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Also, I would recommend you talk to immigration lawyer to see your options! it might be useful to file ROC based on abuse , she keeps accuse you of domestic violence! because the divorce might take more than a year and if you file ROC based on divorce waiver like on December then expect uscis will send you a RFE by March asking for the divorce decree and they will give a month or 2 to send the papers back , and by that time I don't think your divorce with her will be finalized. Then, uscis might deny your ROC. So, it's good to start looking at your immigration situation more closely and consult a lawyer. I am also thinking since she is holding your immigration documents, it's already in her mind the idea to make trouble for you so you don't stay in the country so she can keep you away from your kid. So, she is doing nasty actions, and it's your time to move smartly to protect your status, and your rights.

Have you told the lawyer all you are missing as far as your personal documents and passport ? When you go to court the judge can make her or risk contempt of court if she doesn't return to you immediately. Having someones passport of any kind is a criminal act. Please list all that is yours and have your lawyer serve her papers. This is going on too long.
Don't worry about the cereal I have a 8 month old and she has had cereal like the other 4 before her since 2 weeks. With the venomous poison that spews out of wifey your baby needs some good nutrition.
Get the divorce, fight like hell for joint custody and soonest you get that divorce papers file for your Removal of Conditions. Be as nice as pie around wifey (I say wifey because she doesn't sound like she ever was a real covenant wife...commentary over). Start gathering your evidence now to prove a good faith entered in marriage should be no problem. Be sure to have your court papers (especially that dropped motion will help prove you aren't a loon).
Wishing you all the best and please be careful watch your back never be alone with her ever even with baby. And watch mum for real. Take care all the best.

Yes you should be able to go to the bank and get statements of the closed account. You don't need to demand these, its your right to get access to them. Also see to getting the police report of the visit, where entry was at first denied, and where you found the records had been destroyed. You do not have to sign a separation agreement just because she wants one. Unless the terms also meet your needs, you'd be advised not to sign anything. If you don't understand the agreement, then you should have your own lawyer looking it over for you also. You would be better placed if you file for the divorce yourself, stating your side of what you want out of the divorce. Also demand the return of the immigration documents, passport and other items she has withheld or disposed of. This can all be used as partial evidence of why they may be missing and possible award of damages for the costs you'll incure to obtain them again. You really need to get a lawyer on your side.