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    vinnylc got a reaction from mrettercap in I opened my eyes!!!   
    couldnt have said it better myself...100% right.....the only reason she isn't being looked down at is because of shear luck that he was a dog...
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    vinnylc reacted to Rob_Lesya in Is 20 picture's enough for interview   
    No one can really answer that for you except the Consular Officer who will be looking at them.
    ONE photo of the two of you together can be enough --- if that photo, along with your other evidence, convinces the CO that you are worthy of approval.
    On the other hand, if you have 10 photos of YOU standing outside the Kremlin, and 10 photos of HER standing outside the Kremlin and NO photos of the two of you together -- then the photos are absolutely worthless as evidence.
    Don't focus on the number of photos--- but what do these photos say to someone looking at them.
    A photo of you and her together(shows that you've met but doesn't prove much more)-- good
    Photos of you and her together at different places(shows that you spent at least a little time together)-- better
    Photos of you and her together at different places during different trips (indicating that you've met more than once)-- even better
    get the idea....
    Photos of you and her together with family are also very good -- gives at least some indication that you have a serious relationship.
    Again, focus on what the photos say about your relationship to someone looking at them for the first time.
    For both our K-1 and CR-1 interviews, my fiance (and then wife) took about 20 or so photos with her. In both cases, the CO only looked at 1 photo and then told her she was approved.
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    vinnylc reacted to C-ma'am in Interview Tomorrow   
    Oh c'mon! Be more positive! Turn that "No" into a "YES" and that "IF" into a "WHEN"......
    When it comes to the ticket, remember... Don't buy the ticket until she has her visa in her hands! As soon as she receives her passport back, she MUST check that all the information on it is PERFECT (names, date of birth, etc)... Once she gave you the OK with that, go ahead and get it.
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    vinnylc reacted to joevegas in I opened my eyes!!!   
    Great answer..Exactly how I feel,I quit my great paying job of 25 years,,Gut my pension short, gave almost everything I have away,If after 3 days my wive told me that this was not a good idea,I don't know what i would of done?..I had absolutely nothing left back in Canada...When I first got here I had doubts in the beginning to,as I'm sure did my wive,marriage is all about learning...I now could not imagine not having her in my life..I don't see how you deserve a thumbs up for that??..At least not after less then a week?...sure not all marriages are gonna work,but give it some time.
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    vinnylc reacted to Ban Hammer in I opened my eyes!!!   
    one post making a personal attack removed
    this is not true.
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    vinnylc got a reaction from sabi in I opened my eyes!!!   
    ya thats true....either something else was going on that we don't know about.....or there was never really love there in the first place....sad to say but more people in these situations think they are in love but really aren't...they seem to be in love with the "idea" of this person rather than the actual person...which is why so many people that do this type of marriages get hurt and split up and give the genuine ones a bad name...cough cough "Russian mail order bride"...its easy to fall in love with the idea of someone and what they may or may not represent....its a lot harder to love them unconditionally for who they are and stick with it...but this is just my opinion...
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    vinnylc reacted to C-ma'am in I opened my eyes!!!   
    Don't jump into conclusions so quickly... it takes two to tango.
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    vinnylc reacted to Iyawo Ijebu in I opened my eyes!!!   
    Thank you.
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    vinnylc reacted to Peter_Pan in I opened my eyes!!!   
    If God were good, then he wouldn't have made you uproot a dude because you felt like it, only to change your mind 3 days after he arrived. I hope karma gets to you, lady.
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    vinnylc reacted to OnMyWayID in I opened my eyes!!!   
    What?? No that's not what its about at all..... She got very lucky.. OP: This easily could have been a case of uprooting someone who changed their life to come be with you in a new country only to have you say "sorry, I made a mistake.. I led you and myself on for 8+months.. I'm bailing so it sucks to be you" ..... you did wait three whole days.. You could have ended up ruining someones life, instead you got lucky because your choice turned out to be dog who deserved it so it saved you having guilt.
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