sunandmoon

Synapses are firing. But the wiring is all mixed up. I wrote the manufacturer for a schematic, and this is what came back:

I'm not sure it can be fixed.

OP, you know, when you're telling these little stories? Here's a good idea - have a POINT. It makes it SO much more interesting for the reader!

OP, you know, when you're telling these little stories? Here's a good idea - have a POINT. It makes it SO much more interesting for the reader!

Complete rubbish. ^^^ Instead of making ridiculous sweeping generalizations about everyone else, why don't you talk about something you know about...you and your fiancée.
Everyone knows. And it's no surprise...
If you communicate with your fiancée the way you communicate here on VJ, it's no wonder you are having problems.
What woman is going to put up with that?
I see that the rest of your posts in this thread have devolved into your usual nonsense.

recently received visa. everything is fine = ask question how can visa be canceled.
does that make sense...

One dead giveaway is that Jr used the exact same initials on two different timelines for himself and his fiancée...JR & SEP...
He also used the exact same dates on the two timelines...
My two cents!!!

what questions you've posted have been ignored?
were they in theses threads?
http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/309970-n-400/page__p__4665545__fromsearch__1#entry4665545
http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/307811-school/page__st__15__p__4642967__fromsearch__1#entry4642967
http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/307414-wedding-question/page__p__4637134__fromsearch__1#entry4637134
http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/307414-wedding-question/page__p__4637134__fromsearch__1#entry4637134
http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/303276-form-i-134/page__p__4582401__fromsearch__1#entry4582401
http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/301382-traveling-with-k1-visa/page__st__15__p__4573562__fromsearch__1#entry4573562
http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/293044-f129-question/page__p__4440446__fromsearch__1#entry4440446
http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/290327-philippines-nbi-while-in-dubai/page__p__4404227__fromsearch__1#entry4404227
http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/289038-police-report/page__p__4382111__fromsearch__1#entry4382111

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This is called a chiasm. You see preachers using it a lot to make logical fallacies appear like wisdom.
A chiasm has symmetry like a poem does. In this case you have used the form ABBA. Because of the symmetry, it is pleasing to the ear, just like a rhyme or a song.
Another example for silly illustration: Don't dip your wick, or your wick will dip you. In this way, you can make any ridiculous thing sound "catchy". People with feeble minds give far too much weight to chiasms.
The interesting thing about this personal attack - and it is the second one - is that you are insisting to be the forgiving one; the one with the sense of humanity; the gentleman suffering stoicly.
But there's nothing gentlemanly about these personal attacks. They don't bother me because I am a student of manipulation and understand what the objective is here. I am invited to feel ashamed of myself. (It's called "shaming", and the irony is that the manipulator strikes at your ego with the shaming tactic whilst saying you should not let your ego control you!)
So you know that's why I point out the chiasm above. Because it is like using a poem to conceal an attack on a person's ego in order to manipulate them. It is actually the exact opposite of what it pretends to be and is therefore highly deceptive - it uses your ego against you while claiming to be the advice of not letting your ego get the best of you.
Dissecting manipulation is fascinating to me so thanks for the opportunity.
The backdrop to this whole relationship drama has been the insinuated theme that she is manipulating you for an immigration visa. But the record has been created by you, and it contains an awful lot of manipulative tactics - all the cryptic statements instead of frank, clear communication... insinuation and allusions instead of plain facts. The speaking in riddles and the shaming, guilt-tripping etc. like above.
After instilling doubts in our minds with all these red flags, then you've attacked us for having the doubts you put in our minds in the first place. Classic.
She may indeed be manipulative, but there's no doubt that you are, and I don't mean it as a personal attack. But rather, we are being manipulated here and whatever the whole story is - we're not getting it. One possibility is that all the cryptic red flags are just little plays you're making.
I don't know. The only one who knows is the one concealing things behind the cryptic insinuations and these manipulative responses.
Cheers.

Moderators...At the request of the OP, please remove the posts below because they are all off-topic. Thank you.

The art of manipulation includes speaking in riddles instead of straightforward, frank communication. There is a kind of manipulator that gets everyone involved in their personal crises, getting their kicks out of others investing their emotional energy. They're always doing the wrong thing and getting victimized, so nobody thinks their motives could be suspect. They're always assuring us emphatically how innocent and sincere they are. And look how they've laid themselves bare for everyone to see...
Except that with this personality they also conceal things that heighten the drama. They allude and insinuate instead of just stating facts plainly. People are baited with part of the story but never the whole thing.
The name is actually "Emotional Vampire", which points out the hypocrisy in the business about giving without getting anything back. The vampire very much feeds off others, sucking the emotional energy out of them. People put their energy into giving advice that has been sought out by the vampire, and the vampire creates this emotional roller-coaster. Sometimes the vampire seems to be doing the right thing and people who have given up on him start putting their faith and energy into the "atta boys" - and then their hopes are dashed upon the rocks.
Hard to predict this one because the motivations are not normal and the severity unknown. But the more disordered, the greater the calamity sought.

some of what was been posted are sterotypical generaliztions, not facts. some of us can tell the difference.

some of what was been posted are sterotypical generaliztions, not facts. some of us can tell the difference.

I live in a southern state (GA) and I understand your frustration TCO, many folks here feel the same way you do, but come on man we can send a rocket to the moon but no one in government has a clue about proper HUMAN relations. Instead of vilifying a certain ethnic group for crossing the border illegally in search of a better life why not put heads together and solve the issue humanely geez. That is what's wrong with America, we seem to always quickly cast out and throw dirt on anything outside the norm, if its not strictly by the book then Big Gov't do not want to deal. It's this collective habits of thought that keep us as a country from reaching our true potential. We need to stop voting these same old bigot buzzards into office ad get past the old, established ways of the past and become more creative dealing with humans. Goodness, if GM can finally build an automobile where the bumper stays on then I know thinking heads can come together and find solutions to human relation issues. I mean seriously this thread was about a life being taken abruptly.

do you believe everything you see in the movies...

OK....I'm fine with that. I'm content to see his post gone.
Thanks for responding quickly.
How the mods gonna stop him from repeating his statement? This is not the first time he has made comments like this...? What's your advice?

maybe it's a way of leveling the playing field, considering remarks you made in the past about being a man's world in the Philippines. I will not dignify them by qouting.

maybe it's a way of leveling the playing field, considering remarks you made in the past about being a man's world in the Philippines. I will not dignify them by qouting.

maybe it's a way of leveling the playing field, considering remarks you made in the past about being a man's world in the Philippines. I will not dignify them by qouting.

What's your point? You seem to be running out of words. Are you still advocating for ignorance through punishing children by denying them schooling?

IMO, This thread is totally derailed.
TCO:
Why would you use this thread for an illegal's debate platform?
This thread is about the murdering of a Pinay by her (monster) husband...it seems pretty callous that you would seize an opportunity to spew anti-illegal's rhetoric on this thread....you have been posting your opinion regarding illegal's on various threads...most if not all of the threads (where you are doing this) have nothing to do with illegal aliens....here's an idea.....Start a (new) illegal alien thread!
btw....good to see that you are (at least attempting to) reading. Keep it up! It might open your mind to ideas you haven't thought of or been exposed to.

Oops...you forgot to read your own link:
Many sheriffs and city police chiefs have criticized the bill, saying they already are helping officials prosecute and deport illegal immigrants but don't want more mandates from the state. Other critics said the bill could allow local police agencies to become de-facto immigration enforcement agents and let rank-and-file officers spend all the time they want enforcing immigration laws no matter what managers want.
Of course, you will be the first to complain about the increase in taxes caused by the additional law enforcement.
Oops...here's something else you missed in your link:
Nationwide, their numbers declined between 2007 and 2009, from 12 million to 11.1 million,