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July15

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    July15 got a reaction from MattBo in Will Spouse visa get denied for Herpes PLEASE HELP   
    Gegel, already answered your question. Only those that are listed can be inadmissible -if she's under treatment she should be fine, but don't lie. Is better to tell the truth and receive some kind of a "waiting period" Than the Embassy finding out and be banned from the US for life.
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    July15 got a reaction from silverjetplane in civil documents to NVC: originals or photocopies+originals   
    I sent the Originals (in a cover sheet -saying originals) along with Copies with a sticky saying Copies.
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    July15 got a reaction from Ms C in I got the job!!!   
    That's great! It also took my husband 3 weeks to get a job after receiving his SSN. Contratulations! WE ARE ALSO VERY HAPPY!
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    July15 got a reaction from Ms C in Having a hard time getting a job..   
    My husband has been looking for jobs since he got his SSN -August 7th. Since then he has applied to almost every job in Craigslist -that didn't work UNTIL he started going to the JOB FAIRS. I'm happy to say that he got an offer yesterday (8/30 -22 days after receiving his SSN) in one of these job fairs, yesterday got he's drug test we're waiting for the background check. I don't know how long it will take but at least he will have his first job in America. It is a part time job at a thrift store, but is only 4 miles from home -since we don't have a 2nd car he will ride the bike.
    He also got a call from a Hotel for a second interview today, again he attended to the job fair. I hope he gets this one too -working for a Major Hotel Chain is nice for advancement.
    So, I agree with Ms C -go in person to apply for jobs. Go to as many job fairs as you can and tell them your situation. A lot of times these are recruiters and they want to get as many people as possible.
    Hope this helps! GOOD LUCK!
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    July15 reacted to bahialove in NVC Filers - March 2012   
    Congrats! what wonderful news
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    July15 reacted to sheeshkabelle in NVC Filers - March 2012   
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    July15 reacted to BocaChicaBabe in Big age difference   
    I agree. And as others have said, anyone that has red flags and is dealing with a tough consulate needs to look at their relationship the same way a CO would. Too many people like to argue that age shouldn't matter, but the reality is for certain countries it does matter. Too many people like to say "we know our love is real", but the CO doesn't know that and it's your job to prove it. So it's up to the couple to do their homework, prepare very well in advance, and provide enough evidence that's going to convince the CO. I knew I was going to be dealing with a tough consulate, so for anything about our relationship that I felt was a potential red flag and could be questioned, I worked to make sure I provided an overwhelming amount of evidence to overshadow that. And our interview was quick and painless. What I noticed about a lot of those denial threads where the woman is much older than her husband and claims that's the only reason for the denial, is the couple was not thoroughly prepared. The evidence of the relationship just wasn't there. You can have a million phone records, wire transfers, chat logs, emails, etc, but there's no better evidence than visits and spending time with your partner. However, when asked, a lot of those older women have admitted to not visiting often or only visiting once. Perhaps the age difference would have been less of an issue had there been more time spent together. It just seems like in a lot of these situations, age isn't the only problem the CO has with the relationship.
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    July15 reacted to Xanax in He's Gone ;(   
    I am so sorry for what has happened to you.
    I have read so many of your posts and it seems a great injustice that you have been treated this way. You have been through so much already.
    I so badly wanted to respond to some of your early posts, especially the latest one about how your spouse had changed but I just did not know what to say or truly what I thought the right action was.
    I really do hope you followup and report him as commiting fraud. I hope he is deported and I truly hope he is banned from the US so that he may never do this to anyone else.
    Try to get as much evidence as you can to prove that is was a fraudulent marriage, keep a record of these forums and your posts these might help as you have documented his actions, keep a record of his family contacting you and offering you money to not report him, surely that is ILLEGAL as well. Call them, email them, get proof. Can you get any of his friends to sms you saying something to the effect of "he was just using you for the visa", it sounds like you already have that.
    Try not to be sad "knowing you will not wake up next to him" you now know what he is really like. You DO NOT want to wake up next to a liar, fraudster and someone so calous as to use someone as seemingly lovely as yourself!
    Please know that my heart is with you and if you ever need someone to talk to or just someone to listen, please PM me.
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