LSnBigBear

Thank you all for your replies! I don't know her personally,I came across her on Facebook.I am totally against visa fraud,which is why I was so hard on her.There are a lot of things that I cannot mention on this site.She has done so many things that I totally disagree with.Everytime that I tried to talk to her about it she told me I am negative.I have thought about calling ICE,but I don't wanna be seen as a bad person.I tried to tell her to leave ,as she has been ordered to leave.It has been almost two years and she is still here.I'm gonna leave here alone because I don't want to be involved in any kind of fraud.Will I get in any kind of trouble if I don't/do contact ICE?? Gosh...I feel horrible.

I can only say this is my second run at doing the fiancee Visa thing. My ex from 2007 came here ot USA even after I cancelled as it was a week before her interview we broke up. Somehow she slipped through and made it, believe it or not but it happened. When I foud out she was here I called ICE as I did not want anything under my name or responsibility. They took her name and even the address i knew she was staying but told me and I quote "sir unless she breaks laws, we are after about 10,000 or more criminals here that are illegal. She will not even be a blip on our radar but we will file it" So I say don't worry anymore about this and Good luck! Let her sink or swim on her own is my opinion... Yes I said earlier it is not right for all of us doing it legally. But not much in this world is fare for those that follow rules..... Thanks

Sorry, but this sounds like she is marrying for immigration purposes....which is fraud. She has been married or attempted to marry three times in as many years?

I believe this is fraud and would say to her she needs to leave volutarily or be prepared to live here without documentation.

Regards...

I agree it is fraud. I had two friends go through similar BUT it is a #######-shoot as to if they send her packing forceably. In this country from my understanding, once you're in they are not so quick to go after you if you are not causing any problems as with ICE they are more after the problem illegals. However as my friend's girlfriend is going through, she will always be illegal until the time he can afford an attorney and spend thousands on her AOS which can happen. Most know very well this woman in question will not leave knowing this. I have seen now 3 that over time the person gets their AOS using an Attorney. If she leaves she is out for good as she has over-stayed already. And having a child here they will not separate her child from her. Although I don't like what she did. I think she is better off just dropping it all for now and staying illegal. Sucks I know for all of us doing it the proper way. Thanks, Shawn

If God forbid your marriage did not work out and you ended up in divorce, would you consider doing this process for a second time?

Call me crazy but I am going to do this again. I went through the entire process 07-08 and upon her going through her medical we broke up (long story).. I met my now financee back in March while I lived in the Philippines. We have waited for me to settle back in as well as me starting a new job soon and deciding whether to go back and marry there or just do the K1.. Stay tuned for timelines within a few months. What I would not do is hire an Attorney this time to do my paperwork. I have learned it is easier just following the great people on VJ's instruction. My Attorney did nothing but cause me more paperwork that was unnecessary.. Details to follow agian lol...