Faithful2012

I got mine yesterday also

While not trying to minimise your indiviual circumstance but you will find every single one in the process having emotional distress.
Use the time to prepare for two or three stages ahead.

I have seen two people finish their K1 journey in a little less than 5 months so anything is possible....but I would advise that do not make any concrete plans....because the average is 6-9 months...but have faith that anything is possible.

Wow! It's so good to hear someone say that. I have been feeling horrible for sharing this news.

CONGRATULATIONS........APPROVALS YES I LOVE IT.....YAAY ........I WISH THE REST OF YOUR JOURNEY GOES SMOOTHLY........

You come to ask advise but you have your heart made up all ready that you will come to the US if you get a visa not matter how dark a lie you are making. The visa you applied for is for a couple to be together, yet you are no longer a couple. You have posted on a public board monitored by immigration and you are destined for AP where they will look at things closer. Is your soon to be ex still willing to sponsor you ? Does she know that she is on the hook for the affidavit of support long after you will be lying in the arms of another woman. If you sign divorce papers right after getting to the US you will be trying to remove conditions with no proof of have a valid relationship. Getting to the US is not the end of the battle and you are almost sure to lose your green card if you get it in the first place. If you want to do the right thing , which I doubt you do , you would call off the current interview, divorce the current wife and start a fresh and honest immigration process with your new love. If not you are no better than the 419 boys that Nigeria is known for. It is the type that scam their way through life that gives Nigeria a name good Nigerians hate. And from your words so far I see you are one of the bad boys.

Chances are he won't get a tourist visa so don't even hope on that. The way your post is written, I'm unsure if you've met before... if that is the case, please proceed with caution. If he's talking marriage before even meeting you that's a big red flag for fraud, and also, you NEED to have met before filing for the fiance visa, so in any case, start looking into visiting Nigeria first.

Oh, nevermind my post then, since you've met. Keep gathering evidence as sadly it's a very difficult consulate. Get letters from family members stating you've been together for a while. I personally would apply for a CR1, but I don't know if that's a better or worse option for Nigeria. Good luck, keep reading the guides and the regional forums especially and you'll be fine.

The chances of him getting a visitors visa is slim , so I would start thinking about plan B. If he does get a visa, using it with the intent of staying in the US by marriage is illegal and Nigerians are subject to an extra level of screening so if 10000 people here say they have done it, they are more apt to make an example of a Nigerian than any other nationality . You risk him being banned for life if that is your plan. You can file for a K1 ( fiance ) or a CR1 ( after you marry ) , Either take about a year

goodluck on the visitors visa the chances of getting one are very slim however it has been done so if you want to try that first then go right ahead. Once that has concluded i advise you to sit back and evaluate your overall situation and figure out which visa works best for you you K1/CR1....goodluck on your decision.....

BIGGGEST FRAUD EVER...DONT DO IT!!! READ THROUGH THE FORUMS AND YOU WILL SEE

I sent you a message, check it out.
sandra