nate and riyn

Very true,she is very selfish.
Send her home and find another one who can truly love you and love your kids.

I TOTALLY AGREE WITH YOU bet all he wants is to stay in america...lol... better to go home... coz you still have a lot of paper processing before having a citizenship or even green card in there... and every paper processing you need your wife

ggeezzz.... then better to go home... dont find ways to stay in america if not because of staying with your wife if you cant tolerate her and if you cant go to the police you have no other choice but to go home dear i dont think america will let you stay either

after reading your reasons... seems like all you want is to stay in america and leave your wife. if you cant live with her then better go home. you said you got friends to help you financially, you can even find ways to find a money instead finding ways to please your wife and be happy being together. tsk tsk tsk..

after reading your reasons... seems like all you want is to stay in america and leave your wife. if you cant live with her then better go home. you said you got friends to help you financially, you can even find ways to find a money instead finding ways to please your wife and be happy being together. tsk tsk tsk..

You deal with the what when it happens, not to create an environment to make it happen. Marriage has it's ups and downs, they seem to be at a down time.
A sucess marriage requires alot of hard work, you seems to have missed that part.

Actually I do understand since I myself was beaten by an ex. But it only happened once bc I called the cops and ended the relationship that is what you do when someone beats you. So don't go around telling ppl they do not understand when you do not know their story. You claim she beats you then call the cops easy as that. If anyone lays their hands on you you call the cops. And if its such a horrible situation then leave. And I did give you good advice the first time I around you just chose not to read my entire comment. First off your situation is fishy and if you are trying to adjust your status I am just pointing out that its fishy and USCIS agents will think the same thing. It will be that much harder for you to be approved. If you cannot deal with answers then don't post here.

Sounds like to me you already had all this in motion and had no intention of staying with your wife when you arrived. Now you are saying...your "Liberian friends and some American are willing to help you financially", then why do you keep saying "I just need help as far a money"? Do you have friends or don't you have friends who are willing to help you financially?
..."and a sponsor". You HAD a sponsor, she is called YOUR WIFE.
It seems to me there were probably somethings (brought on by you) with the neice...and you two probably got kicked out of the folks house. Who did you wife chose?...Sounds like you, since she is working herself to the bone for 6 bucks an hour. For that little, I'm amazed she found anywhere for you two to stay.
I'm sorry, but your story keeps changing. I'm usually a very positive person who sees the bright side of every situation, but I've also been an abused woman...and you sir, are not an abused man. If you were truly being abused, you would have already walked away and one of your "friends" would have made sure you made it to a place to show your proof of abuse.
The answer to your question...do you need your wife? YES, for every step of the process.

Rephrasing that a bit for clarification: Yes - you have to be married to your wife, and proving a relationship for AOS. Doesn't sound like you have what you need to prove a relationship, and if you don't prove relationship, you cannot stay. If you do not have the money to file for AOS, you will have problems as your status will expire, and you will then be illegal. If you do not stay with her, you cannot adjust status no matter who pays for it, and again, you will be here illegally.
As to your other points:
1) You are not in prison - walk out the door to a shelter, embassy, police office, social agency, fire station, grocery store, gas station.. anywhere.. and ask for assistance
2) Discrimination does happen - but I strongly doubt that everyone you meet is discriminating against you as people in the south are generally very friendly - haven't you heard of southern hospitality?
You need to think about what you're going to do next. If I were a case officer, based upon what you've revealed here, I would assume you thought you had an easy in to the states with this woman as easy prey, now you are not pleased with her lack of funds, which would lead me to think visa fraud. Add to the pot that you have 'friends' willing to do a VaWA and help you get adjusted, and you just want to stay . Sounds very much like you've been getting coached, but its not working quite as you wanted. If this is NOT the case, then you need to man up, and deal with the situation. Either work it out with her, or return, but quit stating you are in prison. <br class="Apple-interchange-newline">

Yes - you have to be married to your wife, and proving a relationship. Doesn't sound like you have what you need to prove it. If you do not have the money to file for AOS, you will have problems as your status will expire. If you do not stay with her you cannot adjust status no matter who pays for it, and you will then be here illegally. If you are as miserable as you sound, your best bet is to request assistance returning to home country, and working out the divorce

There was nothing that was stated orginally that indicated that there was any kind of abuse happen. You wants to turn every situation ino your new found toy. If Mr. King wants out of his marriage it's quite simple, open the front/back door and leave. He is not being held hostage in his room.
What he doesn't want to do is leave without his newfound toys, or waiting for someone like you to offer him some new ones.
This is just a martial situation that should never have happen in the 1st place. He is the only one that will know if he would be safer and happy on the streets of US, or back a home on familiar grounds.

+1

As I have less tolerance of you who have taken the "S" out of serious. Every situation is not a vawa, nor should every immigrate stay in the US if their new life is not working out.

U should travel bac to your country B4 the0 days is up, (low self esteem)theres 2 sides to every story & the 3rd, because U
have met friends from your country no tellng whats going thru her mind, if U do things the right way then U may
obtain a visitor visa in the future and not feel obligated, also @ $6.00 per hr even living with her family is
below the poverty line, motels R at times seedy, drugs& prostitution etc staying there can cause U to be rounded
up in a sting.......hopefully U were not flirting wth the neice causing this jealousy....... good luck

Another failure of the K1 process. USCIS really needs to give an automatic class of visa to beneficiarys so that they have an opportunity to come and visit the US before approving these petitions.
Of course your Wife (you did get married?) was a different person and in vacation mode when she came to visit. The daily struggles of day to day lif ein the USA, even for the middel class, is a far cry from when they are on vacation.
Anyways, what is done is done, I don't think you qualify for VAWA since there was no abuse but it can be molded into an abuse case my morally flexible folks. Your best bet is to suck it up Man and git her done. Work with your Wife, go to counselling, be her partner, let her see that once you adjust and can work then you can contributwe and you can move out of roach motels.
If that's impossible then no other choice but to go back home and reset.
Good luck my Brother.

Wow that is tough. Have you considered going back to your home country? If you stay and don't intend to marry her, you will be here illegally.

Be patient it's all a waiting game
It will come
You'll get an email or text probably this week

Welcome! First, it is a Petition for Fiance/e visa. You will not apply for the visa until the petition is approved. The next steps are found in the 'Guides' at top. You are going to be waiting anywhere between 4-7 months more than likely. If your petition went to the California Service Center, you are probably looking at 4-5 months right now. It varies but don't expect any updates for at least 4 months. The current AVERAGE processing time is 5 months. You can also fill in your 'Timeline' in your profile with the date that your first received your petition receipt. We call this 'NOA1'. You will then get a generated estimate of how long it will take for your petition to adjudicated based on other members' statistics and current USCIS processing times. The petition approval notice is 'NOA2'. It helps us all determine when we should be prepared for a response.

I don't know the answer, but I m sorry to see that after such along journey you want it to come to an end

I feel like he could try that but only if she's high risk.... if it were that easy to get cases expedited based on pregnancy then EVERYONE would get pregnant.

nope i think you'll get deny....few months ago i file for expedite with same reason..it was deny...to make things worst seems that they hold my case longer lol i tried 2x no luck...unless i guess my fiance body will be found floating somewhere probably they will consider it lol

I check it so often because I really have nothing to do at work sometimes. Yes my job is awesome, but BORING. It gives me something to do too.

Amen to that! And that's the hope I hold on to!
Unfortunately there's nothing you can do but wait

Yeah. But Being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus. Amen. 