars in phone bills and I have no money for a lawyer. Do I take him off insurance plan? I need some clarity.

 my husband has this narcissistic personality disorder. Not sure if I should begin another thread but my situation is that I filed a tro against my husband yesterday after being discharged from hospital as a result of suicidal thoughts from his physical and emotional abuse. He apparently called my friends who took him to be station today. I'm still overwhelmed and devastated so I dont know what to di next. He's only been in US for 2 months and I have applied for jobs everyday trying everything and he does nothing but blame me...behave abusively and childish. He wants to be the man of house but isn't doing anything to accomplish that. I've felt like a prisoner in my own home. He has said if we were in his native Jamaica he would kill me. He constantly makes ongoing problems about nothing and accuses me of cheating or getting back with my ex husband. I feel he has beat me down emotionally. Helpful advice would be appreciated. I'm in a bad place right now and want to restore peace and happiness in my home for my daughter and I.

I go back to court next week to seek permanent RO as I'm not sure where he is or what he is capable of with his irrational behavior and anger.

He ran up a $1000 phone bill and that has stressed me out also. He is always playing the victim and says he loves me but has had me on an emotional rollercoaster.

I think my husband has this narcissistic personality disorder. Not sure if I should begin another thread but my situation is that I filed a tro against my husband yesterday after being discharged from hospital as a result of suicidal thoughts from his physical and emotional abuse. He apparently called my friends who took him to be station today. I'm still overwhelmed and devastated so I dont know what to di next. He's only been in US for 2 months and I have applied for jobs everyday trying everything and he does nothing but blame me...behave abusively and childish. He wants to be the man of house but isn't doing anything to accomplish that. I've felt like a prisoner in my own home. He has said if we were in his native Jamaica he would kill me. He constantly makes ongoing problems about nothing and accuses me of cheating or getting back with my ex husband. I feel he has beat me down emotionally. Helpful advice would be appreciated. I'm in a bad place right now and want to restore peace and happiness in my home for my daughter and I.

The time it took to write your post and read all of the answers would have been sufficient to go to the nearest SSA office and apply for a SSN.

This post was unnecessary. Thank you to those who provided helpful responses.

You don't need a social security number to work. The endorsed immigrant visa is sufficient by itself to complete the I-9.

I'm more and more confused. What is an I9?

What should he put on his job application if not SS#?

You don't need a social security number to work. The endorsed immigrant visa is sufficient by itself to complete the I-9.

I'm more and more confused. What is an I9?

That's what I thought. Thank you. How about the next step now that he is here?