Congratulations, Kathryn! Good to know VJ can still be helpful, even to those with limited ability to express themselves because of language and cultural differences, because of people who think like you do.
I believe love is a thing shared by two. You love her,but I am convinced she doesnt love you. Does she love you,what do you think?. Regarding the black fever forget about it, it's a bs excuse her parents gave you believe .Don't worry where she will live,don't be sorry for her,focus in protecting yourself otherwise in few weeks you will post a new thread here saying "my wife put me in jail for 03 days", I saw here in the visa journey at least three posts from guys that spent some days in jail due false alegations. Take care of yourself man. Dont try to find love let love find you. Good luck.